Recently, a new species has been added to the Internet, called "Monday Wai Guilt Powder".
What does it mean, it's that everyone has scolded Zhou Yiwei for a long time in the past, and I think he doesn't love Zhu Dan, but I recently found out that it seems that he scolded the wrong person.
Zhou Zhouwei's turnaround started from the couple variety show he and Zhu Dan were on (that is, the one in which Jin Sha and her boyfriend who was 19 years younger than her also participated), and Zhu Dan said one thing in the show.
She said that she was cheated out of all her savings by a friend for a while, and she was also saddled with a debt of 16 million.
At that time, she was not married to Zhou Yiwei, and Zhou Yiwei said it didn't matter, I will help you pay it back.
Then netizens went to pull a timeline and found that this thing probably seemed to be very true.
Zhu Dan was deceived and wanted to repay his debts can be checked, and this time just coincides with the time when Zhou Yiwei takes on a large number of plays, and basically accepts all plays, and most of the Internet takes them, which is really different from Zhou Yiwei's consistent style.
So all of a sudden, Zhou Zhouwei's image became taller, and on the premise of not getting married, he worked hard to help his girlfriend pay off his debts, which is indeed very rare.
In addition, during the broadcast of the show, many people found that Zhu Dan seemed to have a "paraphrase disorder", and the same thing was often different from the original way of things when she said it in her mouth.
For example, she said that she once ran away from home and didn't care about her on Monday. But in essence, she sulked and walked out of the house for two or three hundred meters, and then Zhou Zhouwei found out and found her back.
Immediately, everyone realized that some of their past perceptions of Zhou Yiwei were probably misled by Zhu Dan.
As she said before, the two of them quarreled and fought coldly, and Zhou Zhou came to her to reconcile and said to her"I'm giving you the steps now, and if you don't walk down, there won't be any steps later."
This time it is also uncertain, what did Zhou Zhouwei say, maybe only Zhu Dan knows.
And Zhou Zhouwei's performance on the show also slowly changed the public's perception of him, he just said little, but he did what he had to do.
I won't mention some small details of showing affection between husband and wife, what makes me more touched is that Zhu Dan has been scolded for a long time because he always called the wrong name for hosting the show, and now he still has a psychological shadow, but Zhou Yiwei said that he never cares about outsiders' comments on Zhu Dan, what he loves"The man who went through these events".
"All your past has made you the person you are in front of me at this moment."
Including this show, it was because Zhu Dan wanted to participate in him.
To sum up, he is a kind of silent support for Zhu Dan, you owe debts, I will help you pay them back, if you make mistakes, I will bear them with you, I will accept whatever you do, and there is nothing else, I will definitely be there when you need me.
Is it the appearance of a majestic, tolerant, and good man?
But I don't think it's that simple.
Monday around the bodyJust do not say, no words to supportThe advantages are indeed obvious and precious, after all, many men have a mouth and don't do anything serious, butHe is still macho in nature.
One thing that I care about a lot, Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei had an argument in the show, Zhu Dan felt that their son was a little too abrasive, and he should help him establish some rules, so as not to be unable to adapt to school in the future.
Zhou Zhouwei means that this kind of thing does not need to be prevented in advance, and it is not too late to wait for the child to go to school and then educate him.
Zhu Dan is a little anxious, from the mother's point of view, this is actually very understandable, after all, the mother has more contact with the child, knows very well what the child is like, and it is normal to worry about the child's future. Her concern is not that "the child will not be able to adapt", but that "if the child cannot adapt to it, he will be frustrated".
But Zhou Yiwei just insisted on his point of view: when it is time to adapt, the child will adapt himself.
also brought out some big truths, which means that if a person is destined to suffer the beating of society, then you can't beat him first for the society, "life is not science, not so rational".
At first glance, it seems to make a little sense of what this says, but when you think about it, it's not rightThese are obviously two different thingsAh, Zhou Yiwei didn't seem to understand what Zhu Dan was worried about.
So the two fell into a stalemate, and finally Zhou Zhou Wei said that he could talk to the child.
But his wording is:"If you (Zhu Dan) firmly recognize something, I will cooperate with you to do it, but you must not force me to recognize it."
How to put it, **weird.
Although some people think that this reflects Zhou Zhouwei's respect for Zhu Dan, I think that this set of shots, whether it is Zhou Yiwei's expression, body language or wording, is precisely revealedThe status gap between him and Zhu Dan.
His feelings for Zhu Dan do not affect his control of the absolute power of this family, and he seems to enjoy this power very much.
On the surface, it seems that he has compromised, he is cooperating with Zhu Dan, but in fact, he just agreed to a request from his wife, Zhu Dan seems to be arguing, but in fact it is more like asking for a consent, it is obvious who the power of consent belongs to, not to mention that Zhou Yiwei also took this opportunity to set another rule for Zhu Dan.
That's the twisting feeling I felt on Monday.
He is very good, a good man who values love and righteousness, butIn his bones, he lives in his own worldSilent support can be a sign of love or powerdoes not deny his feelings for Zhu Dan, but this feeling itself also has a condescending element.
Zhu Dan was like one in front of himFacing the teacher's students,This teacher is very sympathetic to the student, and occasionally can play with the student, but the teacher is still the teacher, and the student is still the student.
The feelings are real, and Zhu Dan's subordinate identity is also real.
Don't forget, Zhou Yiwei was scolded earlier because he looked down on Zhu Dan, he felt that although Zhu Dan was also filming and loved filming, butZhu Dan's filming and his filming are not the same concept.
This was said by himself, and did not pass through Zhu Dan's mouth.
Including when the host felt that this was very hurtful, he also said, "That's what happened."
At this time, he stopped saying that "life is not so rational", and he suddenly began to "facts are facts".
To put it bluntly, he only recognizes his own ideas, and does not think about Zhu Dan's feelings, and this issue has not changed for many years. He has his own unbreakable logic.
Of course, Zhu Dan eats this set, Zhu Dan said that the most attractive thing about Zhou Yiwei is that Zhou Yiwei has connotation and knowledge, and she worships Zhou Yiwei, so the kind of self-excess of Zhou Yiwei is not a problem for her.
But it's hard to say whether a different woman can stand it.
This is also the feeling that many traditional men in traditional marriages often give me. Can you say they're bad?No, they're responsible, they're responsible, they can do their part when you need him.
But if you want a little more understanding, respect, and equality from them, you can't.
It makes me feel that they are just playing a role, the role of a good boyfriend, a good husband, a good father, a role that the traditional concept requires them to play, as long as they play this role well, it is a manifestation of love, and other things, they are too lazy to think.
If a woman is also willing to play the role of a good girlfriend, a good wife, and a good mother, and take charge of the "financial power of the family", give face to the man, and let the man fully display his machismo, there is no problem.
The point is that there are not many women who are still willing to play this kind of traditional marriage role-playing, which is where our controversy over "good men" lies.
It's not that Monday is bad, but it seems that everyone doesn't have to feel guilty about him yet.