Observing the middle-aged women around me, I found that body posture and appearance really have a huge impact on a woman's sense of age. Especially among peers, the contrast between two women, fat and thin, is even more stark. Those who are more plump tend to give people a sense of wealth and happiness and look younger, while thin women may look older.
You can pay attention to the fat women around you, their faces are often rosy and shiny, and they look younger than their actual age. The main thing is that it is not easy to see wrinkles, and the hair is gray late, which are the characteristics that make us feel young.
In contrast, thin women tend to look older because they have more wrinkles on their faces. If they are short in stature, then the whole gives people a feeling of old age, as if the years have left deep marks on them. The contrast is really stark.
However, in my opinion, this does not mean that thinness is synonymous with aging. There is a phenomenon that is quite interesting, that is, the back of the fat looks young, and the fat face looks young. To be precise, a slightly chubby body is more youthful than a lean body. This is because a slightly chubby body gives a feeling of fullness and health, while a lean body may be reminiscent of illness and aging, and the energy is noticeably poorer.
Of course, excessive obesity is certainly not advisable. Those women who are overweight often have difficulty finding suitable clothes in dress, and their faces and postures are also prone to appear clumsy, thus revealing the traces of age. They are generally fat-headed, old-fashioned, and have entered their twilight years at a glance.
In fact, it's not good to be thin, normal weight is the best, and it's okay to be slightly fat. In most of the people around me, whether they have been thin or have been skinny all the time, they have a lot of folds on their faces. It's just that the ** who has been thin is relatively tight, but the folds on the face are not good-looking, and it lacks the sense of weight that should be at that age. This sense of seriousness is that the whole person does not look dignified and valuable, even if he dresses up exquisitely, he still lacks something.
Therefore, for older women, the pursuit of youth and beauty may no longer be their primary goal. On the contrary, a sense of dignified and steady heaviness can highlight their unique charm after the baptism of time. In my opinion, this sense of heaviness is not only the presentation of the appearance, but also the expression of the inner temperament.
I believe that very few people can ignore the importance of appearance to a person. After all, a person's appearance can often affect their self-confidence and social relationships. So in my opinion, maintaining a healthy, appropriate appearance is important for everyone, and it is also a matter of mentality and a responsible behavior for oneself.
To be clear, this doesn't mean going overboard or obese, but finding the right balance between health and aesthetics, which really varies from person to person.
I don't know when this era has become a beauty of thinness, and many women pursue ** excessively, pursuing the so-called beauty of skin and bones. To be honest, I really have a hard time taking it. It's one thing to not look good, it's the big problem that your health is affected. Once you pursue ** excessively, it is very easy to lead to physical health problems, such as malnutrition, weakened immunity, bad stomach and so on. At the same time, excessive pursuit of ** can also easily lead to psychological problems, and anxiety is a very obvious manifestation.
So, from a woman's point of view and the opinion of most men around me, I think it's better to be slightly chubby, on the one hand, she looks young and blessed, and on the other hand, many men also generally think that chubby women are more attractive.
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