There are so many good things in the world that I can't count them. If you want everything, you're working too hard. Even if a person has the power of an emperor, it is impossible for him to take all the good things in the world as his own. When you have this, you have to lose that. Therefore, one must learn to make trade-offs. In ancient times, when people looked at whether a person was sober or confused, they saw whether he knew how to make trade-offs, and what he cared about most and what he would give up.
People's dignity is not because of high social status, but because of high ideological realm. In fact, life is a process of giving and giving, and if you want to get these things, you must first give up those things. Just like if you have a bottle and you want to fill it with cooking oil, then you have to pour out the vinegar inside, you can't put all the soy sauce, vinegar, juice, and milk into it, not to mention that the capacity of the bottle is limited, even if you put it all in, it will all change its taste. It's the same with life.
There are many people in the world, but there are very few people who can walk with you, and most of them are destined to just pass by you. People look similar on the outside, but their inner ideological realms are very different, and there is a world of difference. Two people who don't have a common language are actually people in two worlds. Therefore, making friends should also follow the way of trade-offs, and you can only choose friends who are consistent with your beliefs and life goals, so that you will not lose in life.
Psychology believes that anyone who looks down on you will always look down on you, no matter how you kneel and lick, or even replace all the **, it will not help. Therefore, don't be servile to others and spoil yourself. Who gave your provisions?Who does your life depend on?To return to ** in the end, these things must be clear. The Merciful Lord said, "Indeed, this is the teaching, and whoever wishes to become enlightened may choose a way that leads to his Lord." ”（76:29）
Wen Ma stone, figure immediately Kunlun.