It is a disaster for people to get too close to the four types of people when they are old

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What kind of circle a person stays in, what kind of life he will live.

When people reach their old age, they must learn to streamline their circle.

We must know how to recognize people, learn to choose friends, and choose to make friends with people with integrity and integrity, so that life becomes simpler and purer.

It is a disaster for people to get too close to the four types of people when they are old

People who love to take shortcuts are not willing to be down-to-earth. I always want to achieve my goals and get more benefits in a faster way.

Befriending such a person will affect the rhythm of one's life, and even be assimilated by the other party, becoming blindly pursuing and rushing for quick success.

The colleague's father suddenly passed out and was taken to the hospital. After inquiry, I learned that his father reunited with an old friend, and the two often got together to talk, and the relationship was very strong.

An old friend revealed to his colleague's father that he was investing recently, and he would have income from sitting at home, and he didn't have to worry about eating, drinking and having fun.

At the instigation of an old friend, the colleague's father was also eager to try. He invested all the money he had saved.

At the beginning, there was indeed a profit every day, and the colleague's father looked at the number on the mobile phone every day, and his heart blossomed, so he invested another sum of money.

But in just a few days, the situation took a turn for the worse, and I was losing money every day. Soon he lost all his money, he couldn't accept the blow and passed out directly.

When you associate with people who love to take shortcuts, it's easy to yearn for them because you see other people's quick profits.

If you are unable to stick to your principles and follow in the footsteps of others, you will soon be disastrous in your own life.

You must know that most of the shortcuts in this world are detours and traps. If you want to live a stable life for a lifetime, you have to learn to walk steadily.

When people are old, stay away from those who have achieved nothing and like to squander money.

People who have achieved nothing have no requirements for themselves, no goals for life, and no way to take on the responsibilities on their shoulders.

In life, most of them rely on the help of their relatives to live. Xi is accustomed to having wine today and getting drunk today, not thinking about tomorrow at all, not thinking about the future.

It seems that he is living a very free and easy life, and he can eat and drink well without hard work.

If you get close to such a person, you will gradually subvert your perception of life, and you will inevitably relax your requirements for yourself.

As the saying goes: "It is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to go from luxury to thrift." ”

People who love to squander money will also consume their money quickly.

People, once they are Xi to spending money and feel the comfort brought by money, it is difficult to restrain their desires and will not cherish the days of coarse tea and light meals.

In the end, squandering one's money and making one's later life difficult is a disaster.

People who have too many bad Xi have a bad life and are very decadent.

People full of Xi always indulge their desires, consume their health, and spoil their bodies, and will definitely regret it in the end.

I've seen a paragraph ** that says:

A man's friend is a heavy drinker and often says, "There's nothing that can't be solved with a single drink." ”

In fact, it's just that after getting drunk, you can escape reality for a short time, and you can't solve the problem at all.

He was often very drunk. For a while, his career was not going well, he relied on alcohol to anesthetize himself, he didn't think about his responsibilities, he didn't pick up his family's **, everything, all of them were thrown aside.

Later, his wife ignored him, and his son thought he was a cowardly person, and gradually became estranged from him, and he became a loser who lived on alcohol.

On the road of life, don't expect to be able to harvest purity in the mud.

If you always make friends with someone who is full of bad Xi, you are destined to be infected with bad Xi by him. What he brings to you is only a more decadent mentality, a worse life.

When people are old, it is suitable to live a simple life and get along with simple people.

There is such a sentence in "Confucius's Family Sayings": "Living with good people is like entering the room of Lan Zhi, and you will not smell its fragrance for a long time."Living with the wicked, such as entering the abalone, does not smell its stench for a long time. ”

A person who is too deep in the city will not easily let others see through his thoughts, nor will he easily make real friends with others.

No matter how sincere others are, they still only see you as a person to use in their hearts.

People who love to calculate like to do one thing in front of them and one thing behind their backs. You can't see through his intentions at all, and you're no match for him at all.

If you get too close to someone who is too deep in the city, you will either be influenced by him and become calculating, or you will be used by him and suffer losses.

Either way, it's not good for you. You have to stay away from each other in time and return your world to a simple and real place.

In old age, you should make your life circle simple and full of warmth.

Learn to streamline your circle of friends, choose to make friends with simple, warm people, and make your life more stable.

Stay away from people with unreliable character, alienate each other's lives, and manage your own life with your heart.

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