Familyof happiness withEconomyThere is no absolute correlation between the conditions, but they areFamilyWhether the members are heart-to-heart and live in harmony. Even if you are wealthyFamilyIf there are internal conflicts and frictions, their lives will also become unpleasant. Therefore, for the elderly, if they want to be healthy in their old age, they must let itFamilyStaying away from internal friction is the greatest responsibility to oneself and the best choice.
It is a very common phenomenon that we tend to show the most demanding attitude and the most demanding vision when dealing with those closest to us. In the past, we were more tolerant and understanding of our colleagues or partners, but when it comes to our families, we can be the harshest critics. We don't seem to tolerate the slightest mistake made by our family members, and if we make a mistake, we reprimand them in the harshest words and call it strict requirements under the banner of "for your good", with the aim of making them progress. However,lifeNo one can be perfect, no one can be perfectFlawless。In that case, why be so our beloved family members?The pursuit of perfection is a high demand for ourselves, but it should be used to discipline ourselves rather than blame others. We can demand perfection from ourselves, but we can't force others to be error-free. Be more tolerant and accept the imperfections of our families, and we will also find that the shortcomings in them are also a kind of beauty.
InFamilyWe must learn to be tolerant and accepting, understand the flaws and mistakes of our family members, and find our own shortcomings from them. Everyone has their own characteristics and strengths, as well as disadvantages and disadvantages. We should try to put ourselves in the shoes of our family members and experience their feelings and confusions. If we can empathize and be more considerate and understanding, many quarrels and unpleasantness can be avoided. After all, we can't take ourselves too seriously and think about everything with ourselves as the center. When we are able to put ourselves in someone else's shoes and look at things from a different perspective, we will find out:lifeMany of these problems can be solved.
Comparison is one of the main causes of anxiety. EspeciallyFamilyWe should stay away from the thinking of comparison. HappyFamilyIt is diverse, and it does not necessarily require a large house and a lot of wealth to be called happy. A little rich is safe, and the family is healthylifeA calm environment is also a manifestation of happiness. However, many people always keep their eyes on others and ignore their own happiness. They only see others as better than themselves, but they don't see their own strengths and values. This kind of meaningless comparison will only increase internal friction and lead to unnecessary quarrels and contradictions.
As the old saying goes, ".TranquilityZhiyuan". Familyis the most important haven for a person, a warm andTranquilityplace. We can't let internal friction ruin thisTranquility, make home not like home, let the family alienate from us. eachFamilyWe will all have our own problems and difficulties, and behind the happiness we envy may also be trivial and troublesome. lifeThat is why we should know contentment and contentment. Rather than blindly envy otherslifeIt is better to cherish your happiness. FamilyIt is our greatest wealth, our most precious wealth, and we should know how to cherish and protect it.
FamilyIt is everyone's most important reliance and belonging. The happiness and tranquility of people in their old age does not depend on the amount of their wealth, but on itFamilyof harmony and internal friction. In order to achieve well-being in old age, we need to stay away from internal friction and letFamilyFull of love and harmony.
First of all, we should let go of the harshness we have on our family members and not strive for perfection too much. Everyone has flaws and shortcomings, and tolerance and tolerance areFamilyPeacefulCritical。We should be empathetic and more understanding and considerate. Don't take yourself too seriously, learn to see the world from someone else's point of view. Secondly, we must stay away from blind comparisons and find our inner calmness. HappyFamilyIt is diverse, and it is not only material abundance that can be called happiness. We should find our own happiness and cherish the family and warmth around uslife。Don't let the comparatively minded spoil itFamilyThe harmony of the family makes it not like home, and makes the family alienated from us.
Finally, we need to be content and happy, and know how to guardFamilyof warmth. FamilyIt is our most precious treasure that we should cherish and guard. Don't quarrel over trivial matters, but support and love each other. FamilyIt is a haven for us in our old age, and it is our greatest comfort and dependence.
As the years go by, we know betterFamilythe importance and preciousness of the matter. Whether we are rich or poor, we should stay awayFamilyInternal friction, letFamilyBe the source of our happiness. Let us keep this principle in mind and manage ourselves with gratitude and toleranceFamilyand live a harmonious and happy old agelife。2517 This text emphasizedFamilyof happiness withEconomyThe basis is not to be related, but to dependFamilyThe harmony of the hearts of the members and the presence or absence of internal friction. The author mentions three suggestions to helpFamilyStay away from internal friction. The first is not to strive for perfection too much, not to leave the worst temper and the harshest gaze to those closest to you. The second is to learn to empathize and experienceFamilyThe hard work and pressure of the members, understanding the different roles of each other. Finally, don't blindly compare, find your inner calmness, and avoid unnecessary quarrels and anxiety. Finally, the author calls on everyone to cherishFamilyof warmth andTranquility, stay away from internal friction, letFamilyTo be a haven for well-being and happiness in old age.