Children often make friends to enrich their social skills and learn about the wider world, and often do not think much about it. When encountering bad friends, children can easily be led astray, so parents usually need to instill some dating standards in their children. At the same time, parents should also tell their children which friends they can and can't have, and what disadvantages they will bring to making bad friends. Only by making good friends can we make progress together, and making bad friends will make children unmotivated and greedy for enjoyment.
1. Prevent your child from making "bad friends".
Tell your child not to be friends with these types of children, whenever and wherever they are, no matter what the situation.
1) Children who are too jealous. Driven by intense jealousy, this type of child does not see others as better than them. Even if the other person is their best friend, they will secretly create all kinds of incidents to make their friends worse than them, so that they will be mentally balanced.
2) Children who like to inquire about privacy. This type of child likes to probe into other people's privacy, promote other people's gossip, and even if it is a small matter, they will be known to passers-by.
3) Children who always take, don't want to give, and suffer. Such children always seek support, help, and even reach out to borrow money and ask for material things, but they are not willing to give sincerely. Such people are too selfish and like to take advantage of them, and don't expect effective help from them.
2 Keep your child clean.
In the process of making friends, children in the rebellious period are not psychologically mature, and they are easily affected by the bad habits or Xi of friends, and gradually lose themselves. For example, the mantra of a bad friend has also become his mantra;The games that his friends love to play are also his favorites;My friend's extreme way of doing things has also become ...... the way he deals with problemsTherefore, parents should tell their children who are in the rebellious period to insist on self-cleanliness and only learn from the good character and behavior of their friends, no matter who they befriend them with.
3.Subtly instill a correct view of making friends in children.
Due to the rapid rise of self-consciousness, rebellious children will feel that they are adults, no longer children, and do not have to listen to their parents everywhere. Therefore, they often turn a deaf ear to their parents' advice, especially when it comes to making friends. In the face of this situation, how to do the right guidance to prevent children from becoming bad due to improper friends?It is a good way to subtly instill a correct concept of making friends in children.
Children in the rebellious period of adolescence are easy to make some bad friends, and even pay attention to the righteousness of buddies. In the face of this situation, parents should first understand that their children have their own dating preferences and needs, and secondly, parents should help their children establish a correct view of dating and improve their children's awareness of good dating standards.