I've written a lot of emotional articles, and the word "PUA" is mentioned from time to time, but I haven't talked to you separately seriously, so this one is going to talk about it well.
What is PUA, I believe many friends will be familiar with it. Knowing this word in the early years felt a little too exaggeratedMen manipulate women's feelings, such a plot sounds very sci-fi, just like making a movie.
It wasn't until later, when I heard more stories, that I realized that there were really many girls who lived an inhuman life after being PUA. 
Objectively speaking, when many girls fall in love, their IQ will plummet, and if they meet a very scheming man, then it is indeed easy to fall into the pit.
Moreover, once it is PUA, then it will only fall deeper and deeper. At this time, even if family and friends around you want to help with it, it may not be useful. So,If you want to prevent PUA, you should take precautions from the beginning. Typically,Men will have these 6 manifestations of your PUA, if you hit 3, you have to pay attention!
1.Exaggerated self-worth.
PUA men usually overemphasize their strengths and achievements, even at the expense of exaggerating them.
Their purpose is clear: to attract the attention of women by showing their "** value".
However, this ostentation often lacks authenticity, and behind it is their over-reliance on self-worth and their extreme desire for outside recognition.
2.Emotional unevenness.
PUA men often appear hot and cold in emotional expression.
They may show extreme enthusiasm and concern for women at first, but that enthusiasm can quickly cool down or even disappear once the goal is achieved.
They do this to make women emotionally dependent and unstable, making them more vulnerable to manipulation.
3.Trying to control the other party.
The desire to control is one of the typical characteristics of a PUA man.
They may use a variety of means to control women's behavior, such as criticizing them for dressing, speaking, or socializing.
This kind of control, which is not limited to overt words or behaviors, can also manifest itself in more subtle psychological manipulations, such as influencing the other person's decision-making through suggestion or emotional blackmail.
4.Rush to build intimacy.
PUA men are often in a hurry to establish intimacy with women, ignoring the natural development of their feelings.
They may use a variety of techniques to speed up the process, such as creating a romantic atmosphere or using sweet words.
However, this rush attitude exposes their superficial understanding of feelings and their motivation for self-satisfaction.
5.Evading responsibility.
When faced with a problem or mistake, the PUA man usually chooses to evade responsibility.
They will deny their own faults or shift the blame to others.
This kind of behavior not only shows their lack of sincerity and ability to solve problems, but also reveals their deep immaturity and selfishness.
6.Superficially caring, but in fact contemptible.
PUA men tend to be good at showing concern and thoughtfulness towards women in words and deeds, but this concern is usually superficial and lacks a sincere emotional basis.
Deep down, they don't really respect women, but see them as objects to satisfy their own emotional or sexual needs.
This kind of inconsistent attitude is the most subtle and imperceptible manifestation of PUA men.
Actually,There are many theoretical things that everyone understands, but when you are in them, it is difficult to extricate yourself.
If you can, try to break free and analyze your relationship from the perspective of a bystander.
As for the result, I believe I will have it.
Everyone hopes that everything they meet is a good person, but there are a lot of scum in this world.
So, let's keep an eye on it!
Finally, I want to say that,It's actually normal to be carried away by love
The point is, don't pretend to be ......asleep when it's time to wake up