The sign of maturity is a sense of proportion, and many people's lives are not good, not because the conditions are not good
It's because of their own cognitive biases. When a person is not clear about what he or she can do, it is easy for the congregation to betray his relatives.
For this woman, her behavior was suffocating, and after her divorce, she even asked her ex-husband for money to buy a house for her younger brother
Even tried to get her daughter to help. Her mind is not in the family, and she has no time to take care of her daughter
As a result, her daughter doesn't have much affection for her. The woman tried to get her daughter's support by playing the emotional card
But the results were a big surprise. In another post, the daughter complained that her mother put most of her mind on her mother's home
It's better for a nephew than for a biological daughter. The mother even demanded that her daughter pay her salary to pay for her brother's college education.
This kind of behavior of helping the younger brother demon is very puzzling, but the root cause behind it is that people who lack love crave approval from their parents.
These people help their younger brother just in the hope of getting a compliment, which is a comfort to the soul of those who lack love.
This also explains why such people continue to give even if they don't get something in return.