A certain day, a certain month, and a certain year,Jin YanHe Tian Tao walked inMarriageof the temple. At first, they were childhood sweethearts, and after a turbulent and bumpy period, they finally chose to stay together. However, after marriagelifeIt's not likeJin YanIt's as good as I imagined.
Jin Yanfound that Ding Lei was not the person he idealized, and he treated itJin YanNot enough care and consideration was given. On the contrary, Tian Tao is a person who can giveJin YanWarm and secure people. In the bottom of Tian Tao's heart,Jin Yanis the woman he really likes.
Jin YanStart thinking about yourselfMarriageWhether the selection is correct or not. She doesn't want to be Ding Lei's lover, she longs for a justifiable oneMarriage。However, reality has put her in a difficult situation. Ding Lei's divorce has not been realized, whileJin Yandiscovered Ding Lei's ambiguous behavior.
Let's face this reality,Jin YanI felt extremely lost and uneasy. She began to doubt her choice, and began to think about whether she should continue to wait for Ding Lei's divorce, or take action to find her own happiness.
However,Jin YanShe didn't want to repeat the mistakes of the past, she didn't want to be caught up in endless waiting and pain again. She decided to muster the courage to re-examine her life and make the choices that were right for her.
Eventually,Jin Yandecided to part ways with Ding Lei and end this unhealthy relationship. She understands that a person without a name and without dignityMarriageIt's not the happiness she's pursuing.
Jin YanBegin to pick up your own againlifeto find your own happiness. She realizedMarriageIt should not be torture and suffering, but a stage for two people to grow together.
Jin YanI found my independence againlifestate, she began to focus on her career development and personal growth. Through continuous efforts and learning Xi,Jin YanHe has been successful at work and has made many good friends in his social circle.
In the process,Jin YanI also re-examined my attitude towards feelings. She understands,MarriageIt's not the whole of life, and happiness isn't achieved by having someone.
Jin YanIt is found that happiness comes from inner satisfaction and love of life. She has learned to think independently and identify with herself, and no longer rely on the evaluations and expectations of others.
InJin YanAfter rediscovering herself, she meets someone who is close to her own thoughts and who can truly understand her. They support each other, grow together, and build a healthy, equal partnership together.
Through this experience,Jin YanI learned to be brave enough to face my heart and reality, and to stop letting the expectations and pressures of others dictate my choices. She has found her own happiness and cherishes this hard-won happiness.