As we age, we gradually move into old age. At this stage, whether we have wealth or not, it will have a profound impact on our children. At this stage of life, we should pay more attention to inheritance and help, especially the following five aspects.
1. Inheritance of experience.
Over the course of our lives, we have accumulated a wealth of experience and wisdom. These experiences and wisdom may not be measured in monetary terms, but they are priceless treasures to our children. We can pass on these experiences to our children through words and deeds, so that they can avoid detours on the road of life.
Second, the shaping of values.
A person's values often determine the direction of his life. As elders, we should help our children develop the right values, including respect for others, honesty and responsibility. The inheritance of these values will benefit them immensely in the future of life.
3. Establish family harmony.
The family is the basic unit of human society, and family harmony is the foundation of social harmony. As elders, we should help our children build harmonious family relationships and teach them to respect, understand and tolerate. This not only helps to maintain the stability and happiness of the family, but also helps to promote the harmonious development of society.
4. Cultivate independence.
While we want our children to be there for us at all times, we should also recognize that they will eventually grow up to face life on their own. Therefore, we should cultivate their independent ability as much as possible, including independent thinking, independent problem solving, etc. This will not only help them to move independently on the path of life in the future, but also contribute to our own spiritual liberation.
5. Pay attention to mental health.
As we age, our mental health issues become more prominent. As elders, we should pay attention to our own mental health, and we should also pay attention to the mental health of our children. We can exchange ideas, share feelings, and solve problems with them, and help them develop a positive attitude towards life. This not only helps to maintain our own mental health, but also helps to promote the healthy growth of our children.
In short, as elders, we should do what we can to help our children when we are old. Through the inheritance of experience, the shaping of values, the establishment of family harmony, the cultivation of independence, and the attention to mental health, we can provide all-round help and support for our children. This will not only help them grow into responsible adults, but also help maintain the harmony and happiness of our family and the development and progress of society. Therefore, whether we have wealth or not, we should pay attention to these aspects and do our best to help our children. This is true vision and wisdom.