The traction of fate, like a breeze blowing across a lake, quietly opens an unknown door. In the vast sea of people, we pass by all kinds of people, but there is always a moment, a figure, a smile, a look, let our hearts tremble, as if we are deeply attracted by some kind of power. This is fate, which is like an invisible red thread, skillfully connecting two originally strange and distant hearts.
On that sunny day in May, every corner of the city was filled with life. My friend introduced me to a blind date, and we seemed to be destined to be of the same age, with similar personalities, and a strong attraction to each other. He was a smart and humorous man, and there was always a kind of charm in his words and demeanor. He has accompanied me through many happy times and made me feel the beauty of life. The moment we met, I deeply felt that this was a beautiful encounter arranged by God, and fate was so wonderful that we met in the vast sea of people.
The confusion of choices, however, seems to be always a joke. Just as we were about to enter the threshold of love, I hesitated because of a small thing. His profession has a peculiar nature that makes us have to face a long time living in a different place. At that time, my feelings for him were not deep enough for me to face the challenges of being in a different place. I started to wonder if I should give up on the relationship, or should I be brave enough to keep goingThis choice left me in deep confusion. When night falls, I always think on my own, trying to find the answer. I tried to cut through the fog and see the way ahead, but I couldn't make a decision in my mind. 
The regret of missing out at that critical moment, my answer became extremely important. When he asked me if I would like to be his partner, I uttered the heart-wrenching words: "I haven't figured it out yet." This sentence is like a chasm, and it instantly pulls us apart. The frequency of his presence in my life gradually decreased, and our relationship became more and more distant. A month later, it was as if he had disappeared from my world, and he no longer contacted me or asked me to meet me. We just silently distanced ourselves from each other. The end of adulthood is always so crisp and so ruthless. 
The distraction of thoughtsLater, I learned from a friend that he was married. At that moment, I had mixed feelings in my heart. On the second day of the National Day, he walked into the palace of marriage, but I could only silently bless from afar. When my friend asked me if I regretted it, I smiled and didn't speak. Deep down, I do imagine what life I might be like if we were together. After all, he is a very good person, and he is always able to take care of others with care and consideration. But I know that there are some things that you can't force on. 
If I could go back to that moment, I think I would still make the same decision. Because the problems I was worried about were still there at that moment, I would still hesitate, I would be worried, I would be uncertain. My attitude will not change, and neither will his departure. So such an ending may have been predestined for a long time. I have always believed in one sentence: what belongs to you will never be lost, and what does not belong to you can never be kept. Maybe we are not the ones we are destined to be, but we will all find our own happiness. 
Over the years, I have witnessed the marriage of many friends. Some lucky people can go from school uniforms to wedding dresses, but many more choose to spend the rest of their lives with others after an unforgettable relationship. When we were in love, we all swore that he was the only one, but in the end it was someone else who was with him. The path of life is full of countless choices and turning points, and we need to learn to accept past mistakes and regrets, and bravely face the choices and challenges of the future.
A new beginning
In the journey of life, we are always meeting and saying goodbye, and every corner is a new beginning. I thank him for showing up, bringing me laughter and reflection, and also making me understand where my heart is. Although we didn't make it to the end, we both grew in the relationship.
I also understand that there is not only one path to go in life, nor is it that you can't find happiness if you miss someone. Everyone has their own trajectory, we just need to go on firmly to meet our own happiness.
Now, I have stepped out of the shadows of that past and started to try to accept new feelings. I know that there must be someone waiting for me in this world, and we will go through every stage of life together, sharing joys and sorrows together.
So, I chose to let go of the past and bravely move into the future. Because I believe that the happiness that belongs to me is waiting for me not far away.