It's okay, but most of the children in the rebellious period can't afford this kind of excessive praise, otherwise it is easy to become proud and complacent. Self-confidence is a good thing, but overconfidence turns into pride. Imagine how a child with an empty eye can realize his own inadequacy and accept the kind advice of others
We know that people have strengths and weaknesses, and for children with a normal mind, there will be a balanced mindset when dealing with their strengths and weaknesses. Once this strength and disadvantage are out of balance in their minds, arrogance or inferiority will be manifested. Therefore, when correcting children's pride mentality, we must find ways to weaken the advantage in their hearts, so that they do not have self-sustaining chips in their hearts.
Of course, weakening the strengths in children's hearts is not to discourage children, but to make them recognize the strengths of others and psychologically shorten the gap between others and themselves. In this way, the child's proud Xi can be completely corrected.
1 Control the number and frequency of praise.
As mentioned earlier, praise for children should not be excessive and overflowing, so in order to reduce children's pride, parents should control the frequency and frequency of praise. If the child is praised for every little thing, and the more praise is given, the child will feel that he is really great, and he will become arrogant.
2. Let your child know himself correctly.
To guide children to understand themselves correctly, they should not only see their own strengths, but not their own shortcomings. When children discover their own shortcomings, teach them not to run away from their shortcomings, but to admit and face up to their shortcomings.
3 Tell your child to learn more Xi from others.
When a child achieves something or does something commendable, praise them and affirm their achievements and efforts. However, while praising your child, you should also tell your child that he should work harder and learn more Xi from others.
When a child becomes arrogant, it breeds a sense of superiority and feels great. At this time, parents blindly deny and suppress the child, and the child will become more rebellious. Therefore, the right thing to do is to control the number and frequency of praise, let children know themselves correctly, and encourage children to contact more excellent people, so as to guide children to be more humble in the world.