My name is Gao Juan, I am 35 years old this year, I have been married to my husband Zhao Fuhai for 10 years, and I have a son and a daughter.
My love with Zhao Fuhai is very simple, he chased me for three years, first moved my parents, and under the persuasion of my parents, I promised to be with him.
We got married after a year of talking. After marriage, life is very ordinary, we make money together, raise children and the elderly.
This year, Zhao Fuhai was taken to work in the field by a friend, and I actually agree with it, and it is most suitable for him to go to the field to make money when the family is unable to make ends meet.
In addition, we have been together for a long time and do not like each other. He, like my uncle, needs me to serve him, and he doesn't help me with housework at all.
He went to another place, I should be cleaner, don't serve him, there are not so many dirty clothes to wash, and the meal can be lighter. The main thing is that his friends who drink and meat can not be used.
Every time he brings his friends to the house for a drink, I am so busy that I can't lose my temper and I'm tired!
I work as a clerk in a local private company, and my income is not high, but I am satisfied that I can take care of my children and the elderly.
My friends around me, except for my husband who has an iron rice bowl locally, everyone else has gone to other places to earn money, and there are more left-behind women. There is no way, there is no good industry in the local area, the salary is low, and if you don't go out to make money, the pressure on life is too great.
After my husband left, in addition to work, I was with my children. Simple life, boring and boring, home and company, two points and one line.
At nine o'clock in the morning, the company's manager Wang called me to the office and said, "Gao Juan, there is a party tonight, you go with me." ”
Hearing this, I refused: "Manager, there are too many young colleagues, and it is not appropriate for me to go." ”
Manager Wang looked at me and said with a smile: "You can drink, you can talk, you have a good look, you are still married, it is better to go out to talk about work." ”
I didn't really want to go, so I had to drink, so I said, "Manager, I'm a clerk, I don't socialize." ”
Manager Wang said: "There is no room for negotiation, wait for me after work, let's go together, otherwise the salary will be deducted." ”
I nodded helplessly in agreement. People in the workplace can't help themselves.
After work, I came to the hotel in Manager Wang's car.
The customers came quickly, and after a pleasantry, it was time to eat and drink.
Talking about business, in fact, is to maximize benefits, as long as each achieves its goal. What should be said has been said, what should be let be let go, and that's about it.
In order to make the customer feel valued, I toasted and said good things vigorously, but fortunately I could drink enough, otherwise I would have fallen down a long time ago.
At a meal, the customer drank happily, and the contract was signed.
After sending off the customer, Manager Wang praised me and said, "Your amount of alcohol is really good, follow me to talk about business in the future!."”
I know that it is not my credit, because the two sides have reached an agreement before, and I am at best the icing on the cake when the final signature is missing.
Manager, you are serious, if it weren't for the hard work of you and your colleagues, it wouldn't have been possible so smoothly, I have no credit, and I am not suitable for socializing. ”
No, I have to take you with me in the future, and your salary will be doubled in the future. ”
Hearing this, I was a little moved, and I worked hard, not for a few taels of silver. In today's society, it is difficult to move an inch without money.
I smiled and said, "Manager, you can't go back, your salary must be doubled." ”
Manager Wang patted his big belly and said, "A gentleman is hard to chase after a horse." ”
When I got home, I drank some honey water and decanted it. It's not easy for people to live, and in the past few years, because of money, I have seen through the warmth and coldness of the world.
When you have money, you are surrounded by relatives and friends. When you don't have the money to borrow money, you find that talking about money hurts your feelings.
After that, basically there is entertainment, Manager Wang will take me there, and will also help me block the wine, basically not drunk. I'm getting to know him better.
I also have a good impression of him, at least he is a decent gentleman, but he is a little fat and greasy.
My family also knows that I socialize a lot and help me take care of my children, and my husband also cares about me and asks me to drink less, because my body is the most important.
But I made a lot of money, I felt very good, and my health was fine.
It was still early after a social meeting, Manager Wang took me to a teahouse, and he said: "Gao Juan, you have helped the company talk about a lot of projects during this time, and I am very grateful to you." As you know, I'm in a long-distance marriage, and I don't have someone around me to take care of me. ”
I know very well about Manager Wang's family situation, but he suddenly said this, which made me a little confused.
Manager, why don't you take your sister-in-law over and make it easier for the family to be together. ”
Manager Wang shook his head and said, "No, there are too many contradictions together." ”
Suddenly, he took out a card, handed it to me, and said, "There is 100,000 yuan in this card, you can use it." ”
I was a little flattered and said, "Manager, the commission you gave me is already very high, and I can't ask for this money." ”
You take it, this money is a meeting gift, and I will give you more in the future when we are together. They're all adults, you know what I mean now!”
Hearing this, I probably understood, and said: "This is not good, we are all married, and we still have to have a bottom line in doing things." ”
Manager Wang said with a smile: "In today's society, how many people have a bottom line, and there are many people who step on multiple boats. Compared to some people who are sanctimonious, I am at least above board. ”
My heart is not a taste, although the society is changing, but I still have to adhere to the bottom line of marriage.
But I couldn't offend Manager Wang, so I could only say: "Manager, I like to be above board." If you want to be with me, then divorce and marry me, the house, the car, the bride price is the same, and my children should be treated as your own. ”
Manager Wang was a little embarrassed and said, "You are breaking the rules." ”
I said, "Manager, it's you who can't do it, not me who refuses you." I'm at risk of infamy and homelessness, so you can always solve my worries!”
Manager Wang glanced at me and said angrily, "I hope you don't regret it." ”
I watched Manager Wang leave, and I knew he was angry. But people are selfish, and I fight for my own interests, what's wrong.
Although my relationship with my husband is dull, but I have children and parents, I can't touch the bottom line and dignity of being a human being, if my family breaks up because of interests, how to face my children and parents?
The next day, my job was adjusted and I became a small clerk who organized materials.
After a few days, I became a small clerk and a front desk at the entrance of the company.
Of course, my income has plummeted. In fact, I know that this is deliberate by Manager Wang, so that I can retreat and agree to his request.
I didn't go to Manager Wang, but he didn't let me go, but asked me to do cleaning, or resign voluntarily.
I didn't expect that he was so small-bellied, the pattern was pitiful, and the company was not big, there was a reason for him to fight. I didn't go to work as a cleaner because I didn't want to rob my aunt of her job, so I voluntarily resigned.
The moment I walked out of the company, I was very relaxed. Although I am temporarily unemployed, I am far away from the villain, and my mood is happy.
When a client found out that I had left the company, she took the initiative to contact me and asked me to come to work in her company, I was ecstatic, and life still did not abandon me.
Society is changing, but people's hearts are not. To be a human being, we must have a bottom line and dignity, especially for marriage, we must stick to the bottom line of marriage, and we must not destroy our own and other people's families. If you don't love, you can break up with dignity, don't be a junior that everyone shouts at.
When you betray your marriage, in the eyes of others, there is no dignity and no trust. Others can be with you occasionally, but not for long, because you did something wrong, and everyone is worried that you will make another mistake.