The role of money in friendship is complex and sensitive. Jia Pingwa's "Sitting" shows exactly how the friends deal with money in terms of money. Hairuo and her friends are successful women who sometimes eat, shop, borrow money, etc. together at times. On the surface, they help each other and give generously, but Jia Pingwa reveals the money behind this friendship in **Relationship of interest。When larger amounts are involved, the bond of camaraderie is put to the test. Just like what happened to Ying Lihou and Yan Nianchu, money borrowing and lending turned into a debt dispute that had been with them for a long time. Originally, Ying Li thought that the friendship between them was unbreakable, however, in the face of money entanglements, the friendship became fragile and fragile. It can be seen that too much money exchange between female friends can easily lead to conflicts of interest and destroy long-term friendships.
In addition, in "Sitting", the friendship between Xi Lishui and Xin Qi is no exception. Xin Qi held a natural mentality and pinned his hopes on Xi Lishui's financial resources, and often asked for help and loans. Despite Xi Lishui's economic strength, Xin Qi's attitude towards money was not correct. She tends to be perfunctory, or not to repay the borrowed money at all. This unequal exchange of money leads to the instability of friendship, and Xi Lishui is suspicious, and gradually avoids contact with Xin Qi. Even the richest person can feel uncomfortable with a friend who has borrowed money for a long time, so women should avoid too much money exchange if they want to maintain a long-term friendship, especially if the amount is large.
The friendship between men and women is different from the friendship between **, because of the fragility of the former. In Jia Pingwa's "Temporary Sitting", female friends are all attracted to the same man, Yiguang. At first, Hai Ruo and Yi Guang are close, but as other female friends join, their interactions with Yi Guang gradually decrease, and Yi Guang's attention slowly shifts to other people. This causes Hairuo to experience insomnia and gradually realizes that her relationship with Yiguang has changed.
Between women, one should not associate excessively with the same man. Because the interaction between men and women is special and complex, it is difficult to grasp the balance. Yiguang's preference for one female friend can trigger jealousy and psychological imbalance in others. Jealousy is inevitable, even if it is not shown outwardly, everyone will be careful in their hearts. Therefore, in order to maintain a long-lasting friendship, women should not get too close to the same male friend. Don't expect him to be your best friend, or your relationship with your girlfriend will definitely go wrong.
Through Jia Pingwa's "Temporary Sitting", we can understand that if women want to maintain long-term friendships, they need to avoid excessive money exchanges and excessive interactions with the same man. Money in friendship is easy to cause conflicts of interest and destroy friendship. Too much money exchange between female friends can easily lead to conflicts and dissatisfaction. At the same time, between women, one should not excessively associate with the same man, because the relationship between men and women is complex and fragile, which can easily provoke jealousy and imbalance. Therefore, female friends need to be careful with each other in dealing with money and male friends to maintain the longevity of the friendship.