In the past, people often talked about "sex" color change, embarrassed, unable to open their mouths, modern people's ideas have changed a lot, and they have a more rational understanding of sex: sex is the product of human instinct, and there is nothing to taboo.
Many people think that falling in love is rushing to get married. Love must first have love, of course, including **, and then there will be love, and then there will be marriage.
If you only talk about love and don't get married, for this purpose, people will think that you are playing hooligan.
But the reality is often mocking people, and at present, there are many people who only fall in love with men and women, or only live together, and do not get married. Is it just a hormonal motivation, in this regard, there is a difference between the perception of men and women.
You will see such a phenomenon, when the man wants to do everything possible, give his affection, do what he likes, and have a skin-to-skin relationship with the woman, the relationship between them will go down, and the heat will cool down.
In the final analysis, what a man does is not to love you wholeheartedly, but is just a simple and crude physical need, to put it bluntly, he only needs your body.
Therefore, how can a woman know whether a man is sincere to you or a primitive physiological need?It can be understood from the following aspects.
1.After having a relationship, I deliberately distanced myself from you.
Originally, men and women had an intimate relationship, and the relationship would go to a higher level, and the relationship would become closer.
Especially a man who loves you seriously will show more love and care for you, because he has a relationship with you, he thinks you are his person in his bones, his private property, and sacrosanct.
In one, he will treat you as his fiancée, his future wife. He will introduce you to his family and friends and make a good plan for your future.
The man who does not love you is clever to you, and he disobeys you, although sometimes he is generous in front of you and spends a lot of money, the purpose of which is to coax you.
When his purpose is achieved, he will become hot and cold, and gradually he will avoid you and leave you. His attitude towards you will change significantly.
This kind of man, you have to leave as soon as possible.
2.Love for you always has a beginning and no end.
A man's love for a woman, attitude determines everything. Some men are especially good at flirting with women, talking sweetly, being generous, and circling around you all day long, making you stunted and unguarded.
And the most reassuring thing for a man is whether the man is reliable. Honest, capable and open-minded men are what women need most, men who are trustworthy and trusted.
And the man who always talks sweetly to you and talks eloquently, once the goal is achieved, he will cross the river and tear down the bridge, and take various methods to leave you, in fact, he likes it physiologically, and he doesn't care about you in his bones.
Reality shows that what you can't get is always precious and unattainable, and the same is true for men, and women who can't get it are always the best in their hearts.
The hot and cold emotions are proof that he is picking, even if you have an actual relationship with him, when you are most urgent, he often stands by and turns a blind eye.
Men are hot and cold to women, is he trying to catch the old and secretly cross Chen Cang, in fact, the answer is no, a responsible man will not use this kind of inferior means to test women, especially the women he really likes.
In fact, he is evading responsibility. When the physiological needs are achieved, the goal is achieved, and there is no follow-up plan for you, and there is no love at all.
3.Avoiding reality and not wanting to talk about the future.
A famous person once said: Love can be talked about aside from life, but marriage cannot, the foundation of marriage is life.
Completely correct, marriage is not like love, love can be without distractions, you love me, but in the face of marriage, the reality is there, oil, rice, firewood and salt, all are indispensable.
When you are getting married, the house, the car, the bride price, the dowry, the income of the elderly in the family, and whether there is a gold mine does not matter, but the burden of the elderly is always one of the factors to consider!
There is such a kind of man, it is okay to fall in love with you under the willow tree, and it is okay to be courteous to you, but when it comes to marriage and the future, when he is asked to pay responsibilities and commitments, he will look left and right, and do not talk about real things, let alone marriage.
A man who truly loves you will talk more about the future, marriage, and his life plan, and make efforts, because he has you in his heart, which is a kind of responsibility, and he is willing to work hard for you, share weal and sorrow for you, and go to the soup and fire.
I want to say to women, a man's biggest responsibility is to provide for his family, you like him very much, the other party also loves himself, I hope that the two sides are not acting on the spot, satisfying the physiology.