When Zhou Nan was only 15 years old, the daily life of the Zhou family was completely shattered overnight. His father was a lawyer, his mother was a foreign company employee, and his mother's career was booming, and his dream began to sprout. His father, a man with huge assets and driving a luxury car, quietly appeared and promised to send him to study abroad. This is undoubtedly an excellent opportunity for a young man who is in adolescence and has big ambitions. He decided to study abroad. On the one hand, it helps to ease the educational burden on mothers and adoptive fathers, and helps them learn better how Xi can repay future kindnesses. On the other hand, it can also allow you to find new goals in this opportunity and lay a solid foundation for your future career. From another point of view, for him who does not know the truth, this is a good opportunity to gain insight into the character of his biological father, because the biological father wants to know his true intentions.
Zheng Juan was once completely broken by her innocent and childish thinking. The fact that Luo Shibin is unwilling to let go, she knows it. He was full of resentment in his heart, thinking that if Zhou Nan and her miscarriage had not been, he would not have done improper business. His "root of life" was destroyed and he was unable to be a proper father for many years. Zhou Nan became the only remaining hope. He is the Father, he is the Son. If Zhou Nan returned to the Luo clan and witnessed the empire he had built, a desire for a long life would surely spring up in his heart. The money on Luo Shibin is the surplus value that he can plunder, he is not worthy of the family's affection, and his ruthless and violent behavior directly destroys the fate of the entire family.
In the process of reading the original work, I suppressed the anger in my heart and released the strong hostility towards Luo Shibin. I think he's a man of conscience. He did not deserve people's sympathy, and the suffering he experienced was actually arranged by fate. He was in prison and was killed for the death of a woman, a woman. After leaving the prison, the relationship with Artesian gradually became cold. Artesian means he's going to kill himself!Shui Artesian learned from nearby residents that Tu Zhiqiang had died because he had taken responsibility for Luo Shibin's crimes. "Light word piece" is a sad name in his heart. Does this kind of person really deserve to have a son?Where is the soul of the artesian water?The shame brought by the "light word piece" is regarded as "scum" in the gangsters. In this darkness, how can the fate of a person and a family change?From a different perspective, it is indeed a human world that is so real that it touches the heart.
Luo Shibin, a wanderer who lived by stealing, stealing, and robbing, was not taught and restrained by his parents from his childhood to adulthood, and failure in school Xi was an irresistible reason. In his heart, there is no concern for his parents, and there is no love for him from relatives and friends. What embarrassed me was that Liang Xiaosheng used an understanding and tolerant way to make Zhou Bingkun understand the predicament faced by Luo Shibin. It is undeniable that Zhou Bingkun is an ordinary person who has dedicated his life to himself, and his life is full of twists and turns, often burdened with "family trivialities, inner worries and troubles in his heart."
When I read The World, I thought deeply about how to manage a marriage and experience the various facets of life. "The World" is a ** about love and marriage, and it is also an inspirational story about growth and struggle. Each of the people described in the book, and the remarkable traits they exhibited, had a profound impact on their lives. My friend, she's a girl, my friend, it's all a girl, it's all a child. In the process, I thought deeply about the "choice" Zhou Nan made before his death many times, which made me suddenly understand how resolute this young man's heroic behavior really was. It was a cold winter. Zhou Nan died to save others, and Zhou Rong and her mother were the first to learn the news. Zhou Cong's three words and a cigarette touched her deep longing for her brother, and made her deeply regret the pain of her brother's "inability to return".
Dad, I want this cigarette.
Dad, the misfortune that happened to my brother befell me.
Dad, you've got to keep going. I'll be later. There is no brother.
Zhou Cong suddenly woke up to the fact that this was the real "remorse" of the younger generation of the Zhou family, and Zhou Cong had always harbored resentment towards Nan Nan, thinking that she had destroyed the harmony of the family. It is no exaggeration to say that over the past decade or so, he has gone from high school to university, living in a completely uninformed environment. From the initial ignorance to a deeper understanding of the misery of the world, I gradually understood the deep affection between my father and my brother like father and son. In the process, he gradually learned to treat everyone in his life with "love". Although Zhou Nan is the pride of the family and is a Juris Doctor candidate at Harvard University, with good academic qualifications and extensive knowledge, due to Zhou Nan's "sad" background, Zhou Zhigang, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong never considered him the grandson of the Zhou family. They don't like this "little emperor", and they don't even believe that a person's child can inherit the worldEven if Zheng Juan's kindness to the Zhou family is deep, it is not too much. Nor can it change his fate. Zhou Nan is not her biological child, but from a humble family, so the treatment she receives in the Zhou family is far from that of Zhou Rong's daughter Feng Yue.
After 12 years, Zhou Nan did not hug his adoptive father Zhou Bingkun, who had been kind to him, so he could no longer express his emotions and wanted to apologize to him. It has been 12 years since he has reunited with his mother Zheng Juan, and there is not enough time in this life to fulfill filial piety.
1 late goodbye and apology.
Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned, and the Zhou family only left Zhou Juan, and with the assistance of Mrs. Qu, Zheng Juan got a handy position. It was because of this job that Zheng Juan sent Zhou Cong, the grandson of the Zhou family, from junior high school to college alone. After so many years of hardship, no one can really understand her. After the eldest son completed high school, he was sent to study abroad, but due to deep remorse, the mother and son have not seen each other for 9 years. Zhou Nan follows a series of principles that he has always adhered to. She was his daughter. The year he was released from prison, Bingkun's father began his journey to his hometown.
In the original work, Zhou Nan was only one year away from getting his doctorate, and unfortunately, he was killed while saving an unarmed old professor. I saw this report online. I was deeply shocked and outraged by that scene. I always thought that this was a very normal story, but later I found out that it turned out to be the beginning of a tragedy. When I first read it, I had a grudge against Liang Xiaosheng because why he wrote this unfortunate and outstanding teenager "dead", all he did was to become a real member of the Zhou family. He was a very talented student, but because he worked too hard, he was eventually pulled down by his own mentor. He worked and Xi abroad and worked hard to build good relationships with his mentors, all of which laid a solid foundation for his future career.
When I carefully read the ** conversation between Zhou Nan and my aunt Zhou Rong in Lyon, I finally found the answer. I remember that in her eyes, my niece was a "bad" child, her father was a "bad boy", and she was a "bad brother".I don't know why she said that. At that time, Zhou Rong had a deep hatred for her nephew in her heart, as described in the original book:
Zhou Rong's feelings for Nan Nan are obviously not as deep as her younger brother Bingkun. She has a kind of attachment to her brother, and this attachment stems to a large extent from the recognition of her brother's affection. In the past, she only knew that Nan Nan was not her brother's biological son, and her brother avoided talking about it, so she naturally didn't want to know more about it. Her deep affection for Nan Nan is mainly manifested in her self-awareness of her younger brother's family affection and her dependence on the friendly relationship between her younger brother and sister Zheng Juan, which is in line with the principle of "loving the house and Wu".
In the depths of Zhou Rong's heart, I deeply felt the horror of human nature. What she really cares about is that her younger brother Bingkun has suffered for up to 12 years because of this child, and because of this child, she has been forced to be separated from her brother and family for 12 years. Perhaps she was Xi to a comfortable life, but during this time in France, she gradually realized the true relationship between herself and Nannan.
In the book "The World", the hug that Zhou Nan longed for before leaving Leon was an action taken by Zhou Rong after listening to her daughter's words, which can be said to be the deepest compromise. Zhou Rong took such an action mainly to protect the emotional bond between her and her daughter, who knew her daughter's deep affection for Zhou Nan. Zhou Nan is already a doctoral student in the field of law who is about to complete his studies, and if he continues to maintain the indifferent attitude of the past, it will be too impersonal
In front of Zhou Rong, Zhou Nan has always behaved very cautiously and carefully, even if he has relied on his own efforts to achieve certain achievements in Haval. There is a longing in his heart to have his own home, to be as happy as he is. Zhou Nan longs for the long-term care and embrace of his family, and he feels that he lacks true family affection. Bingkun and Zheng Juan only gave spiritual and spiritual satisfaction, while the other members of the Zhou family gave comprehensive care and support. I don't know if she will give up her pursuit of life because of her luxury. Zhou Nan's high expectations made me feel a slight pain in my heart.
A brief reunion was not expected to turn into a long parting. Before leaving, Zhou Nan, with a cowering heart, asked Zhou Rong a question that did not constitute a problem:
Auntie, you and your cousin returned to China in half a year, and now is the moment when I should return to China, do you think my father will really forgive me at that time?Do you know why I'm like this?”
Obviously, if this is not the case, he does not belong to our Zhou family.
What should I do with that individual when I return home?Your biological father.
Zhou Rong provided her nephew with detailed explanations and clear answers to questions in a gentle manner:
Those who give life to themselves are actually blessed by God. Then he should do everything possible to provide you with such an opportunity. Grace is like the light of the sun and the moon, and anyone who is able to do so should reciprocate it. What's more, his desire to be your father is completely understandable and in line with the general sentiments of the people. But why did you come back?Therefore, my aunt felt that after your return to the country, you should not only have the opportunity, but also visit him frequently, and provide his son with the care and love of his biological father. His mother was also guilty. Isn't he already duly punished for the mistakes he made?Moreover, it is not an extremely unforgivable sin.
At this particular moment, Zhou Rong emphasized to Zhou Nan the importance of recognizing relatives from a correct position. He said that recognizing relatives is one of the greatest joys in life because it allows us to understand ourselves better and get along with our families better. It would be very immoral for a truly successful man, despite his great knowledge, to remain immersed in past grievances and resentment and not to admit his biological father. She admits that she was making the wrong decision. That person was treated unfairly. She didn't want her daughter to be bullied, and she didn't want others to know about it. Obviously, Zhou Rong has let go of the entanglements of the past, and she firmly believes that Zhou Nan is a member of the Zhou family, which is also the reason for the decline of the family. She knew that if she did something wrong, she would regret it. In order to show that he was a member of the Zhou family, Zhou Nan asked the aunt and uncle of the Zhou family to look at him highly and made that decision.
2 Zhou Bingyi showed an arrogant attitude, in the original work, Zhou Bingyi was described as a conscientious **, he worried about the country and the people, and at the same time provided all the support for the family. In this position, his life is wonderful. When Zhou Cong was assigned a position as a reporter in City A, he was able to secure a favorable job opportunity for his younger brother's son at a critical moment. He was also a very caring person for his younger brother's adoptive father. However, his attitude towards his younger brother's adopted son, Nan Nan, is indeed different. I said he didn't like it, but he didn't want it because he thought his brother was a "bad" kid and he didn't want his son to be bullied outside. As I mentioned before, even if Nan Nan succeeds in getting into Harvard University in the United States, it will be in vain. He was a genuine peasant kid with no social status. The people of the Zhou family always disdain this low-status man.
Nan Nan was hurt because of their coldness. Concealed the truth from Zheng Juan. At the moment when Zhou Nan heroically saved people, he always thought in his heart that he couldn't let the people of the Zhou family lose face. Both Zhou Nan and Zheng Juan are well aware of the Zhou family's kindness to him. Zhou Nan is a young man who dares to love and hate deep in his heart. His experience reveals only one fact: if the Zhou family had not held a grudge against him earlier and had not blamed him for Zhou's 12-year crimes, perhaps their relationship would have become more harmonious.
Zhou Bingyi always thinks that Zhou Nan is his family, even if his younger brother treats him with his life, he can't be compared with his biological children. In his opinion, his younger brother is the same family as his elder brother, but his parents do not see him that way. According to Zhou Bingyi's point of view, the members of the Zhou family must have a deep blood relationship with each other, and people who are not related by blood can never become a member of the Zhou family. Zhou Bingyi's hypocritical behavior reveals an elder's indifferent attitude towards his juniors.
In the second half of the book, Luo Shibin seized his son, and Zhou Bingyi's position changed, which made him feel a little chilled. Surprisingly, he actually stood on Luo Shibin's side, so that Zheng Juan had to endure the pain of separation between mother and son. It's a tragedy. Fortunately, Zhou Bingkun was not attracted by money, and he engaged in a fierce battle with Luo Shibin, and eventually the lawyer declared his younger brother to be his child. He didn't treat his brother as a dog, but treated him as his own brother. After a tragic incident, Zhou Bingkun felt like a knife in his heart and did not recover for several days, while Zhou Bingyi and his sister Zhou Rong behaved very relaxed in private. He said that he and his son were raised. It didn't seem to have anything to do with him, and his brother's experience made him realize that there are few father-son relationships in this world like those of his own children. People need love. Even if an adoptive father is very good to his adopted son, he can only get the so-called reward that the adopted son can accept on the surface.
Zhou Bingyi's lack of Zhou Bingkun's humanistic care is partly due to his professional background and rich academic experience, he was a soldier and was admitted to Peking University for philosophical research, which made Zhou Bingyi show a more ruthless human character. He doesn't like to talk to people, and he doesn't like to talk about feelings. Secondly, he doesn't care too much about family affairs, except for the custody of Zhou Nan. Third, he is a person with a conscience and is responsible to society. His degree of reality surpasses that of Zhou Bingkun.
3. The inferiority complex and inner pain experienced by Zhou Nan.
In the work "The World", the most ironic thing is that the members of the Zhou family attach great importance to their reputation. Zhou Nan came to the Zhou family at the age of three, but left at the age of twenty-seven because of righteousness and bravery, which made the Bingkun couple's mood extremely heavy. Her parents treated her like their own children. Losing the most pampered thing is a twist and turn that you can't get through in your life. How did her parents, in this family, be tortured to such an extent?Zhou Rong and Feng Yue's expressions when Nan Nan left became shocking, and her shocking conversation with Zhou Bingyi revealed the truth of the matter.
Zhou Nan always felt inferior because he couldn't be a member of the Zhou family. Because in his memory, the image of his adoptive father is very vague, and his father is a very ordinary farmer. Why?"Without the support of your family, it would have been difficult for me to survive. During Leon's encounter with Zhou Rong, the emotions on his face fluctuated, but Zhou Rong provided him with spiritual encouragement and told him that he should face up to the relationship between his adoptive father and his biological father. Zhou Rong specifically pointed out: If Zhou Bingkun does not recognize you and is disgusted by your father's identity, then he is not a member of the Zhou family. Thinking about it carefully, Zhou Nan has been tortured by these three words for 24 years.
After Zhou Nan passed away, Zhou Rong described it like this:
Bingkun is determined to fight for this son, in the hope that he can become a member of our Zhou family, instead of becoming a person like Luo Shibin.
The core point of Zhou Bingyi is the same, only the men of the Zhou family are qualified to save people. His biological father died before he could give birth to him. At this particular moment, I shed deep tears for Zhou Nan, and I also understood the pain and grievances in his heart, especially the "fact" that he decided to leave with his biological father Luo Shibin. He said he wanted to be a good father, a good son, and to leave his best things to his children, not to himself. The reason why Luo Shibin wanted to know him was because of his deep love. The Zhou family is a family that values family traditions and social status, and as an "illegitimate child", no matter how outstanding the achievement, should not be highly praised. He wanted his father to know him, so he began to do what he could, hoping to get his father's understanding and support. The family has excellent genetics, and Zhou Nan has successfully replicated Zhou Bingkun's neglected life trajectory, and through unremitting efforts, has earned the respect of others in a different place. He's a hero, but he's not a hero either. He felt very sad that his heroic actions were recognized by the elders, who believed that it was because of the support of the "Zhou family", not himself.
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