First of all, I would like to say that this question is really heart-wrenching. However, we must not allow pain and sadness to take over our lives. We have to learn to face problems and find solutions to them.
1.The first thing to do is to calm down. Don't let emotions control you, don't make impulsive decisions. You have to understand that at this time, you need to think rationally.
2.Find out the cause of the problem. Why is your husband cheating?Is it because he has no feelings for you?Or is he just a spur of the moment?Understanding the cause of the problem will help you better handle the problem.
3.If you find out that your husband does have no feelings for you anymore, then you need to consider whether you want to end the marriage. If you feel that you cannot accept this fact, then you need to seek professional help, such as psychological counselling or marriage counseling.
4.If you decide that you want to continue the marriage, then you need to communicate well with your husband. Tell him about your feelings and thoughts and let him know what you think about his cheating. At the same time, listen to his thoughts and see if he is willing to return to the family.
5.Build your own life. Don't put all your energy into your hubby and learn to take care of yourself. You can find hobbies such as fitness, traveling, reading, etc., to enrich yourself.
6.Finally, trust that time will** everything. Although the process is painful, you need to give yourself time to deal with it. At the same time, trust that you will meet better people.
In closing, I would like to say that every woman has the right to pursue her own happiness. Whatever decision you make, believe in yourself and trust that you will find your own happiness. Come on!