Dora said: "When two people are together, love will turn from honey to chewing gum, and the more you chew, the lighter it becomes, and then it is so astringent and bitter that you can't help but spit it out." ”
A relationship is full of tenderness at the beginning, but if love is no longer there, it becomes ruthless.
If the two get along, if they can't maintain their relationship, the relationship will become cold, which will eventually lead to a breakdown.
When women love you, they put their heart and soul into it and give everything to you.
However, when her love is not reciprocated and cherished, when she is completely cold, she will also be like a stone to you.
A woman is truly ruthless, no less than a man, even more indifferent and ruthless.
Because she has really giving, but she has not received your care, and her sadness and grievances have accumulated to a certain extent, making her completely disappointed in love.
The real ruthlessness of a woman is not to leave, but to manifest itself in: ignorance.
1. Ignore your life and no longer have expectationsWhen a woman is cold, she no longer has expectations for you, no longer loves you, but is indifferent and ruthless.
She doesn't look at you anymore, and no matter what you say or do, she doesn't stir up ripples in her heart.
The heart is like water, there are no waves, I am deeply disappointed in you, and I despise you.
No matter how much effort you put in, it will be difficult to win back her heart, and the only thing she will give back to you is to ignore it.
In the past, she was affectionate to you, but now, she is cold and ruthless to you, and everything about you has nothing to do with her.
No matter what kind of relationship, as long as a woman's heart is cold, she will close her heart so that you can never be approached.
No matter what happens in your life, even if you suffer a huge setback, she will no longer pity you, and even a glance will be superfluous.
When Xiaoman girl fell in love with her boyfriend, she was kind to him in every way and took the initiative to think about him.
Whatever her boyfriend wants to eat, no matter how late it is, she is willing to get up and prepare it for him. Her boyfriend has a need, and as long as she can do it, she will try to meet it.
Therefore, her boyfriend gradually developed a sense of superiority and thought that Xiaoman was his free nanny.
Her boyfriend rarely thinks about her, she's tired, and he doesn't care;She was sad and he was not comforted. No matter what happens, her boyfriend only cares about himself and regards Xiaoman as a dispensable existence.
During the period of cohabitation, Xiaoman girl bears all the expenses, her boyfriend is comfortable and enjoys, but she is wronged.
However, Xiaoman doesn't mind all this. What really disappointed her was that once she was hospitalized, her boyfriend didn't come, didn't answer, and sent a message saying don't bother him.
From that moment on, Xiaoman girl understood that her boyfriend didn't love her at all, and grievances and tears welled up in her heart, and she was completely chilled.
Later, Xiaoman no longer loves her boyfriend as much as before, ignores him, ignores everything about him, and no longer cares about him.
After her boyfriend realized her attitude, no matter how hard he tried, he couldn't save her heart. Although her boyfriend began to treat Xiaoman with her heart, her broken heart could never go back to the past.
A woman's true desperation is to be silent, ignoring everything about you, so that you can no longer touch her heart.
2. Ignore your feelings and stop thinking about your feelings when you make friends with people and women who are better than you.
She is disappointed in you, but she is not in a hurry to leave, and while being with you, she makes more and better men and embarrass you.
She may deliberately do things that hurt you, deliberately disturb your emotions, and make your life troubled and physically and mentally exhausted.
All of this stems from the fact that you did not love her well and did not cherish her, so that she no longer had expectations for the future and no longer pinned her hopes on you.
In a relationship, there is no cold heart for no reason, when her heart has left you, it must be because you have not cherished her.
She looks for a better man than you and makes you angry, and everything she does is telling you that there are many people who don't value her and are willing to fight for it.
Even if you want to redeem her and rebuild the old relationship, she will not accept it again, and once a woman is cold-hearted, she will never look back.
At this point, she no longer cares who you associate with, and nothing about you is worth mentioning to her.
Socialize with other women, she is no longer angry;Where are you going, she doesn't ask anymore;When you come back, or even if you don't, she doesn't care anymore.