Hello, I amXiaojun。We often say that a person's temperament hides the books he has read, the roads he has walked, and the people he has loved. In fact, there is still his view of money.
A person who is rich in heart and confident and calm can often face money squarely, neither humble nor arrogant, and maintain a sense of self-consistency and relaxation in front of money.
On the contrary, people who have a twisted view of money are often entangled and competitive in money, and there is a "sense of picking" that cannot be concealed.
01. Face up to money and overcome the "scarcity mentality".
The book "Scarcity Mentality" refers to the more you lack something, the more you care about it.
For example, people who lack money are particularly sensitive to money, and other people's words "this is very expensive" can make him feel awkward in his heart for a long time.
This is not essentially a slamming or frugality, but a "scarcity-conscious feeling" caused by a "scarcity mentality".
In this feeling, people will unconsciously care about gains and losses, and pay special attention to how to save money and how to make money. The scarcity of money captures people's attention, which in turn reduces the bandwidth of people's minds.
What is mental bandwidth?It refers to the capacity of a person's mind, which supports one's cognition, action, and self-control.
Once the mental bandwidth is reduced, people are more likely to lose their judgment and make unwise choices.
For example, in order to save money, spend a lot of time grabbing a few pennies of red envelopes;In order to make money, follow the trend and do a side hustle that you are not good at.
But often, the more you stare at the small profits in front of you, the easier it is to ignore the really important things, and finally fall into the cycle of getting busier and poorer.
If you want to change this, you need to adjust your mindset and face up to money. The more you are short of money, the more you must take a long-term view, do not get entangled, do not compete, and use an open mind to improve yourself and invest in yourself.
02. Talk about money generously and spend money frankly.
There is no shame in talking about money generously, and it is not valuable to talk about money in a secretive way. It's normal to make money, save money, and spend money.
If a person's view of money is twisted, then he will not be happy when he spends his money. Either pick and search, and calculate;Either they spend too much and can't make ends meet.
In fact, money is a tool to serve people. Every penny spent is in exchange for a more convenient, comfortable and better life experience for you. If spending money doesn't make you happy, then what's the point of making money?
Many people are afraid to spend money generously because deep down they think that "money is hard to earn", and this psychological implication will make people feel guilty when spending money.
But in reality, making money is not as hard as you think. There are many ways to make money in this era, as long as you work hard and are diligent, you can always find a way to make money that suits you.
Of course, "spending generously" is not the same as "spending money indiscriminately". It is a kind of high-level self-discipline to talk about money generously and spend money openly and openly within the scope of your ability.
Such a person is more likely to attain a sense of inner abundance and relaxation. And people who are rich in heart are more likely to attract wealth. It's a positive cycle.
03. The more willing you are to spend money, the more money you can make.
Many people have a misconception about "picking sense": they think that it is a virtue of thrift.
But in fact, there is an essential difference between "picking and searching" and "thrift": thrift is the money that should be spent generously;Don't spend any money you shouldn't spend;And the "sense of picking" is that no matter whether it should be spent or not, it is reluctant to spend.
In other words, the essence of "search sense" is a poor man's thinking: focusing only on the immediate small profits, but ignoring the long-term gains and growth.
And really powerful people understand a truth: the more willing to spend money, the more money can be made.
Where to spend money?The answer is where you invest in your brain and your health.
For example, learning Xi a skill and cultivating a hobby;For example, regular physical examinations, consistent exercise, healthy diet ......These investments, while not seeing a return in the short term, will bring you unexpected surprises one day in the future.
They will subtly improve your cognitive level, broaden your horizons, improve your health level ......Make you more and more valuable!
This is a kind of compound interest thinking!When you have this way of thinking and acting Xi, you will find that it is not difficult to make money!
On the contrary, it will become easier and easier!Because you have found the underlying logic and core competitiveness to make money!This is the true way to wealth!
So when you find that you have a "sense of picking", please don't panic and don't blame yourself!It's not something to be ashamed of!
As long as you are willing to face it, overcome it, and change it!You will definitely be able to get rid of the "sense of picking" and become a rich and rich person at heart!
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