Many wives encounter situations where they have clearly discovered the clues of their husband's cheating. But there is no way to convict.
Because the evidence is not enough to directly prove it, the cheating man will not admit it.
Even many cheating men will dump the pot on the original partner, saying that the original partner is suspicious and suspicious.
If wives want to solve this situation, they must understand what psychology the cheating man denies and respond reasonably to this psychology.
Scarlett has dealt with extramarital affairs before,
When a man is caught cheating, his first reaction is to deny that he has cheated.
And most of the original partners just found out that their husbands were cheating, and they didn't collect evidence, because they couldn't accept it, they felt painful, and the most common thing to do under emotional control was to find out the cheating man to confront them.
The wives have no evidence, and may only have seen the ambiguous chat records between the cheating man and the mistress.
A cheating man will deny it.
Cheating men deny the direction of cheating, and they can't escape both.
One is to directly deny cheating, saying that he and Xiao San are just ordinary friends and colleagues.
This denial is based on the fact that the evidence of the wives is very weak.
may be the ambiguity between the cheating man and the mistress, but it is not on the surface.
There are traces of ambiguity in the chat history, but it does not directly point to cheating.
Or the wives have other evidence, such as some intimate encounters between the cheating man and the mistress were seen.
The cheating man will also deny it, at most he will say that he didn't pay attention to the distance, and he will pay attention next time or something.
Another is to reduce the severity of your own cheating.
For example, the cheating man has been cheating with the mistress for a long time, but the cheating man will say that he just met the mistress.
The cheating man and the mistress have actually cheated, and he will also say that it is just an ambiguous stage.
In short, it is to make the cheating situation less and try to reduce their guilt.
The cheating man denied it because of the lack of evidence of the wives, for example, the wives had ambiguous chat records between the cheating man and the mistress, but they were not caught at the scene.
As long as the cheating man and the mistress are not caught in bed, the cheating man can continue to deny that he is really cheating.
Most wives don't tolerate mental cheating to the same level as physical infidelity.
The cheating man also grasped this point and tried to weaken the severity of his cheating.
Why would a cheating man deny it?There are mainly two kinds of psychology.
One is the luck mentality.
The explanation of luck psychology in psychology refers to the psychological activity of obtaining benefits by accident and accident, or avoiding misfortune, and by extension, people are greedy for more than enough, trying to get a difference, and unexpectedly succeed or avoid disasters.
The cheating man will deny cheating because he feels that as long as he doesn't admit it, his wife can't do anything about him.
And the wives have already been scared, and the cheating man will hide the extramarital affair later.
Then destroy all kinds of evidence, as long as it is good to conceal it, or break it off with Xiao San for a short time.
The wives have not been able to grasp the evidence, and the cheating man has also denied the existing evidence.
The wife can't prove the improper relationship between the cheating man and the mistress, so she can't help the cheating man and the mistress.
The other is to alleviate one's own guilt.
Really admit that they are cheating, what they have to face, the cheating man actually knows.
They don't want a divorce and they don't want to be constantly scolded by their wives.
So not admitting cheating, so that the wives have no way to do anything to them, is the best choice for cheating men.
Just like many children make mistakes, their first reaction is to say that they didn't do it themselves, or that they didn't do it on purpose, just to avoid punishment.
Aimed at men's denial behavior because of luck.
The most important thing wives should do is to gather evidence and make the cheating man undeniable, rather than arguing with the cheating man.
You have to be clear, you have no evidence, the man doesn't admit it, and it's useless for you to talk nonsense with him.
Wives had better not have a showdown with a cheating man easily, collect evidence first, and it is most beneficial for your wife to have evidence in your hand that a cheating man can't quibble.
If the best opportunity has been lost, the wives will be tougher.
No matter how the cheating man denies it, you just follow her as if she has cheated.
Divorce and divorce, punish cheating men when they should punish cheating men, and negate no one.
Maybe the cheating man will choose to confess and be lenient.
People are defeated by themselves, and first of all, they are defeated by their own emotions.
People who can't control their emotions, a word or a word from others, you can lose sleep all night.
After being cheated on, because of his emotions, he didn't want to think about the consequences at all, and he had a showdown with the cheating man directly.
Without any preparation, you accuse the cheating man, but the cheating man denies it, and you can't help it.
Because your emotions are out of control, you will suffer a lot of dumb losses, so be sure to control your emotions.
Learn to control your emotions, adjust your emotions, and all problems are not a problem.
If you have any emotional confusion or marital problems, you can pay attention to Scarlett and chat about the specific situation in private messages.
I'm Sijia Yin, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.