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Intimate relationships can bring happiness to people as well as harm.
Especially when one party has betrayal, the other party who has been deceived will feel that life is really a lot of disasters.
In the most common cheating behavior, there is no hiding from the other half, and enjoying cohabitation with a lover outside as a husband and wife.
In this case, what evidence will he or she have that cannot be hidden to calm you down completely?It is nothing more than the following three points.
Japanese writer Keigo Higashino wrote in "Dawn Street": Even in the era of the bubble economy, there are still many men who do not give gifts, go to high-end hotels, or even pay for cohabitation in order to please their lovers. But women often have more than one partner to earn money for themselves.
In the past, society has been discussing the issue of male infidelity. But nowadays, as women become more educated and earn more, they also spend money for their loved ones.
In particular, those who can't wait to live with a third party may support two families at the same time, so the consumption becomes particularly large.
If you can look up your partner's bills, you'll know what's going on.
For example, a large rent bill, or the cost of two gifts, are all evidence that the other person paid a large amount of money after cheating on you.
In the urban emotional drama "Thirty", Xu Wanshan, a man who is unfaithful to his family, obviously has a beautiful and capable wife, but he is still in love with a young girl.
He even rented a house and enjoyed the world outside of marriage with his lover.
In the past, important holidays, your partner would have wanted to spend it with you, but with a new lover, they will feel that their partner is not so important when they are crazy.
Therefore, even if they don't usually go home, on some important days, they will find all kinds of excuses to spend the night outside.
However, during the trip, what can see each other is actually the sweet love of going to the lover's cabin, not at a friend's house or busy work, as they say.
In ancient times, Meng's mother moved three times, telling us how much the environment affects people.
Not only cognitive and behavioral changes, but also physical changes.
For example, if your partner is cohabiting outside of marriage and a third person uses a different perfume or toiletry, then your partner will come home with someone else's scent, which simply does not belong to you.
Driven by hormones, or by a third party deliberately letting you know that your partner is unfaithful, you may leave some embarrassing marks on your partner: like growing strawberries. Or deliberately putting one's own personal belongings in someone else's clothes and bags.
Faced with the fact that their partner is unfaithful, many people cannot find the answer to forgive and end the intimacy.
If you still have doubts, don't follow the advice of others. Because the bystander may not know, emotional matters should be up to you.
Calm yourself down first, then analyze whether each decision is good or bad for you.
It is necessary to consider whether to forgive the other party, or choose to forget in the river, and then take responsibility for your own choice.
But whatever you do, don't blame yourself for your partner's betrayal. Loving oneself and paying attention to one's own growth is the most important thing for a person to live a lifetime!