In the event of cheating, the wives want to divorce, but the conditions do not allow it, and the cheating man refuses to divorce, and it is difficult to really divorce his wife all the time.
The wife is also reluctant to continue to tear each other apart with Xiao San, feeling very embarrassed and meaningless.
So is there nothing else to do with the original match except to lie flat and rot?
If this is the case for your original wife of this mentality, Scarlett recommends that you do it.
If the original partner shows that he doesn't care about the man cheating on the mistress, then the cheating man will expose a lot of evidence of cheating.
Because she thinks that his wife doesn't care, he doesn't have to worry about paying any price, and his wives won't divorce, so if it is exposed, there is no threat to him.
On the contrary, there is no need to hide, and it is more comfortable for cheating men.
So most of the wives put on the sloppy and act like they don't want to care when they do.
The cheating man will test it and find that his wife is really submissive and accepts the reality.
will start cheating like crazy, regardless of whether his wife is in pain or not.
If this is the case for cheating men, wives will have more and better opportunities to collect evidence of extramarital affairs.
Like a case handled by Scarlett, the original partner was rotten, and the cheating man couldn't wait to bring the mistress home.
even went out to travel with Xiao San, and Xiao San took a lot of ** and posted it in the circle of friends.
The original partner didn't have a junior friend, but he could also see some circle of friends, and every time he directly saved the evidence.
For the original partner, these evidences are the basis for her to negotiate with the cheating man in the future.
If you have the ability, you can transfer your property without a trace, and you can save some private money.
These things have to be done, you can not care about the man's cheating, but you think that you have to let the cheating man give you money, and the cheating man is willing to use the money to calm people.
Wives are going to take the opportunity to get more money, and this money is not just from cheating men.
It is also the confidence of the original partner to divorce in the future and confront the cheating man
Even if the junior comes to the door, the original partner can also use this to stimulate the junior.
The original partner sorted out the property here to ensure that it would not be transferred by the cheating man.
I also saved some money by myself and transferred some of the property that could be transferred.
At this time, even if the wives are really divorced from the cheating man.
It will not be like being cheated on at the beginning, even if it is very painful, and I dare not mention divorce.
The decision to divorce is not a casual one, there are too many things to consider.
Half of the original partners refused to divorce for the sake of their children, and the other half did so because there were no conditions for divorce.
Wives leave themselves with enough way out, and you have less fear of divorce.
Whether it's negotiating with a cheating man or really getting a divorce, wives have more options.
And when the cheating man finds out this, it is the cheating man who should panic.
After all, he doesn't want to divorce, he thinks that his wives don't dare to divorce, so they will be arrogant and cheat.
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Wives are advised not to divorce, and to negotiate divorce with evidence and threats.
Let the cheating man hand over the power of property, and then by manipulating the economy, the mistress can't stand it and quit.
Xiao San doesn't want money, and extramarital affairs also need money as a basis.
Whether it's a cheating man dating a mistress, or expressing love, it's inseparable from money.
Therefore, wives seizing economic power is equivalent to grasping the lifeblood of extramarital affairs
If the wives want to divorce, it is recommended that the wives agree to divorce and fight for greater rights.
Many people may think that divorce by agreement is too gentle and can't teach cheating men a lesson.
But only by divorce by agreement can wives achieve the goal of taking more benefits.
Through the agreement, the wives can make the cheating man give up his property and leave the house.
You can also divide more property, and even ask the cheating man to give more child support.
Because of the real lawsuit, the wife has no job, and the child may not be able to get custody.
If you really get it, the alimony will not be too high, basically not enough to raise the child.
So it's better to choose what is more beneficial to the wives and let the cheating man take the initiative to give when he agrees.
In addition, Scarlett emphasized that there is no such thing as a clean house in the law.
There is no divorce case because the man cheated and betrayed the marriage, so the cheating man was sentenced to leave the house.
Cheating is only a moral issue, and there is very little that the law can restrict.
As for moral restraint?Those who can be restrained by a sense of morality are moral people.
Xiao San and cheating men, just have no morality, so they will be third parties and cheat.
Therefore, morality can't restrain cheating men and mistresses, and it is difficult for the law to rectify them.
Wives need to have their own plans and make decisions for themselves.
Marital problems don't kill you in an instant, but they start when you gradually accept the existence of the problem and completely lose your fighting spirit.
You can only come out of it if you decide to face it yourself and are willing to deal with it.
There are no problems created by others that are worth giving up your happy life.
Find a way to protect your own interests and find a way to make your life better, only you can do it.
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I'm Sijia Yin, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.