When we are faced with doubts, what kind of attitude should we take to deal with the small world that belongs to two people? When the rift begins to manifest, what kind of courage and wisdom does it take to repair it?
Each couple is moving forward in their own storms, working together to support each other.
We seem to focus only on the judgment and in-depth comparison of appearances, but ignore the complex story behind it.
They have been confused, they have struggled, and they have left the softest part of their hearts after the passage of time.
Ten or eight years later, looking back, I realized that the true meaning of marriage is actually not complicated - that is, the person who supported you in the wind and rain is still waiting for you.
Two family photos reveal the first two heavenly problems in marriage.
What attitude do they choose to adopt when questioned?
What is frightening now is that the thorns of the past are a thing of the past.
A talent show caused a storm.
On the judges' bench, Zhang Ziyi revealed her love for the performer on stage, Zhou Yiwei, who happened to be a good friend of her current husband Wang Feng.
The tacit understanding and rapport between the two naturally evokes people's associations.
After that, they collaborated on a TV series, and the romance created in the drama is amazing. This led to a closer relationship between the two.
Against the backdrop of these signs, some people soon began to wonder if the two had a secret affection for each other in real life.
The most anxious should be Zhu Dan, she and Zhou Yiwei have been married for many years, and their relationship is very deep.
In the face of doubts, Zhu Dan chose the most direct and powerful way - showing affection**.
This forms a situation that contrasts strongly with the rumors of Zhang Wang's marriage change.
* shows the happy expression on Zhu Dan's face, which has clearly stated the truth of the matter.
Of course, just a few photos are far from enough to understand the inner workings of marriage, because only the husband and wife can truly understand it.
How should the relationship between the old husband and the young wife be evaluated? Are they really as loving as they appear to be?
What kind of insistence and mutual support are needed to return the marriage to its true nature needs to be carefully savored.
We are already familiar with the nickname of Humble Dan, and she confided in people her helplessness about her husband's unruliness.
After all these years, do they still have a youthful face? A show may have unraveled the mystery.
Many years ago, Zhu Dan vouched for his friend, but the other party's mutton fat ball mysteriously disappeared.
Boyfriend Zhou Yiwei was not only implicated because of his high debts and loss of savings.
The young couple, who had just established a relationship, undoubtedly faced a huge blow.
There is a lot of speculation that Zhou Yiwei may have accidentally left because of such a heavy family burden.
However, there are also those who believe that it is in this predicament that the true nature of a person can be best seen.
The latter's conjecture was also confirmed by the practice of Zhou Zhouwei.
Unexpectedly, the boyfriend who had just confirmed the relationship not only did not choose to leave, but took the initiative to help her pay off her debts and comfort her when she was down.
After experiencing the first challenge in their lives, the young couple's relationship is more unwavering, so to speak.
For them, the event had far-reaching significance and remained in their memories.
Whenever Zhu Dan remembers that experience many years ago, his heart is still full of fear.
She will feel afraid, she almost lost this man, and she will also be grateful for Zhou Zhouwei's friendship that stood up to each other without hesitation.
Zhou Yiwei would also hug her tightly, listen to her heart, and warm her wounded heart again.
Those difficult times are long gone, but the mutual support will always be the same.
Tactfully pointing out mistakes is the most convincing attitude when faced with misunderstandings.
Perhaps what we hear is only the subjective statement of one of the parties, and how sincerely the other side might tell the truth.
Zhou Yiwei and Zhu Dan, the collision of two different worlds, shows the essence of marriage.
They grew up in very different backgrounds, one was conceited and arrogant, and the other was humble and low-key.
As a result, they discover qualities in each other that are different from their own.
The root of their mutual attraction, ironically, is this.
Over the years, they are still together with their original mood.
Whenever Zhu Dan was depressed, Zhou Yiwei would put down what he was doing and listen quietly; And when Zhu Dan was busy cooking, he always paid attention quietly, glancing from time to time to confirm if he needed help.
Only by supporting each other unreservedly can we truly grasp the essence of marriage.
Of course, there will also be run-in periods and conflicts between them.
Whenever there is a conflict, Zhou Yiwei always uses his unique attitude to resolve Zhu Dan's unhappiness.
He always doesn't turn over old accounts, and he never talks about his own efforts.
Instead, he will express it in a gentle tone, saying "The matter is over, everyone disperses, and there is no need to mention it again."
She is getting softer and softer, and she is more and more able to understand Zhou Yiwei's attitude, and this quality of tolerance and tolerance gradually dilutes the edge of Zhu Dan's character.
Although the two have very different personalities, because of this, they achieve balance in their marriage.
This balance is based on mutual understanding and tolerance.
When we hear Zhu Dan complaining about her husband, let's give us more tolerance and understanding.
Every couple goes through their own storms, and that's the essence of marriage, two heavens.
The ultimate safety lies in whether we can support each other, and we rely on each other.
The sudden announcement of his divorce from Zhang Ziyi undoubtedly triggered a bombshell, which surprised everyone.
Her love story over the years reminds us of it: first a Hong Kong tycoon, then a high-end tycoon, then an amateur boyfriend, and finally married Wang Feng.
There must be a deep reason behind her choice to divorce, so why did she finally decide to end the marriage?
Pursuing the determination to have children at an advanced age, can marriage really bring happiness?
Zhang Ziyi is pregnant again at the age of 40, which undoubtedly shows that she is unwavering in her desire to grow old with Wang Feng, even if she has already given birth to a daughter.
For the sake of this marriage, she was desperate to prove the success of the two.
However, after we got married, we found that Zhang Ziyi's career was completely stagnant, and her whole state was deteriorating day by day, which couldn't help but make people wonder if there was a hidden problem behind happiness.
In fact, Zhang Ziyi's choice of Wang Feng contains problems in itself.
Zhang Ziyi is known for her successful career and ambition, while Wang Feng has an easy-going personality and does not particularly value fame and fortune.
There must be one person who has to make concessions, because these two very different people are together.
Sure enough, the person who compromised was Zhang Ziyi.
She threw herself into her family, desperately shelving her career and devoting herself to this marriage.
However, over the years, she has poured her heart and soul into her career.
She gave up what she cared about most for the sake of a person, and it was undoubtedly a process full of struggle and pain.
Her former glamorous beauty was gradually worn out by mental torture, and it was not until after marriage that it was clearly revealed.
This compromise is not destined to last long.
Zhang Ziyi is full of ambitions, but she is caught in the difficult situation of her family, and she longs to return to her former glorious life and successful career.
The conflict between the two escalated, and Wang Feng was unable to meet her needs, which eventually led to their marriage not being sustainable.
This is the irreparable tragedy caused by the old age of seeking children.
If a marriage is overly controlled, it will not last long.
After careful consideration, it can be found that Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng's personalities are completely different.
The former has strong characteristics, while the latter is more easy-going.
Zhang Ziyi once revealed that during Wang Feng's business trip, she carried out many inspections, which showed her strong desire to control.
The emotion of wanting to stay away from Wang Feng's new song also proves this to some extent.
This marriage is destined to be difficult to last because the personalities of the two parties are incompatible and the desire for control is too strong.
In the end, although Wang Feng could not meet Zhang Ziyi's ambitions back then, she still did not give up on what she expected.
She has recuperated in the gentle village, gathered strength, and is ready to start again.
Speaking of this marriage, perhaps for her, it may have been a compromise at the beginning.
She could no longer compromise, so she had to leave and re-embark on her own path.