One. As soon as I got off work and sat on the sofa, my husband came out of the kitchen, still holding a spatula in his hand, and told me that my brother-in-law called ** and told us to go home and have a look.
When I heard my husband say that, I was quite relieved.
Last year, during the Chinese New Year, because of the purchase of a house, I had a conflict with my brother-in-law, and my husband was also in a difficult situation at that time, looking up at home and not looking down, so my husband and I simply moved out and rented a house in the county, usually do not need to meet with my brother-in-law, which makes people feel embarrassed, and most importantly, my daughter will go to primary school immediately, and it is more convenient when she moves to the city.
Thinking of my brother-in-law's words today, my husband and I discussed waiting until our daughter was on vacation to go back, so that I could also accompany my mother-in-law for a while.
Soon, we went home with a large bag of things, and it was the uncle who opened the door, took the things in our hands, and talked to me as if nothing had happened before.
My mother-in-law came over, and she pulled me into the room and said, "I thought you would have been in conflict with my second child, but I had reconciled a long time ago." ”
I didn't dare to say that I couldn't pull my son to talk to my brother-in-law about it, so I could only smile and say to my mother-in-law: "The family has an overnight feud." ”
In the evening, the family sat at the table to eat, and halfway through the meal, the brother-in-law mentioned the matter of buying a house again, and I knew that this meal was not so simple.
Two. My name is Qin Yi, 40 years old this year, and my husband Li Zhi has been married for ten years, the two of us met on a blind date, the family is urging tightly, plus my age is there, I just happened to meet Li Zhi who was also urged to marry, and the conditions of the two families are similar, so they directly decided to get married.
Li Zhi has a younger brother, ten years younger than him, at the beginning, when my husband and I got married, my brother-in-law had one year to graduate from college, and our husband and wife directly gave him the tuition for the last year of college.
After graduation, he was a child, and he was not serious about looking for a job, the low salary was not looked down upon, the high salary was too tired, and he was unwilling to do it, and finally he really had no choice, he chose to go to graduate school, and in the years of graduate school, my mother-in-law and husband did not let my brother-in-law have financial pressure, and my husband and I bore all the expenses of my brother-in-law's graduate school.
After graduating, I went to work as a real estate agent, and at the beginning, the salary was not high, at least I could support myself.
And now we need our help to buy a house, 30-year-olds, who have hands and feet, why can't they earn money to buy a house by themselves.
The sister-in-law called sweetly, my mother-in-law was very good to me, life was not bad, I was pregnant not long after marriage, my brother-in-law was in the real estate company, said that now is a good time to buy a house, I suggested that the two of us buy a house in the city first, and wait until the child is born, the house is decorated, and you can move in directly.
At that time, we thought that the child was about to be born, and there was still more money to use in the future, so we didn't plan to buy it.
When the children were older and wanted to buy a house, the house price also rose, so we gave up the idea of buying a house, and when our daughter went to kindergarten, we rented a house in the city, not only can we move at any time, but it is also close to the school, but it is also convenient.
Until last year's Chinese New Year, the uncle found a girlfriend, the two of them reached the point of talking about marriage, the woman asked to buy a house, and the uncle gave the bride price money, the money to buy the house was basically not settled, and no one was willing to lend him money after looking for relatives and friends around, so he had to hit the idea on us.
During the Chinese New Year, the uncle said that he asked us to borrow money to help him buy it, but now he asks us to buy it directly for him, and even the mother-in-law is on the side of the brother-in-law.
I knew what my mother-in-law meant, and I was so scared that my chopsticks almost fell to the ground.
I pinched my husband's leg under the table to get him to say something, but she didn't expect her to pick up food for her daughter as if she hadn't heard anything.
When I got home, I asked my husband why he didn't talk, but he said that my brother-in-law was his own person, and he should help.
Three. What I didn't expect was that my mother-in-law would come to the city to see us, when she came, I just went to send my daughter to school, and when I opened the door, my mother-in-law was sitting at the door of the house, I was startled and hurriedly beckoned my mother-in-law to come in.
My husband and I have been renting a house in the city for three years, and she has never come to the door.
In the afternoon, she said that she wanted to go home and go to the station to take the train, I asked her to stay here for a while, my mother-in-law looked around, and said that she felt that this was not her home, and it was not as comfortable as staying in her hometown.
I felt a little uncomfortable when I heard this, and I always felt that my mother-in-law was implying something.
In the afternoon, when my mother-in-law was leaving, she told me that my brother-in-law was my husband's younger brother after all, and asked us to help us more.
All of a sudden, I knew what my mother-in-law was thinking, saying that she wanted her granddaughter, but in fact, there was only one purpose, she wanted us to help my brother-in-law buy a house.
When I went out the next day, my mother-in-law sat at the door again, and for several days, she did this, coming every morning and rushing back in the afternoon.
I asked my husband to persuade my mother-in-law, but I ran around every day, worried that she would not be able to stand it.
Unexpectedly, it was her husband's persuasion, but her mother-in-law didn't come.
Four. It didn't take long for the uncle to make the down payment for the house, I was puzzled how the uncle gave the down payment on the house so quickly, and my mother-in-law said that she would ask us to help two days ago.
I told my husband about it, and when I saw how he wanted to talk and stopped, I thought of something, and quickly ran to the room to take out the passbook and look at it, and there was a shortage of 200,000 for no reason.
I asked him what was going on, but unexpectedly, he said that now that his brother-in-law is 30 years old, he is only one way away from getting married to buy a house, and he doesn't want his mother-in-law to be worried about the child's affairs at such an age, he is an elder brother, and he should bear more.
I watched my husband sit there like a little kid, and I asked him why he didn't discuss it with me for such a big thing
He said that he was afraid that I would not agree, and his mother-in-law asked him to help with the down payment of the house first, and when I heard my husband say this, I was angry and couldn't say it.
My husband and I said that we paid for my brother-in-law's graduate studies, and now that he has graduated for so long, do we still have to help him buy a house?
I told my husband to ask him to get 200,000 back, I don't agree to help with this favor, and besides, the children are growing up and need money, what should we do then?
Unexpectedly, my husband and I had just finished talking in the evening, and the next day my mother-in-law came with anger and told me that we were all a family, and we should help each other, let alone brothers.
I told my mother-in-law that I firmly disagree with this matter, we have helped my brother-in-law enough over the years, why do we still need to buy a house, I think we can earn more or better blood.
As soon as I finished speaking, my husband appeared at the door and said that I don't respect the elderly, and now I'm still quarreling with my mother-in-law after so long, isn't it just money, and the little brother-in-law wants to buy a house, so what's wrong with help.
I said why my husband, who was supposed to go to work, appeared in front of me now, co-authored, and they had a plan in place from the beginning.
Usually no matter what I do, my husband will consider my opinion first, but I didn't expect that this time I directly skipped the decision and did not participate in the family's money matters.
In the end, I gave the down payment for the house, and I also said to my husband: In the future, the money earned by the two of us to support the family and the children will be divided equally, and the rest of the money will be saved by ourselves, and I don't want to have no control over my money.