The big test of family affection: when kindness becomes a bargaining chip!
Let's talk about the truth, will you give money because of family affection?Especially the kind of relative who feels like a bottomless pit?The story of a couple in Beijing may touch you a little!
This matter has to start with a meal, a man and a woman, sitting in a restaurant in Beijing, the dishes on the table are full of flavor and fragrance, who knows that a storm about money is quietly brewing.
The woman suddenly took out the "family bill": borrow 300,000 yuan for her younger brother to buy a house. Reason?Her parents had helped them at the beginning, and now they have repaid them. When the man heard this, he said in his heart, "Isn't this using me as an ATM?".In this case, the circle of friends of the sister showing off her wealth is not a decoration, let her pay for it!
The woman quit, she felt that her sister was not as good as them, and they had to pay for it. The man's heart is full of 10,000 cao mud horses galloping past, which logic is this?His parents helped him once, and he had more opportunities to repay him, but what does his younger brother's purchase of a house have to do with repaying his kindness?
The atmosphere of the meal froze all of a sudden, and the man was furious, and said bluntly: I will not give out this 300,000. Seeing that the situation was not good, the woman hurried to end, but the man had lost his appetite and left the table angrily.
Netizens are also discussing, and some say that they want to repay the favor, after all, they helped at the beginning. But there are also those who believe that this favor cannot be turned into kidnapping, especially for relatives in a bottomless pit.
Let's talk about it, how should this favor and chips be balanced?Is it that every time family affection knocks on the door, we have to pay for it without hesitation?Or do you have to have a degree?Talk to me about your opinion, and let's ** this commonplace but sensitive topic together!