Only by standing the test can husband and wife tolerate each other in the long years;What's more testing is whether one of them can withstand a bland love, no matter what happens, there will be no betrayal by a lover.
No one will love someone forever, so a couple's marriage will feel worthwhile.
The human heart can change, so there will be tragedy in marriage, and the person who originally thought he was a lifelong partner became a person who could not understand the inner turmoil;
When I entered marriage, I found that my heart was not settled, and even if I understood the responsibilities and obligations of my body, I couldn't control my heart of falling in love with others.
Extramarital love, in today's social threshold is getting lower and lower, emerge in endlessly.
Just face the truth of this life, don't be blindly impulsive and choose to divorce, if you find yourself in love with someone else, please do so.
I once consulted a reader.
The reader is married, but loves someone else, and is faced with a husband and the object of love outside of marriage, and falls into deep remorse and contradictions.
Everyone longs to be able to remember their original intention in love, so for those who have high expectations for relationships, it can be very painful to find that their words and deeds are not at the same time.
But this is quite normal.
It's like drinking porridge for a long time, and occasionally tasting big fish and meat, you will be tempted, thinking that you are in love with big fish and big meat.
So once you have the idea of empathizing with others, you must first confirm that this phenomenon is correct and allow it to exist.
After all, people are not saints, and it is impossible to cut off the agitation of the seven emotions and six desires in the heart because of one person.
However, true love is not with the heart, but with the heart.
Since you have entered into marriage with someone, then for the rest of your life, no matter how many excellent people of the opposite sex you meet, you are just a passer-by in life, and it is a momentary impulse.
And the person who settles down the heart is the one who needs to be cherished for a lifetime, don't blame yourself too much for not paying, take the heart back in time, and give all the tenderness and thoughtfulness to those who want to care about it forever.
Wang Lei and her husband have been separated for a long time, and her husband is always away from her every major holiday or when she needs him.
Changwen was alone, and it happened that there were male colleagues in the unit who met Changwen's aesthetics with Wang Lei, because they often dealt with each other, and the two were very familiar with each other.
They chat on social ** from time to time and occasionally eat together under the name of colleagues. The longer the time, Wang Lei felt that the balance in his heart had tilted towards his male colleagues.
The mind wandered between the two men, which made Wang Lei very painful, on the one hand, her husband who had gone through a lot of difficulties and finally came together;Male colleagues, on the other hand, bring a sense of freshness to themselves.
Fortunately, Wang Lei didn't let herself be entangled for too long, in the dead of night, she talked to herself, asked herself, and found the answer: Wang Lei was unwilling to immerse herself in the ongoing pain of the love triangle;Unwilling to give up their family;Discovering that love for a male colleague is just a temporary novelty.
After having the answer in her heart, Wang Lei quickly adjusted herself and ended the communication with her male colleagues.
When many people have extramarital love, they are just confused for a while, and they don't ask their sincerity, and in a certain atmosphere, they think that extramarital love is true love, and they do things that they regret.
All choices in life come at a price, so when faced with conflict, be sure to follow your heart and ask yourself what you really want.
From love to marriage, it is also an easy road, if you cherish the family, don't do anything that will bring harm to the family.
Give your heart a true answer and set emotional goals so that you can be the biggest and be consistent no matter what happens.
The cruelest truth in marriage is that you don't love it, but you don't want to let go, you occupy the other half's time, but you don't want to pay attention.
The reason they do this is that some people think that if they choose to separate halfway through their marriage, it will become a stain on their lives, and even those who do not manage their marriages well will be unhappy in their careers.
In fact, it is not necessary to hold such an idea, blindly taking into account the face and uncertainty of real life, and at the same time having a marriage, it is necessary to establish a marriage outside the family, so that a person will really be notorious.
Love is temporality, even if you are married, even if you have good expectations for spending your life together, but halfway apart, each is happy, and there is no shortage of another ending.
If you're really sure that your heart isn't on the other person, be honest and make it clear to the other person.
Before ending a relationship, no matter who you're attracted to, it's especially easy to bother her;Once you've sorted out your physical intricacies, you're ready to pursue the love you want.
Keeping loving order is the greatest responsibility to yourself and your loved ones.
It's a pity to get married, but fall in love with someone else, and it's a pity that you meet the person holding hands at this moment too early;and the person you fell in love with, met too late.
If this happens, accept that this is a normal state of mind and don't blame yourself too much;Analyzing the causes of extramarital affairs is conducive to solving problems;If you really don't have feelings for the other half of your marriage and can't get along anymore, then separate clearly and go after what you like.