In 84, a man was a happy father-in-law, and his daughter was almost 20 years old at the wedding scene, and she couldn't keep it
In ancient times, people of all ages were always called with special and beautiful meanings.
For example, when a girl reaches the age of 15, it is called a kyu, and a "yutsu" is required to signify her coming of age, and the matchmaker can come and propose marriage and start discussing marriage.
With the evolution of the times and the extension of lifespan, the age standard of marriage has also changed a lot. Now, many boys and girls are immersed in high school in their teenage years, and they have not yet finished their studies, and they are running every day for exam-oriented education. Although the emotions are gradually budding, talking about marriage is still out of reach for them. Sometimes, some youthful romances are even criticized as "early love".
This change has made people more open to the perception of love and marriage, and has re-examined the relationship between age and maturity. Nowadays, teenagers are more focused on academic and personal development, laying a solid foundation for their future, and marriage becomes a part of life, but it is no longer a goal that is rushed to be pursued at the beginning of youth.
In some rural areas or in special circumstances, teenage marriages are occasionally seen.
At a recent wedding in Jiangsu, the marriage of young people attracted a lot of attention, and another protagonist of interest was Father-in-law Xi.
Marriage is not only a great event in a young person's life, but also an important moment that brings lifelong responsibility to parents. After all, once the child gets married, it means that the parents have initially completed their "task", and after the new family is established, they will enter a new stage of life, silently support and support the child, and usher in the twilight of life.
At this wedding, the couple is bathed in the vitality of youth, while the parents are far from reaching the "twilight" stage of their lives. This generational difference makes the whole wedding scene more compelling and a focus of attention and discussion.
Although the ceremony took place at the woman's home, although it was large-scale and well-prepared, it was not a cumbersome process in comparison. The whole process was carried out according to the established steps, and the ceremony was carried out in an orderly manner.
Only in the last session, a series of group photo activities were carried out.
During the whole ceremony, the newlyweds did not seem to deeply feel the significance of it, they just followed the guidance of the master of ceremonies to complete each link in turn. Despite the sweet smile on his face, it was more like a solemn ceremony that officially announced their relationship.
As can be seen from the group photo, they still have a childish atmosphere, as if they have not yet experienced the immersion of life and the baptism of daily trivialities.
Father-in-law Xi was the figure of much attention in this wedding, especially for his parents.
In this small village, people know that although the grandfather is supposed to be an older "father-in-law" in name, his actual age is quite young, only 40 years old, born in 84.
He has an unusual view of marriage, knowing that marriage is not just a matter for young people, but also about a family. On the day of the wedding, trifles come and he himself is so busy that he has to seek help from his neighbors. So, after the ceremony, he toiled in the courtyard to distribute tobacco one by one to the people who came to help.
Although his face was a little tired, a smile hung on the corner of his mouth, and it was difficult to hide the joy in his heart.
Whenever he mentioned his daughter, he couldn't help but shake his head and sigh. He reluctantly said that he had already gotten married, but his daughter had entered the palace of marriage earlier. For his daughter, who is about to enter 20 years old, he is full of emotion and reluctance, but he also knows that time waits for no one, and some things cannot be kept.