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If you have loved someone for a long time, how can you express it?
Actually, the people we want to like also like us. But love is usually not like that.
This uncertainty is fascinating.
If you really want to communicate with your sweetheart, you may want to do the following three things to make them understand their intentions. Increase the chances that your partner will promise you.
Honest people who don't know how to take shortcuts and don't know how to communicate with each other are easy to be single for a long time and not be loved by the opposite sex.
Psychologists believe that the more physical contact, the more intimate the relationship will be.
Because physical communication sends a message to the brain that the other person is close to you.
Just like at work, if you want to get close to a colleague quickly, you can sit close to him first and hold his hand when you go shopping.
Your relationship can grow quickly and become very good friends.
But physical contact between the opposite sex must understand the sense of proportion and the process of intimacy. Men shouldn't go far until a woman has a crush on you. Otherwise, it's easy for a woman to think that you just want physical satisfaction rather than real emotional satisfaction.
Dragonfly-like movements, such as a man's pampering and stroking a woman's hair, and a woman can hold an umbrella with a man on a rainy day, it is easy to make the opposite sex have some fantasies about you and get excited.
Psychology professor Roland Miller writes in his book Intimacy:
On the contrary, given the huge investment that women put into parenting, they should find a partner who can keep them safe and sheltered during the long period of pregnancy and breastfeeding;They should prefer strong men who can guarantee the happiness of the mother and child, who have abundant resources and high social status.
The meaning of this passage is that if a man is very wealthy, he does not have to bother to confess, and the woman may be in a hurry to have an intimate relationship with him.
But in fact, many men now also want to find a rich woman, who will lie down directly in the second half of their lives, without living under huge work and life pressure, and live very anxious.
Therefore, if you want to have a long-term stable relationship with the opposite sex, you must improve your financial capabilities. Although money does not guarantee a lifetime of happiness, it does increase a person's attraction to the opposite sex to a great extent!
Writer Chai Jing shared her views on love and marriage in "Seeing":
Love should not be just an organ reaction to another, but the attitude of one soul to another.
In fact, we have all seen the hot topic on Zhihu: will most people fall in love with someone who is similar to themselves, or the opposite?
Psychologists believe that resemblance produces greater feelings.
Therefore, if you want the opposite sex to agree with you, you have to express more of the side that suits them.
For example, men love fishing, and women say they go to the lake alone every weekend to feel calm;Women love to read, and men can be around to express similar views on books.
As the old saying goes: not in a family, not in a house. It is also true that only when two people have more consistent three views and life Xi can they become intimate people.
If you want to communicate with someone you like, you must know how to take some shortcuts on the road of love in order to reach the end faster.
Some people do not understand the needs of the opposite sex emotionally, and are easily labeled as "heterosexual" or "heterosexual", and often repeatedly frustrated when pursuing the opposite sex.
In fact, frequent physical contact;Material generosity;The Call of the Soul;Enough for the opposite sex to know your mind, you can also have a heart-warming feeling.