At 5:20 a.m. on October 25, 2018, many people were still asleep and had not been awakened, and some people had never woken up from the torment of illness.
The host Li Yong, who once won our joyful laughter with his witty and humorous hosting style, said goodbye to us forever that day.
Li Yong's wife, Ha Wen, also lost the love of her life on this day and felt pain.
The two experienced the transition from classmates to friends, and then from friends to lovers, and finally came together and entered the palace of marriage together.
Li Yong has been dead for 5 years, and countless people are still moved to tears when they talk about their love.
In 1969, Ha Wen was born in the Ningxia Hui Autonomous Region, and his father Ha Jie was a high-level person.
Born into a family of cadres, Harvin lived in a privileged environment from an early age and received a good education.
In 1987, Harvin was admitted to the Communication University of China with excellent grades and began to study broadcasting and hosting.
Li Yong was far away in Xinjiang that year, and he was successfully admitted to the university and became classmates with Ha Wen.
In 1968, Li Yong was born in an ordinary family in Urumqi.
His father was an employee of a railway company and he had two older sisters.
Harvin's family background is far from her background, and she does not come from a wealthy family.
However, in the first class of the new semester, these two unrelated people suddenly met.
The emotions that had been dormant in the hearts of the two for many years germinated again.
When I was in college, my teacher always asked the students to introduce themselves in the first class.
Whenever other students came to the stage to introduce, Li Yong always neglected his duties and dozed off below.
When it was my turn to introduce Ha Wen to the stage, somehow, Li Yong happened to glance up at the podium.
He was attracted by her glance and thought that the girl in front of him was really beautiful and moving.
Every time she goes to class, Li Yong always walks into the classroom one step later than Harvin.
After Li Yong found a seat, he deliberately chose to sit next to Ha Wen.
Li Yong was attracted by Harvin's clear and smooth side face lines, and felt that her side face was very beautiful.
He often draws the side of Harvin's face with a pen, and always stares at the girls around him when he is in class.
Every time I finished a painting, I showed it to Harvin. The two of them also came together in a long time together.
Since both are first-time lovers, they are always eager to share the sweetness they feel with others.
Just as they excitedly announce to their families that they are in a relationship, both are met with opposition from their families and both are frustrated.
After learning that Harvin was a famous family, Li Yong's parents were shocked.
I think such girls have lived a life of fine clothes and food since they were young, and their families spoil them, so their personalities must be very stubborn.
The two elders of the Li family tried their best to persuade Li Yong and Ha Wen to break up, because they thought that the girl would definitely not be able to stand the setback.
When Harvin's father learns that his daughter has a poor boy as a boyfriend, he immediately turns his face angrily, thinking that such a man is not worthy of having a daughter of his own.
Ha Wen is a Hui person, while Li Yong is a Han Chinese. This, together with this, forms a diversity among them.
People of two different nationalities have different living habits, so it is inevitable that friction and conflict will arise when living together.
Haven made his attitude clear to his father, once he knew what his father was thinking.
I have regarded Li Yong as the only one in my life, and he will not marry. If you don't agree, then your daughter won't get married in the future.
I have some thoughts on the things you mentioned about my father's different habits.
Li Yong was very considerate to me, and he never tasted a bite of pork when we were together.
Eventually, Harvin managed to convince his father to get permission for the two to be together.
A few years later, they came up with the idea of getting married, and Li Yong brought Harvin to his home that year.
When the two elders of the Li family saw the girl Li Yong mentioned earlier, they immediately looked a little displeased.
Harvin sensed that the two elders were disgusted with him.
Maybe it was because he had just done something inappropriate that caused the two elders to get angry.
Originally, he planned to go to the second elder to inquire about the situation after eating, but at this time, the second elder took the initiative to find Havin.
Harvin heard the concerns of the two old men.
Hearing this, Harvin was shocked at first, and then said seriously.
Uncle and aunt, I am not what you think, I am serious about Li Yong.
Maybe you're skeptical of what I'm saying, but you'll see me in action next. Since I have decided to support Li Yong, as long as he still needs me, I will not leave him easily.
In 1992, Harvin and Li Yong tied the knot, and the friendship between classmates was sublimated to a husband and wife.
After the two of them got married, they will face the challenge of separation for the first time due to work.
Li Yong's work as a choreographer and director at ** TV station is his career choice after graduating from university.
Instead, Harvin was sent to Tianjin TV as a reporter.
Every day before Harvin left, he stayed with Li Yong.
I agreed with Li Yong every day to play at least one **.
Describing today's event to him will make me feel like he's right next to me.
As soon as the holiday is over, Harvin will buy the earliest train ticket back to Beijing and be with Li Yong.
Every time he parted ways with Li Yong, Haven always smiled.
As soon as he turned his head, the tears fell unstoppably like golden beans.
In order to see Li Yong often, Harvin decided to leave Tianjin and return to Beijing, where he planned to continue his studies in television production.
After graduating, Harvin was transferred to work at ** TV and began his career.
After two years of separation, the two of them were working at the same institution again, which made Harvin very happy, and he felt that he had made the right decision to return to Beijing to further his studies.
As soon as Harvin was transferred to CCTV, he took over as the director of the "3.15" special program.
In 1998, Harvin became the director of the show "Lucky 52" hosted by Li Yong.
Subsequently, Harvin also assumed the role of producer of the program "Very 6+1" hosted by Li Yong.
Li Yong served as the host, while Ha Wen was in charge of the behind-the-scenes command.
Li Yong once privately revealed that he was very scared of cooperating with Harvin to do a show.
Haven is very strict and demanding of himself when it comes to producing the show.
Sometimes Li Yong made mistakes, and the result was a direct scolding that rose to the sky.
Moreover, Haven nominally acts as his own boss and holds the important power to pay his salary.
They are husband and wife for life, and they are also tacit partners at work.
The experience of participating in the show together allows them to grow together.
Remarkable achievements have been made in the work and excellent performance.
During this period, Harvin served as the chief director of the Spring Festival Gala three times with his excellent work ability.
Li Yong has won the deep love of the audience with his unique and humorous hosting style.
Harvin is very conscientious and responsible in her work, but she is also a decisive and determined "strong woman".
In private, he has a deep dependence on Li Yong.
Harvin is always tolerant of Li Yong's little temper, and the two of them have been together for many years, but they have never quarreled or had an awkward quarrel together.
As soon as the atmosphere is not right, no matter who is right and who is wrong, Haven will immediately take a step forward, apologize and fix the problem.
Sometimes, Li Yong will feel quite helpless.
Ha Wen had no distractions, and only put Li Yong in his heart.
She is also very dedicated to Li Yong's parents, and can even be said to be "loving the house and Wu".
Sometimes, as a man, Li Yong does not always show care and love for her parents in a meticulous way.
Ha Wen often buys things for her in-laws on behalf of Li Yong.
Every year, Haven sends his winter clothes and shoes back to his hometown before the onset of winter.
I accompanied my in-laws to check-ups regularly, and Harvin was always there for my in-laws when they were sick.
The two old men were also more and more satisfied with Harvin, and when they met people, they would always say that Li Yong's ability to marry Harvin could be described as a blessing that they had cultivated for many years.
The two have been married for many years without having children, which is their only regret.
Harvin and Li Yong originally planned to choose the "Dink" lifestyle when they got married.
Since they are deeply in love with the "two-person world" where they enjoy each other's solitude, they both feel very happy to enjoy the beautiful "two-person world" alone.
The two elders of the Li family were in a hurry because of traditional ideas.
The two old men believe that the only son in the family is Li Yong.
If they decide not to have children, wouldn't it mean that the Li family's incense will be interrupted?
In order to promote the birth of the two, the second elder would call ** every two days to urge them to have children.
Every time I went home, I would keep urging Li Yong to have a baby and tell him about the benefits of childbirth.
He also said that he could help with the child, if he was afraid of the trouble of taking the child.
Li Yong always listens to her parents' urgings.
simply went directly to Beijing to avoid facing the "birth" of his parents.
Li Yong turned a deaf ear, and then the two old men came to persuade Ha Wen again.
The more the two old men talked, the more excited they became, as if they wanted to reprimand Li Yong, calling him unfilial.
After being persuaded by his in-laws, Ha Wen decided to have a child with Li Yong.
Harvin thinks they're enjoying the two-person world now and don't want children.
However, as a parent, this kind of behavior is indeed a bit unfilial.
In order to maintain family harmony and avoid estrangement between her husband and her family, Harvin took the initiative to play the role of this "bad guy".
Even though Harvin herself did not desire to have children, she was reluctant to let another person share her love with her husband.
In order to maintain the harmony of Li Yong's family, she is unwilling to let her husband's relationship with his parents become tense because of the child's affairs.
Haven revealed to Li Yong her desire to have a child, and it didn't take long for her to become pregnant.
In 2002, Haven gave birth to a daughter for Li Yong, and then the two welcomed their child.
The Li family's parents finally felt relieved, and their attitude towards Li Yong also became relaxed.
The family is very happy and sweet together, because the family has ushered in the "little princess" to join.
However, this good time did not last, and luck did not continue to favor this happy family.
In 2017, it was noticed that Li Yong, who frequently appeared in front of the screen, suddenly disappeared, and due to his long-term work, Li Yong neglected his health and was eventually diagnosed with cancer.
In order to spend more time with his daughter in her last days, he decided to go to the United States to receive **.
Li Yong was diagnosed with cancer, which was undoubtedly a heavy blow to Harvin.
For a moment, Harvin wondered if the hospital had made a mistake when the test results came out.
The man who was still around a few days ago was obviously ......
Why is it that I was found to have cancer just after a single test?
It took a long time for Harvin to come to terms with the reality of Li Yong's illness.
During this time, she kept telling herself that medical technology is now very advanced, and it is unlikely that Li Yong will leave like this.
Every time he stood in front of the hospital bed and saw Li Yong's haggard and pale face, Harvin was deeply immersed in endless grief and fear, and he was very afraid that Li Yong would leave suddenly.
During the period of accompanying Li Yong for **, Ha Wen would post a "good morning" greeting on the public platform every day.
In order to prove that her husband Li Yong is still with her, the two welcome a new day together.
Every night, Harvin washed away the exhaustion on his face with tears, as Li Yong's condition became more and more serious.
Harvin's eyes were always puffy and bloodshot all over his sockets during that time.
In this situation, Haven almost collapsed, but he still insisted on helping Li Yong hide his in-laws.
Every once in a while, Harvin would call his in-laws and greet them.
In order to keep the second elder from worrying, he tried to hide Li Yong's illness every time he spoke.
Li Yong said goodbye to this world forever on October 25, 2018.
When Haven heard the news, a flash of blackness flashed in his eyes, and his legs seemed to have lost strength, and he fell straight to the ground.
Washing his face in tears all day, Haven locked himself up.
A few days later, Ha Wen held a funeral for Li Yong and posted a text on a public platform, expressing his feelings about Li Yong's death and his "After 17 months, Li Yong finally left, and at that moment, I lost my love forever."
Li Yong left Haven forever, and for her, this is the most important "love" in her life.
After all, Harvin couldn't hide it from his in-laws, and they also learned the news of Li Yong's death.
In the end, he successfully connected to the ** who crossed the ocean, and after learning the news of Li Yong's death, the second elder suddenly lost his breath and fainted to the ground.
After learning that his in-laws fainted due to being too sad, Harvin also immediately returned to China to visit and take care of the second elder.
The family was dealt a fatal blow because Li Yong died.
Someone lost a son at that moment, someone lost a father.
Harvin has lost the "lover" he had promised to be with him.
Although Li Yong is gone, life will go on.
Ha Wen suddenly became an important support for the family and took on the responsibility of Li Yong.
Every day, Haven would take the time to soothe and encourage his in-laws and daughter, and when evening came, I would pick up Li Yong's ** and stare quietly.
When she regained consciousness, she found that her face was already wet with tears.
Harvin always muttered at this point, "Looks like you're gone." ”
As time passed, Harvin gradually got out of the shadow of grief and walked out of the trough of his heart.
Li Yong's parents put forward the idea of returning to their hometown at this time.
In order to better care for the two elderly elders, Harvin refused their request.
Ask them, "Why are you going back to your hometown?"Is it because there's something you're not used to here?”
At this time, Li Yong's parents said to Ha Wen, everything is fine, but they don't want to trouble you anymore.
You are an excellent girl, and if you meet a suitable man who is good to you in the future and wants to remarry, we will not stop you.
As soon as she heard the words of the second elder, Harvin suddenly became anxious, and she said directly, Mom and Dad, I am your son's wife and your Li family's daughter-in-law. No matter what others say is troublesome or not, don't you want me?In my life, I only have one husband, and that is Li Yong. I will always be Li Yong's wife.
When the two elders heard about Harvin's deep affection for their son, they never touched on the topic again.
Li Yong has passed away for 5 years, and time flies.
Haven posted an update on October 25.
She conveyed the word "Nian", with a ** of white roses.
A white rose symbolizes the love between himself and Li Yong, and integrates his deep affection and longing for Li Yong into the word "Nian".
The relationship between the two has not yet come to an end, and the person who once made a vow of "mutual affection" said goodbye in advance.
However, Haven has always maintained his belief in the love between the two and has never changed.
Ha Wen and Li Yong have been in love for more than 30 years, and now because of the sentence "never lose their love", the two are now separated by yin and yang.
Li Yong has been dead for 5 years, but Harvin's love for him is still the same.
Not only that, Ha Wen also "loves the house and Wu", and treats Li Yong's parents wholeheartedly.
Because of his deep love for Li Yong, Ha Wen was able to get out of the shadow of grief.
The family, which had suffered from shattering and grief due to Li Yong's death, is now reinvigorated.
Harvin's relationship between his wife and daughter-in-law has indeed made many people admire.