"Goodbye Lover 3" finally ushered in the finale, and the only couple who were not separated turned out to be Lao Ji and Wang Shiqing, who felt a little sweet against the backdrop of the beautiful scenery of Xinjiang.
Although Wang Mianmian finally returned to the car, he left a note for Zhang Shuo and gave both parties a decent step.
Fu Seoul and Lao Liu were consistent, and both insisted on not getting off. Although they all cried, they still followed their hearts ruthlessly and chose to let go.
What's even more exciting than this is the screening part, which gives the audience an after-sales service and explains the recent status of the parties.
Wang Sleepy broke up with Zhang Shuo within a month, moved out with the dog, and ushered in a new job;
Zhang Shuo chose to work, starting from basic work such as service and photography;
Lao Ji cut his eyelids, acted in a movie with Andy Lau, and became a photographer, and the whole person was glorious.
He said that he will temporarily separate from Wang Shiqing in the future, and he will return to Beijing, because Beijing has more performing arts resources and photography resources. He has to do his job well first and give Wang Shiqing full freedom to be himself.
Lao Liu moved out, began to pick up his favorite tennis sport, and began to work as a screenwriter, and lived a full life every day, and the whole state was more relaxed, and even became more cheerful and smiling.
Wang Shiqing and Fu Seoul are also in good shape, with more job opportunities.
From their current situation, I finally understand why Fu Seoul would rather be infamous than divorced.
People must know what they want, and they must have the courage to leave, so that they can have the possibility of happiness.
How many people, especially women, lack the determination of Fu Seoul, and would rather survive in a bad intimate relationship than jump out to meet a new life.
Wang Mianmian and Zhang Shuo's tugging has been going on for more than 2 years, and there have been various contradictions since they got married.
From the beginning of the marriage trouble, to the inappropriateness everywhere in daily life.
Zhang Shuo treats his friends better than he sleeps, and even runs out to party with friends when he sleeps and sleeps sick.
Zhang Shuo's chaotic investment failure led to financial difficulties, often staying at home to play games and not looking for a job, and later the two even separated from each other, and even did not live as a husband and wife for more than a year.
Every time there is a problem, there is a lot of quarrel, and the existing problems are not only not solved, but there are more and more, but Wang Mianmian has been giving Zhang Shuo a chance and has been waiting for Zhang Shuo to change.
Although Wang Mianmian also moved out several times halfway, it did not change Zhang Shuo, and even in the show, Wang Mianmian has been hesitating to separate, she also fantasizes that Zhang Shuo will become mature, even if she knows that it is tiring to wait for a boy to grow into a man.
From the enthusiastic pursuit during the campus period, to the indifference after marriage, the gap in Wang Mian's heart is very big and painful.
After more than 10 years of relationship, it is very painful to give up, so she will continue to compromise, and compromise until Zhang Shuo becomes more and more perfunctory to her.
This hesitation of Wang Sleep sleeps is shared by many women.
Thinking of the sweetness of the love period between the two in the past, and thinking of the days they have walked together, there is too much reluctance.
Even some people are just Xi to two people together, afraid of facing the days after leaving this person, they will have a fear of future life.
But leaving bad and inappropriate feelings can usher in a new life.
In this regard, Fu Seoul's courage is still worthy of appreciation.
Fu Seoul, as a person in the center of the network, has long understood what she will usher in when she is on the show and puts her "family ugliness" in front of the public, and she can also ** that she will be scolded, but she still did it, and really chose to divorce.
Let's not talk about the marriage between Fu Seoul and Lao Liu, who is right and who is wrong, whether she is sorry for Lao Liu, or Lao Liu pulled her back.
Marriage is like a person who knows how to drink water and knows it, Fu Seoul feels that he can't get along with Lao Liu, and he can't resonate emotionally, and there is nothing wrong with wanting to divorce, everyone has the right to pursue happiness.
As she said, "Some people can choose to live it, and some people can choose to do it, but it's a personal choice." ”
This kind of determination not to be afraid of judgment, not to care about the voice of the outside world, and to pursue one's own happiness is worthy of learning from us, especially many women, Xi.
It's not selfishness, it's a sign of following your own heart, and being responsible for yourself and your other half, it's just that the posture of the points is as good as possible, and the economically strong side makes more concessions.
How many women, for the sake of their families, for their children, for the eyes of the people around them, and for a stable life, wronged themselves to survive in an unhappy marriage.
There is a neighbor in our community, who is obviously inseparable from her husband, financially AA, and her husband almost doesn't care about family affairs, and he has a stable job. But for the sake of her children, she is only 35 years old, and she has to stay up until her children go to college before she is willing to divorce.
There is a friend, her husband works in the field all the year round, and only takes the living expenses home every month, the home has become a hotel, and the two children are in charge of themselves, and the relationship has slowly faded with the passage of time, but she is reluctant to leave, she wants the children to have a complete home.
If you look at the examples around you, you can see that it is actually difficult to divorce like Fu Seoul, who wants to divorce if you want to divorce, even if you know that your reputation may decline because of divorce, which will affect your career, you must have a new way of living.
It turns out that divorce is not only a new beginning for Fu Seoul, but also for Lao Liu.
Lao Liu lived alone after the divorce, and he had a lot of time, and he didn't have to compromise himself everywhere in his marriage, everything was centered on Fu Seoul.
He rekindled his zest for life, became curious about more and more things, and even started a job that he had been putting off in order to support himself. Even lazy disease was cured.
Whether it is from the inside or from the outside, Lao Liu has become more and more confident, and his eyes have rekindled the light and shined.
Divorce, not only Fu Seoul benefited, Lao Liu was also a beneficiary, he became more self-conscious.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian said:
I used to think that parting was to leave someone I didn't love, but one day, when I grew up, I found that there was a kind of parting, which was to leave the person you loved, and there was a parting that wiped my tears and didn't dare to look back.Yes, whether you leave someone you love or not, when you have to leave, it may not be a good thing to leave.
In this way, you can have more freedom and think more about how to make your life better and how to become a better version of yourself.
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
May we all have the courage to manage our marriages well, and we also have the confidence and courage to leave.
endLooking back on Zhu Dan in the past, he finally "whitewashed" Fu Seoul on Monday, and finally couldn't "pretend" to go down "Goodbye Lover 3": Wang Shiqing was scolded miserably, was she wronged?