Early Marriage and Late Marriage: Two Choices, Different Lives.
In the long river of life, marriage is an important fork in the road. Some people choose to enter marriage early and enjoy the warmth and happiness of the family;Some people choose to enjoy freedom and love in their youth, postponing or even avoiding the shackles of marriage. Today, this divide is becoming more pronounced, forming two extreme ideas: early marriage and late marriage, or even no marriage.
A hundred years ago, Zhang Ailing described the phenomenon of quick marriage in that era in "Love and Hate Table": "Perm your hair, make two new clothes, watch two movies, eat two meals, and just enter into marriage simply and quickly." "In that era of parents' orders and matchmakers' words, many people seemed to be rushing ducks to the shelves and hurriedly stepping into the palace of marriage. Nowadays, with the change of the times, late marriage or even non-marriage has become the choice of more and more young people. They seek freedom, independence, and are cautious and even skeptical about marriage.
But whether it's early or late marriage, each choice has its own unique story and life trajectory behind it. The Internet has allowed these two worlds, which have never intersected, to collide with each other. On the one hand, he entered into marriage early, and even has a next generation, enjoying the warmth of the family;On the other side are young people who are immersed in their single life and pursue personal growth and freedom.
An 84-year-old woman became a mother-in-law early, but she still maintains the elegance and charm of a girl. She was dressed in a champagne-colored gown and a bright red woolen coat, and her hair was tied up in a ponytail, and she was gentle and dignified. In the face of the arrival of her daughter-in-law, she showed calmness and gentleness, and couldn't help but sigh: she can be so elegant after marriage. And the eldest sister beside her looked at this young mother-in-law with emotion. She is nearly 10 years older than the woman, and her daughter is still in high school, but the peer in front of her is already enjoying the sweetness of marriage and the warmth of family.
Some people envy the happy life of this early-married woman, believing that she avoided the collision of puberty and menopause early and successfully raised her children. But in fact, early marriage and late marriage are just different choices in life, and each choice has its gains and losses. The important thing is to find the right person, the one who is willing to spend your life with you. For this woman, the pampering of the man behind her is the secret of her youth. She chose marriage early because she met the right person. And those who are still looking for it need not be in a hurry. Only when you meet the right person at the right time is the best choice.
Marriage is not the end of life, but the beginning of a new one. Whether you marry early or later, the most important thing is to find someone with whom you can spend your life together. May everyone find their own happiness, sooner or later.