01: The reason why Tian Wenwen is sensible is precisely because she is trapped in an "island".
It can be clearly observed that in Tian Wenwen's only eighteen years of life, most of the pain she experienced was caused by her parents.
From the moment she was born, her parents entrusted her to her grandmother. An elderly man and a young child spent more than a decade in a crumbling old house.
Tian Wenwen's childhood was not so complete.
During her upbringinging, the absence of her parents brought an ancient wound to her psyche.
As Tian Wenwen entered adulthood, the wound had begun to heal, although it looked like it had formed a scab. Every time I recall it, I feel a vague pain.
Tian Wenwen has always been very sensible, but in the play, the dispute with her mother Guan Yue is her only "ignorant" moment.
In the midst of poor economic conditions, you gave birth to me and gave me to my grandmother. ”
When the conditions got better, I was more inclined to give birth to a younger sister than to take me to Wuhan."
You have asked me, do you really want to?”
Tian Wenwen only said three simple words, but it seemed that she had exhausted all her strength. These words were like sharp blades, deeply piercing Guan Yue's heart.
However, Guan Yue's inner pain is insignificant compared to half of Tian Wenwen's.
Tian Wenwen hid these words and resentments for more than ten years. She had single-handedly digested the food and pressed it deep inside her with all her might.
The wounds, which took more than a decade to heal, were reawakened again at this particular moment. "Isn't this the first time I've been injured?The feeling of "old wounds" is like being deeply hurt both the ** and the body.
This dispute between mother and daughter actually reveals a huge problem point. As a mother, Guan Yue is very serious.
Guan Yue was not surprised by her daughter's reproaches and complaints. She felt that the gap between herself and her daughter had become wider and wider, even to the point where she didn't want the other party to know. To her surprise, her daughter's resentment and resentment towards them could last so long and so deeply.
Tian Wenwen was dissatisfied with them, and Guan Yue knew all this.
In the conversation with Tian Wenwen, Guan Yue felt that she had done something wrong because she understood her situation. Her heart is a contradictory and tangled individual, on the one hand, her love for herself, on the other hand, her hatred for her husband, the balance between the two makes her feel helpless and helpless. This obvious shortcoming is particularly cautious in getting along with Tian Wenwen.
However, Guan Yue never really cared about attributing her fault to reason.
In her eyes, her eldest daughter Tian Wenwen behaved very mature and sensible. Although there may be dissatisfaction in the heart, over time, people will gradually understand the difficulties of parents.
It is precisely because of her sensibility that Guan Yue and her parents have ignored Tian Wenwen emotionally many times.
Tian Wenwen received a New Year's gift, and both of them forgot to take it. When I realized that I didn't take it, I retold the whole article with the phrase "Wenwen is sensible, she won't blame us".
Regarding Tian Wenwen's exam performance, Guan Yue and others have never cared. But she was an exception. The problem is that children are sensible and don't need to worry too much.
When Tian Xiangyun was diagnosed with the new coronavirus, he did not immediately notify his wife Guan Yue, but immediately informed his daughter Tian Wenwen. Because she was afraid that her daughter would be afraid. There is no need to ask the reason, because Tian Wenwen's sensibility makes her more capable of carrying the burden.
Guan Yue and her parents only knew that Tian Wenwen was a sensible person, but they never thought about what kind of sadness was hidden behind this sensible.
As a left-behind child at home, Tian Wenwen can only rely closely on her grandmother due to the lack of parental companionship. She is very introverted, does not like to talk, does not like to socialize with people, and does not even know to write her own name. Does this kind of child really have enough self-confidence to be willful?
What's more, as parents Guan Yue and them, the most common sentence that Hetian Wenwen said from childhood to adulthood may be "It's not easy for us to be outside, you have to be sensible at home."
The people around her think that Tian Wenwen is very sensible, but because her parents are not by her side, she lacks self-confidence to be willful.
Tian Wenwen, who grew up in such an environment, how can she remain sensible?
02: Because of Tian Wenwen's maturity and sensibility, her parents often find excuses to ignore her.
An epidemic has swept everyone.
After Tian Wenwen was diagnosed, Guan Yue and Tian Xiangyun, parents who had been negligent in their duties, finally began to have the determination to make up for their past mistakes.
Especially Guan Yue, at the upcoming college entrance examination parents' meeting, she expressed her deep guilt to Tian Wenwen with tears in the face of teachers, classmates and parents.
At first glance, it is really touching.
However, whenever something new happens, Tian Wenwen still becomes the one who is forced to become more sensible.
Tian Wenwen is about to face the pressure of the college entrance examination, and at the same time, her grandmother's health is deteriorating day by day. She is the person she loves the most. One of them is a daughter who is about to face the college entrance examination, and the other is a mother who is seriously ill. She didn't know what to doNo matter how you choose, it's quite bothersome.
Tian Wenwen didn't want her mother to be in trouble, she pushed Guan Yue while persuading, and as a result, she unexpectedly let Guan Yue leave the house.
Guan Yue was deeply moved by her daughter's behavior. But I never expected that behind Tian Wenwen's behavior, there were actually some other emotions mixed in.
She is now 18 years old, completely beyond the age of needing her parents' company.
Especially after the death of her grandmother, Tian Wenwen lived alone in the old house for more than a year, and gradually adapted to the lifestyle of solitude. If Guan Yue can accompany her to take the college entrance examination, it will be a better choice, and she is not disappointed.
Tian Wenwen has lived a life of staying behind since she was a child, and now she has developed the Xi of dealing with problems alone. She likes to be alone in the house in a daze. I prefer to avoid causing unnecessary distress to anyone, including my parents.
This kind of reasoning is shaped by life experience. However, Guan Yue and others believe that Tian Wenwen's maturity and sensibility are just an excuse for them to ignore her.
Because of the college entrance examination of her eldest daughter, who has not been seen for many years, Guan Yue and her family, as parents, have no one to accompany her.
One was busy with business, the other with caring for a seriously ill mother, and neither of them could spare a whole day, or even half a day, to send their daughter to the exam room.
Tian Wenwen has just entered adulthood and is still a girl. A person lives in a dilapidated house that has been maintained for a long time, not mentioning whether it is safe or not.
What's more critical is that she spends her life alone, participates in the college entrance examination alone, and if something unexpected happens, who will be responsible?
Tian Wenwen said that she had the ability to do it, which convinced Guan Yue and others, but in the end she chose to let go.
Unexpectedly, a violent rainstorm caught everyone off guard. When Tian Wenwen woke up, she realized that she seemed to have become an isolated "island".
The home has been hit by floodwaters, which have risen to waists. The only mobile phone, which was able to communicate with the outside world, was unfortunately soaked in water.
Tian Wenwen at this moment, how deep is her despair?
The rain is still pouring down, which indicates that the water level will continue to rise.
If Tian Wenwen plucked up the courage to go out, her life could be threatened if there were no sewers from manhole covers and high-voltage wires from falling water on the road.
If she chooses to stay in her old house and wait for rescue, how should she continue to survive during this time if the water level keeps rising?
Not to mention that today is the college entrance examination, if she can't take it, then she can't take this exam. Therefore, her heart is very heavy, because the day of the college entrance examination is coming!After three years of preparation, everything eventually turned to ashes.
In this desperate moment, Tian Wenwen couldn't find anyone by her side, and there was no her mobile phone. Her dad works in the hospital, and she has to go to school every morning. Even though she was only eighteen years old, at the end of the day, she was still only a half-grown child.
No matter how sensible and precocious they are, people can feel frightened and helpless in the face of such an unexpected situation.
Zhou Meiren appeared at this moment, as if he was a savior descending from the sky.
When Tianzhitian Wenwen told Zhou Meiren the words "You are my savior", the gratitude in her heart was indescribable.
Who knows what kind of luck and luck is hidden behind Tian Wenwen's "I'm fine".
Despite the heart-pounding disaster that Tian Wenwen experienced, Guan Yue and his team lost another opportunity.
03: After a violent rainstorm, I finally saw the true colors of my three pairs of parents.
This violent rainstorm is like a mirror that reflects evil spirits.
Whether they are qualified parents or derelict parents, their identity is obvious.
Zhou Bowen is really lucky because he has a mother who can understand and love him deeply.
His mother, who runs this small restaurant, is a typical "middle-aged woman" who lacks culture.
However, such a mother who lacks an educational background can make Zhou Bowen, a top student, feel confused when filling in the volunteer and ask her for help.
She did not disappoint her son, but encouraged Zhou Bowen to act according to his heart, give corresponding rewards to what he liked, and show a willingness to take all risks for him.
Although it seems to lack cultural heritage on the surface, it actually contains profound wisdom.
Zhou Bowen's father, Zhou Meiren, has been seen as incompetent for more than a decade and has lived a weak life. In those days, his life was very difficult, he often starved and was bullied. However, when the second child arrived, she did not back down and decisively took on the financial responsibility of the family from her wife.
When he becomes a scrap of wood, he is indeed a real scrap of wood.
However, when it was his turn to play, he was also very clear.
In comparison, Tian Wenwen's luck doesn't seem to be so good.
The sentence she said to Zhou Meiren, "I really envy Zhou Bowen, I have a good father like you", completely expressed the pain in her heart.
When his daughter was in danger, Tian Xiangyun could only wait anxiously in Wuhan. He knew that his daughter was a very strong child, but she didn't understand why her father did it. He mistakenly thought that as long as he worked hard to create a better life for his daughter, it would be love for her.
However, what may really make every child crave for longing for companionship, compared to money, is what they really crave.
Compared with Tian Wenwen, Wu Jiajun shows a completely different side.
Tian Wenwen's parents don't seem to care enough about her. Because he is a person who "loves to fight to win", and his father also has a problem with "fighting for his father". However, Wu Jiajun's mother cared too much about him. Therefore, the relationship between him and his mother was always a contest of wisdom and courage."
This "mother-son war" that lasted for a long time was finally the mother who chose to compromise.
Wu Jiajun's mother looks arbitrary and rough on the surface, but what is hidden behind this is actually a deep maternal love.
The sudden rainstorm brought by the college entrance examination made Zhou Meiren successfully "counterattack" and became a competent and good father. Wu Jiajun's mother has also won the love of a large number of audiences.
When Dong Bihua learned that her husband had suffered a misfortune, her first reaction was not to be nervous, but to try to control her emotions and make sure her son would not find out.
When her son walked into the exam venue, she received a call from her husband Ping An**, which made her tense body finally relax completely.
He was always able to stay calm when faced with problems.
Decisive decision-making ability in the face of major events.
Isn't it a blessing to have such a mother to ensure the safety of your child even at the cost of your life?
Compared with Tian Xiangyun, who was initially diagnosed with the new coronavirus, the first thing he was told was not his wife, but his daughter, who was about to face the college entrance examination, and her strength.