Missing someone is voiceless, and if you don't express your inner thoughts in words, the other party will never guess.
But if you miss someone, you can't do it, and don't let the other person know, otherwise, all your intentions will become meaningless.
The ancients would pin their thoughts on the moon, so there is Li Jian's "Bright Moon Man Tonight, I don't know who is thinking about autumn";Only with Su Shi's "look at people for a long time, the month is always a thousand miles".
At the moment, men and women like a person will behave differently, rather than being embarrassed to talk inside, men may directly talk about their thoughts.
In fact, if you are embarrassed to express your thoughts about a person in words, you can also inject all your thoughts into your own behavior, so that the other party can see that someone with a heart will understand your intentions.
Wang Li is one of my colleagues, at the Mid-Autumn Festival party, I met a boy, and then met a few times, and the impression was very good, the two of them were like ordinary friends.
I don't know what kind of person this boy is, but Wang Li has the idea of further development with the other party. However, there isn't much emotional connection to each other, let alone the opportunity to spend time together.
If she hits ** directly, Wang Li is afraid of being rejected.
After thinking hard, he posted a sentence in the circle of friends: Hanging out with friends, I don't know what's wrong, I suddenly miss you, if only you were there.
This passage is only visible to the boy, and he just wants the boy to know that Wang Li misses him. I don't know how the boy would react, but I don't feel embarrassed.
Unexpectedly, the boy quickly clicked "like", chatted privately with Wang Li, and asked her to go to ** play, and the two chatted hotly.
After Wang Li got together, she found out that she had sent that deep circle of friends, and the reason why the boy found himself chatting was to ask mutual friends in advance, and found that he could only see himself in the circle of friends, and the door of love was suddenly opened.
Post a sentence about missing in the circle of friends, or a meaningful text that only the two of you can understand, mix the thoughts in it, and as long as the other party pays attention to you, you will understand your heart.
This method is more suitable for scenarios where both parties like each other but do not express their love and do not know each other's thoughts.
It's like breaking a window and tying two people who love each other together.
There is a saying: if a person likes you, he will be willing to go home, even if it is the end of the world, he will be on the way.
If you want to express your thoughts about a person, you can also do this, it is best to create a chance encounter on his way home from work, so that you can have enough time to become a world for two people.
When Xiao Li pursues her boyfriend, it is a chance encounter.
My boyfriend is a classmate from a small university, and after graduation, he works in the same city, and he is not far from the unit.
Although the two are in contact with each other more frequently, they are limited to helping each other between friends, and there is no substantial progress, and there is no chance to even talk.
They rarely want to further develop their relationship with each other, but they find that there is no reasonable reason and identity, and in order not to embarrass each other, they resort to a chance encounter.
After getting off work, squat on the side of the road in advance, pretend to hit **, and when the other party comes, stop and eat together.
After a few times, a fool can also see a little thought, and of course the boy also understood, and took the initiative to confess, and the two were naturally together.
If you want to see someone, don't just rely on ** to pour out your thoughts, and worry that this method will not work, it is better to appear in front of the other party in person.
Although the lyrics are full of sadness, between the lines, you can also find a way to manage love – through lingering bonds, mutual debt, and increasing the bond between each other.
My best friend once told me a story:
When she was in a relationship with her boyfriend, that is, her husband, they were conflicted, they ignored each other and did not speak for many days.
Seeing that the relationship is becoming more and more rigid, the girlfriend is very anxious, she doesn't want to take the initiative to admit her mistake, and she can't wait for the other party's initiative.
Think about it, I bought a lot of things online, and the same did not end up in the other person's house. Within two days, I received a ** from my boyfriend, who wanted to return the courier that was sent to his house by mistake.
Between one and the other, the two began to connect again and gradually resumed their relationship. Later, my best friend found out that her boyfriend knew that she was scheming, so she had the same mind, and if she wanted to get back together, she would pretend to cooperate.
This way of expressing longing is very risky and tests the character of the other half, and if the other party really doesn't love or reciprocate anything, then there is really no way.
If you miss someone, it's best to say it directly in person, and if you feel embarrassed, you can try the above three ways.