In the family, the AA system is not a new concept. Recently, my husband suddenly asked for the AA system. I didn't directly oppose his idea, but I didn't intend to let him succeed easily. 
Storyteller: Min: My husband and I have been married for more than a year, and all along, the family's money has been managed by me, and every time I pay my salary, my husband will take the initiative to transfer the money to my account on the same day. Once, when it was the day of my husband's salary, what puzzled me was that I waited for two days, and he didn't transfer the salary to me. During the meal, I asked him directly: "Husband, has your company paid your salary?"Why haven't you transferred the money to me?I saw my husband put down the chopsticks, then moved the stool to me, and said to me with a smile: "Wife, can I discuss something with you?"I have a few colleagues who practice the AA system with their wives at home, and they manage their own money, which is quite fresh. Why don't we try it too?”
Hearing him say this, I frowned, I have always been disgusted with the AA system of husband and wife. In my opinion, as long as there is an AA system in marriage, it is a colleague and partner, not a husband and wife!In life, there are many things that cannot be measured by money, and some things cannot be AA system at all, and if the AA system is implemented between husband and wife for a long time, it will only damage the life of husband and wife. But I didn't directly oppose my husband's proposal, because I knew his character very well, and if he didn't let him suffer from the AA system, having colleagues talking in his ears every day would always affect his thoughts. Of course, I don't want to let myself suffer. Since you want A, then A has to be thorough. 
Then, I made a list for my husband: take turns doing the housework, wash the clothes by myself, and sleep in their own rooms at night. A few days before the implementation of the AA system, my husband was happy, he had money in his pocket, he could order takeout whatever he wanted to eat when he came home from work, and no one cared how long he played games at night, and I didn't urge him to go to bed early in his ear and he got up early. A week later, I saw him go out every morning with dark circles under his eyes, and when he came back from work in the evening, he didn't order takeout, and looked at me pitifully, because I got off work earlier than him, and I had dinner early after work, and I didn't leave him food. I've noticed that my husband sometimes looks at me and stops. 
In order for my husband to surrender early, I came up with a plan. I asked my mother-in-law to bring my sister-in-law to my house for confinement. During this period, my husband had to take on the responsibility of helping with the children, and at the same time had to do housework, and I also pretended to charge my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. At the same time, the mother-in-law and sister-in-law also pretended to dislike her husband for not serving well, and her husband knew that he was at a loss, and he didn't dare to raise his head when he was scolded. My sister-in-law came over and left in a few days, because they had already booked a ** service in the confinement center, and they came just to help me teach my husband a lesson. 
A few days later, my husband quietly transferred all the money to my account and bought me a bouquet of flowers to apologize. And I succeeded in giving him a taste of what the AA system really means. Responsibilities in the family should not be shared by the woman or the man alone, but by the husband and wife. Only by letting my husband experience it first-hand can he truly understand the efforts and efforts of the other half in the family.