Text丨Tao Xiaojing.
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In addition to living in the present, people only need to look forward to the future.
Although no one knows what the future will become, as long as everyone can take their destiny into their own hands, they will definitely be able to live the life they want.
Everyone works hard and strives to improve, not just to make their future better. But some people's efforts were used in the wrong place from the beginning.
Many people may feel that working hard to expand their network will make the road ahead of them, so they start to make friends everywhere, hoping to pave the way for their future.
Expanding your network does help you, but human nature is complex, so how can you ensure that the network you expand will not hurt you?
The relationship between people is not as pure as imagined, some people are close to you, but they just have other plans for you, you must not be dizzy.
As you grow older, you should have a clear understanding of making friends, and you can't be so close to anyone.
It is said that forty is not confused, and if a person who has passed the age of forty often associates with these people, he is destined to be miserable in his old age.
Some people say that most of the interactions between people are based on calculations, because everyone has their own purpose, and everyone wants to get the satisfaction they want.
It's a good word, but if everyone calculates like this, is there still pure emotion in this world?
I believe that not everyone will associate with others for the purpose of calculation, and I also believe that the feelings in this world can be very pure and beautiful. Those who only know how to calculate others do not deserve good feelings at all.
Along the way, you may also meet some people who like to calculate others, maybe he hasn't calculated on you yet, but that doesn't mean you'll always be lucky.
A person who likes to calculate others will not be emotional, as long as he finds that calculating you can make him profitable, he will decisively give up the relationship between you.
If you have been associated with such people, you will not only bury hidden dangers in your life, but also may ruin your later life.
Once a person has passed the age of forty, he must live a sober life, and if he often associates with people who are always calculating others, he is destined to be miserable in his old age.
It is said that "people die for money, and birds die for food", and everyone has a yearning for money. In order to get monetary satisfaction, everyone is working hard.
But there is a difference between people, and although some people love money, they will not always put their own personal interests first. In the face of major rights and wrongs, he will still put the collective interests first.
But there are also some people who don't care about the collective interests at all, and everything they do is just for themselves.
In order not to damage his own interests, he will take the first step. Even if the other party is his friend, he will not care about affection.
Such a person who always puts personal interests first is, to put it bluntly, selfish. If you are always associated with such people, you may suffer a lot of losses.
After the age of forty, everyone has to learn to subtract for their circle of friends. No matter how good your relationship is, as long as he is a person who puts his personal interests first, you can't associate with him often.
A person with bad intentions is like a time bomb, if you tie him to your side, he will blow you to pieces sooner or later.
There may be someone who seems to be fine everywhere and gets along well with you, but it cannot be ruled out that he is approaching you with other purposes.
It is a very dangerous thing to have such a person by your side, you don't know when you will be targeted by him, and you don't know when you will be put on a position by him.
Because of bad intentions, the relationship between him and you is not pure, you think he has a fancy for you as a person, but in fact he is interested in your value.
He wants to use you in exchange for some satisfaction, so he will deliberately approach you and do everything he can to show favor to you.
After the age of forty, I advise you not to trust everyone so much. No matter who you associate with, you have to be careful.
You must know that if you are constantly associated with people with bad intentions, then your old age is destined to be miserable.
Xiaojing's message:
I believe everyone knows the phrase "forty without confusion", but how many people can really not be confused after the age of forty?
Not being confused is a very high state of life, and many people are still not sober even if they have already crossed the threshold of forty years old.
It's because I'm not sober, although I'm always associated with some people who are easy to have a negative impact on myself, and even willingly being taken advantage of.
If you are at this age, then I would like to remind you that after the age of forty, if you associate with these people regularly, your old age is destined to be miserable.
No matter who you associate with, you have to think about your future, but don't ruin your old age because of a wrong choice. List of high-quality authors