Yesterday, a mother in the community told me that her child is now in the first grade, and she usually looks very serious, but the very simple questions are always wrong, and she can't control her emotions every time she tutors her homework, and finally makes her angry, and she is very anxious when she looks at the homework of other students in the class. I signed her up for a make-up Xi class but it didn't work, I don't know what to do?Later I shared our experience with this momDon't take grades too seriously in the first grade, the most important thing in elementary school is the fourth grade!
If the critical period is grasped well, students can not only improve their grades, but also develop a sound personalityIf you can't grasp the critical period, it may not be so easy to improve as soon as possible in the later stage, and in the initial stage of ideological transformation, if you don't educate well, it is not conducive to the growth of students.
And this period, although it is a critical period for students, is also crucial as the hometown of educational auxiliariesParents need to change the way of education, not to educate students in the past, in the way of imperative education, students already have their own way of thinking, imperative education will only breed students' disgust.
During this period, parents should become friends with their studentsDon't treat students as children anymore, treat them with respect, and students will change.
1. Let your child organize his or her school bag by himself
Believe me, the most unbearable thing for the teacher is to let the child who rushes into his schoolbag and rummags when he hands in his homework.
So,It is important to develop children's self-care skills from an early age. Do your own things, parents can do what children can do, parents must not be too diligent at this time.
Today's school bags are designed to be particularly user-friendly, layer by layerTeach your child to sort and organize, put the textbooks together, put the homework books together, put the stationery together, and put the water cup and skipping rope on the side. You can't learn it twice, but you can always learn it if you do it a few more times. If the child is clear about his own things, you can be the shopkeeper and how chic.
Organizing the schoolbag is one thing, you can do it from one to the other, the child's desk, wardrobe, etc., and even part of the housework can be contracted to him. Remember to strengthen, strengthen, intensify the effect you want.
2. Sort out the wrong questions
The mistake book is called a treasure by the teacher. It records the shortcomings of children's learning and Xi, which is the basis for checking and filling gaps, and you say that it is not important.
Don't talk about how to check and fill in the gaps, oh, I'll leave the method to you. Make up for the shortcomings, let your barrel hold more water, so that children can learn more solidly and go further.
3. Connect what you have learned to your life
This requires parents who are particularly attentive, familiar with the content of their children's textbooks, able to link textbook knowledge with life knowledge, and children will also find it interesting, and have a sudden realization of "so it is like this", killing two birds with one stone. Kung Fu is in normal times, attentive and serious, you don't win, who wins.
After nagging so much, I hope that these Xi will be cultivated when the child is still young and does not have too many eyes to resist you, and we can lie down. Do the usual kung fu in place, we don't have to be in the tutoring homework chickens and dogs, heart pain, there is a harmonious parent-child relationship, there is a warm family atmosphere, very good!
Hope it will be useful to everyone,It's kingCome on!
In the whole six years of primary school, how much effort we adults put in, how much children can gain.
Accompany children through the six years of primary school" tells vivid stories with concise words in terms of the psychological development characteristics of primary school students, the characteristics of cultural knowledge they have learned, the cultivation of learning XiXi habits, and the cultivation of learning Xi ability. I believe that after reading "Accompanying Children Through Six Years of Primary School", parents and children can easily get rid of the confusion of primary school and truly experience the joy of growing up.
In addition, there is also "Accompanying Children Through the Three Years of Junior High School", which focuses more on how to understand adolescent children and communicate effectively with them. As a parent who came over, the author sometimes had times when he was at a loss in the process of accompanying his children, so the examples that happened in the author's house in the book have been successful or unsuccessful. From the perspective of an educator, the author also wrote about his own awareness and reflection in the book, hoping to be helpful to everyone.
Child, you need to understand that all the effort you put into your school Xi is ultimately for yourself. Your hard work today will make you brilliant tomorrow, make you a useful talent, and make your life more fulfilling and exciting.
Reading can make you smart, humble, and learned, and ultimately make you an elegant and brilliant person. Without the accumulation of reading and learning Xi, it is impossible to have the glory of tomorrow. When you create a better future with your own efforts, when you feel the value of your life, when you realize your life dream, you can understand the true purpose of studying, and you will also thank yourself for the sweat and hard work you have paid!
I have read these books many times, and each time there is a new inspiration, I can't help but sigh at the importance and hardship of education, when you finish reading, you will find that those confusion, confusion, and suffering in your education, especially in getting along with children, have been given solutions, and some even have steps.
And ** is not expensive, the money of a meal, your life may be changed.
It would be better if you could read with other parents, receive the influence of wisdom together, and give it away, and others will praise you for your taste.
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