The Qing Dynasty sent pears to the fatal man's mind, the woman misunderstood, and the tragedy was born because of a pear
That's right"Life and death are small, and failure is big"。The reason for this can be found in primitive societies. In inter-tribal wars, if a man wants to increase his chances of survival, he can only rely on the strong physical strength of the man, which is why women are particularly weak. In terms of physical strength, men are far superior to women, so women can only act as appendages to men.
China is the only country that has inherited 5,000 years of culture to the present day, and it is also the country with the deepest roots of feudalism. In the feudal society of more than 2,000 years, feudal ethics and morality have long developed and reached their heyday, that is, the so-called period when Confucianism and ethics are closely intertwined, which has undoubtedly become a spiritual shackle that is difficult for women to get rid of in later generations.
There was an incident in the Qing Dynasty where a woman who ate two pears killed herself by hanging herself from a beam on the same day because a male neighbor gave her two pears.
According to legend, in the Qing Dynasty, there was a family surnamed Zeng, there were a few pears at home, and when the pears were ripe, the family usually had no income, so they sold pears in the market for a living, barely surviving.
On this day, Zeng Guofan went to pick pears as usual, because the pears under the tree have not been fully irradiated by the sun, so the quality is not good, he can only pick pears that grow at higher altitudes, but at the same time, he also damages his strong body, because he is afraid that the branches will not be able to hold up, in case he falls from the top of the tree, it will not be good to kill two flies with one pole.
At this time, they suddenly saw the neighbor next door, petite and delicate, so they stepped forward to ask her to come over to help, and the neighbor began to hesitate, after all, it was the woman who suffered, but for the sake of the neighbor, they still agreed.
The neighbor with the woman's petite figure soon reached the top of the tree, and picked the pears one by one, the man named Zeng was very happy, and when the pears were finished, the neighbor got up and left, and the man named Zeng wanted to thank her for her help.
So he took two pears from the basket and gave them to his neighbor, who happily accepted them. They ate two pears and went home, and at this time, they happened to catch up with the wife of the woman surnamed Zeng, who saw the two pears in her hand and thought:"Isn't this my family's pear?"This is not my pear, how can it be in her hands. "The two muttered back to the house, and then ran to ask her husband if he had given the pear to the female neighborWhat happened?"The husband told the story again.
But this time the neighbors did not listen, her heart was full of jealousy, they swore that how to listen to how uncomfortable, after the quarrel, all the neighbors in a noisy noise, all rushed to see the excitement, the poor neighbor did not come out, one is no one at home, and the other is afraid of a more chaotic explanation.
Who knows, the woman's neighbors didn't come out, and they felt that they were at a loss, so they quarreled even harder, and the neighbors talked about it, accused the woman for no reason, and told her that it was time to slander.
The next day the neighbor's husband came home and saw his dead wife, and he couldn't accept it for a while, and his heart was extremely broken.
After further understanding the situation, the neighbor filed a lawsuit in the district court, but the final result was not ideal. The district court ruled that it was a verbal dispute between a neighbour and his great-wife, which ended in a quarrel, and the neighbour committed suicide by hanging herself because she could not accept that her virginity was insulted and her great-wife did not kill her, so the Zeng family was sentenced to a series of sentences to atone for their crimes.
This story tells us that in feudal society, women attached great importance to the concept of chastity, even at the cost of their lives. There is an even more bizarre thing, the ancient flower thieves were extremely arrogant, because after the old concept of being bound by chastity was dispelled, the women did not say a word, which provided favorable conditions for the flower thieves.
The reason for not advertising is that for female clerks and eunuchs who have been pampered for most of their lives, they can't resist in the face of such things, and second, they are bound by the Three Principles and Five Constants, they feel that such things will affect the reputation of the family and will further punish the neighbors, they are more inclined to maintain their chastity than physical torture, as long as chastity keeps everything, there will be a turnaround.
That is why women's chastity is always criticized, both today and in ancient times. If it weren't for the man flirting, at most it would be considered"Immoral"performance, but if it is a woman, it will be considered insulting and shameless, it is to wear the hat of not marrying, and never be able to hold up their heads, and most women will choose to commit suicide to prove their innocence when they encounter such a thing.
Even in today's fast-paced society, this is not unprecedented. There is an audio recording of a woman who was harassed by a colleague and told him the inside story of what had happened in order to comfort and protect him, but he verbally abused and beat her. This shows how deeply rooted the idea of male superiority and inferiority of women is and continues to this society.
I believe everyone has seen Mr. Jin Yong's martial arts**. "The Condor Heroes" was made into a TV series, and one of the episodes is about Ouyang Feng sealing the acupuncture points for Xiaolongnu, but he didn't want this scene to be seen by Zhenjiao** Zhen Zhibing, Zhen Zhibing had long fallen in love with Xiaolongnu at first sight, and when he saw such an opportunity, he colored Xiaolongnu.
But when she married Yang Guo in Chongyang Palace, Yang Guo said:"It's been a long time since I've been a**, are you still going to marry me?"Yang Guo resolutely accepted her and vowed to love him only for the rest of his life. It is not difficult to see from this part of the ** that they have finally gotten rid of the shackles of the worldview, they don't care about ethics and morality, they don't care about the three outlines and five constants, they only care about what they think in their hearts.
This is the idea that Mr. Jin wanted to express at that time, and he attacked this pedantic and not feudal socialist ideology with **.
We should learn from the ancients and not let such a thing happen again, because we have a civilization of 5,000 years, and we should take the essence of it and remove the dross. Therefore, both men and women should establish a correct view of purity and seek truth from facts, instead of blindly poisoning our generation with old ideas.