Restrain your desires
What kind of person has the upper hand in the relationship?
Absolutely sanity. The more sober you are, the less likely you are to be hurt by the other person;
The more sensible you are, the less likely you are to fall into a love brain.
What kind of people will not be deceived?
Lower libido. Shut up the fish, so that they will not take the bait;
He who has no desires will never be deceived;
Your ambition should match your abilities and mind.
What kind of people are more likely to be happy?
Lower expectations. Many times, the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment;
And you lower your expectations, and even if things go badly, you're able to withstand it.
The truly terrifying, the people with the city, are often able to restrain their desires;
Even if your eyes are full of **, you won't let yourself fall into a "dangerous situation".
Keep a low profile
People should do different things at different ages.
When you are young, it is the nature of this age to be competitive and like to perform;
After the age of 30, I am still very impulsive and like to show off, which is not enlightened.
What is the end of the Word?
It's hidden. Hide your edge to avoid pointing the finger at you;
Learn to hide your clumsiness to avoid being envied;
Hide your temper so that others can't see through you.
Really smart people know how to:
Make a fortune with a muffled voice, pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger.
You make a lot of money, others will not bless you, they will only envy you;
If you are doing well, others will not be happy for you, they will only attack you with sour language.
The truth of human nature is:
I can't see you better off than you.
Seeing my friends buy luxury cars, change to big houses, and get better and better, it's even worse than slapping me a few times."
That's human nature.
Keep a low profile and don't share your real life and income with anyone
This is the best way to protect you.
The best social skills: means go hand in hand with benefits
What should I do if I meet a villain?
If you bully the soft and fear the hard, you will fight back head-on;
The stronger you are, the more cowardly you become.
When you meet an impulsive villain, you avoid all conflicts;
They can "get out of the way" and be impulsive and desperate, but you can't
When encountering such villains, decisively keep your distance.
Because there are some people who you can't reason;
People who can't listen to good words can't listen to bad words.
Whether it is to counterattack or avoid, it is a means.
If you want to make the relationship last, you can't do without "interests", this is the skill.
There are two types of relationships.
One is: "emotional socialization".
One is: "utilitarian social".
A long-lasting relationship can either provide each other with sufficient emotional value;
Or, you can create more benefits for each other.
Never tell someone about your goals
Why do you say: When you make a wish, don't let others know?
If others know, will their wishes not work?
Not. If your goals, your plans, all your plans, are listened to;
This will do you more harm than good.
For example, your career plan may be "stolen" by someone with a heart;
Your goal may be ridiculed and denied.
Those who are jealous of you and hold a grudge against you will hinder you in every way
People who don't see you well will say something to disturb your emotions.
Don't share your plan, with good results, you decide whether to share it or not.
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