Text |Mi Li's mother.
Zhou Haimei really passed away.
On December 11, some netizens broke the news that Zhou Haimei passed away unexpectedly.
But at that time, not many people believed it, and there were still people in the circle who came forward to refute the rumors.
Also, after all, on December 6, Zhou Haimei also posted the ** of her 57th birthday on social platforms, in which she is still bright-eyed and moving, not at all like a 57-year-old, let alone a person whose life is about to come to an end.
But it didn't take long for the rumors of her critical illness and death to spread again, and even the staff kept silent, hung up **, and avoided answering, which is really hard not to doubt.
For a while, all kinds of rumors and speculations were flying all over the sky, and Chen Xunqi, who had cooperated with Zhou Haimei, also responded on social platforms: It's a rumor, Jiren has his own nature!
Remembering that Jet Li often had rumors of "death" before, Mi Li's mother had been comforting herself in her heart that Zhou Haimei must have been rumors this time, but she didn't expect that when it was almost 10 o'clock on the evening of the 12th, the bad news still came.
The studio issued an article confirming Zhou Haimei's death.
It's so hard to accept!
Maybe young netizens don't know who Zhou Haimei is, at most they have only seen her in the online "Hong Kong-style Beauty Inventory" clip**.
That's right, Zhou Haimei is really a representative of a generation of Hong Kong-style bright actresses, I don't know how many people's youth memories.
Mi Li's mother still remembers that when she was a child, when she watched "Intolerable Love", every time Zhou Haimei grinned, revealing those two iconic rabbit teeth, my heart was like filled with sweet wine.
After watching so many versions of "Heaven and Dragon Slayer", there is only Zhou Haimei's Zhou Zhiruo, which makes me feel that she is an ice and snow beauty who came out of the book.
Although Zhou Haimei was born in Hong Kong, her ancestors were Manchuria with white flags and belonged to the famous "Guerjia clan".
Because of this, her family always strictly demanded her according to the standards of Manchurian aristocrats, however, Zhou Haimei was born free and uninhibited, like a tomboy.
When she was 19 years old, her father helped her sign up for the Miss Hong Kong Model Contest in order to make her a little "feminine".
But her self-introduction "betrays" her quirky nature: she hopes to be the first female astronaut in Asia".
Although she stopped in the top 30, she was favored by TVB, and after three months of training, she starred in "Yang Jiajiang", and later became popular with "Intolerable Love", and also cooperated with Jacky Cheung in the MV "Kiss Goodbye", which became completely popular in the mainland.
Zhou Zhiruo, who she played, was also recognized as "the most beautiful Zhou Zhiruo", and even Jin Yong said that if I knew that "Zhou Haimei played Zhou Zhiruo, I would have written her and Zhang Wuji as a pair".
After 2003, Zhou Haimei settled in Beijing and gradually faded out of the entertainment industry, and she was rarely seen on the screen.
In fact, it has been rumored for a long time that Zhou Haimei is suspected of suffering from lupus erythematosus, and her friends have publicly admitted this.
But Zhou Haimei has always denied it, insisting that she is not sick and has been vaccinated during the new crown, in short, judging from the information she has made public, her overall condition is quite good.
It is precisely because of this that Zhou Haimei's departure seemed so sudden, making countless people secretly sad on this calm winter night.
I still remember that night in July this year, Mi Li's mother suddenly brushed up on the news of Coco Li's death.
My first reaction was: this is definitely a rumor!
After all, Coco Li in our impression is such a dazzling person, just like a woman who comes out of the flames, always burning, how can she commit suicide?
Not to mention, she has also been serving as a variety show mentor, singing and dancing on stage, and being with the ** she loves.
Although Li Mei has been in poor health over the years and has often undergone surgery, she has been fighting the disease tenaciously and optimistically.
On social platforms, Coco Li often claims to be a female warrior, as if no difficulty can defeat her.
Even though she endured the torture of illness, she still tried her best to give everyone the most positive energy and the best appearance.
Until a few days before her death, she was still sending voice messages thanking her fans, encouraging everyone, and saying that she would definitely get better.
After Coco Li passed away, some students broke out her voice before her death, her tone was so gentle and humble, and she tried her best to comfort the students, just like a mother treats her children.
Every time Mi Li's mother heard these words of Coco Li, her heart hurt like being pricked by a needle:
How could such a gentle and powerful person leave overnight?
With the death of Coco Li, her original family full of regrets, as well as various conflicts and contradictions with her ex-husband, second sister and the program team, continue to ferment**, and we found that Coco Li, who has been smiling, has not had an easy life, full of too many unexpected accidents, and indelible helplessness and pain.
Perhaps it was these unbearable experiences that converged into a huge black hole and devoured Coco Li.
At this moment, I just feel that life is too fragile, and under the pressure, even if I am as strong as Coco Li, I will not be spared.
I don't know when a joke of fate can easily crush people.
The sudden death of Coco Li and Zhou Haimei reminds us again and again:
Living well and being healthy is really more important than anything else.
In fact, around us, life and death, mistakes, have never been uncommon.
There are people who you think you have the rest of your life together and think that you will see each other again soon.
But as it says in "Tomorrow in Luxville":
"In fact, there is no Changting Ancient Road for the real farewell, and there is no persuasion to have a glass of wine, that is, on the same morning as usual, some people stayed yesterday. ”
Last month, there was a new development in the disappearance of Malaysia Airlines MH370, and the case filed by the missing passenger against Malaysia Airlines Boeing was tried in Beijing.
Mi Li's mother suddenly discovered that it had been nearly ten years since the Malaysia Airlines disappearance.
In a video of Malaysia Airlines MH370 before boarding, more than 200 passengers lined up to board the plane, some were talking and laughing, some were holding their children, some were holding their lovers and friends, and some were in a daze.
On the other side of the world, there are families who are busy preparing to welcome them at home, lovers who are looking forward to reuniting after a long absence, and children who are waiting for their parents.
However, on that light and breezy day, they boarded a "death flight" that had not landed for 10 years.
And their families, waiting for 10 years.
Many family members have never been able to get out of this sudden pain, selling their real estate and running around, begging for explanations, and even dying of illness in the process of searching for relatives.
There is an aunt named Li Xiuzhi, who worked hard to raise her only daughter and trained her to be an excellent translator.
My daughter was on a business trip to Malaysia on Malaysia, and she originally planned to get married when she came back, and the family was reunited.
But I didn't expect to never come back.
Li Xiuzhi sold the house for her daughter, dragged her sick body for five years, and collected 14 boxes of evidence.
She didn't want compensation because that would mean accepting that her daughter was dead.
"If I don't take compensation, my child is not dead, I want to look for it, continue to look for it. ”
However, she was unable to find her daughter in the end, and she passed away half a month after the Malaysia Airlines incident investigation team was disbanded in 2018.
There are countless family members like Li Xiuzhi, who live like the walking dead in the second half of their lives, and they are bored.
Others may have forgotten the disaster, but for them, life has long been fixed on the day the plane lost contact.
In addition to the pain in their hearts that is deeper than the sea, the scars that are more painful than the cold wind, and the regrets that cannot be made up in this life.
As one family member said:
"Our biggest problem is that we think there's still time, it's still time.
I said I would go to see the cherry blossoms together in April, but in March you had an accident.
I say wait a little longer every year, but the flowers bloom for another year.
I thought we had a lifetime to do, but a lot of things were too late. ”
Mi Li's mother remembered the China Eastern Airlines crash in early 22, and behind every deceased passenger, there was an irreparable regret and pain.
I made an appointment with you to raise a kitten together, but I haven't raised it yet, and I've already left first;
I once said that I would wear my newly bought bow to see you, and I deliberately changed my booking a day in advance, and I haven't seen you yet, so I'll never see you again;
I once said that I would work hard to earn money outside and let you live a good life, but before my career was completed, I would never come back.
I once said that I want to be your bride beautifully, and I could have flown over to hug you after getting off the plane, but unfortunately I can't run in front of you anymore....
There is also an excerpt from a 22-year-old girl at the scene of the accident, which is Bi Shumin's "Ping An Buckle":
"The overall sleek and smooth safety buckle means that everything is complete, the career is smooth sailing, and the family is complete and happy....”
How ironic!The owner of the piece of paper is a sensible girl, she went out to work at the age of 18 to supplement the family, this time she went to Guangzhou to do a live broadcast, but before she could earn money for the family, she died unexpectedly.
Writing this, Mi Li's mother couldn't help but burst into tears, regretful injuries can sometimes really crush people.
Some people say: In the past, I didn't feel the bumps when I was on the plane, but now I think about it, why didn't it be the palm of death that grabbed the fuselage and turned the fate of this group of people upside down.
Over the years, the epidemic, fires, wars....How many innocent lives have been taken and how many families have been torn apart?
Aren't we weighed by death every day, and we may be crushed by fate at any time?
When I suddenly discovered these truths, I realized that it was the greatest luck to be able to live through the day.
Maybe each of us has all kinds of unsatisfactory things in our lives.
Maybe it's because you haven't been able to get a promotion and a salary increase as you want, maybe it's because you've repeatedly experienced the torture of failure, or maybe it's because you've missed the person you love the most.
But let's not forget that we are at least alive and healthy and healthy.
We have dodged crashed planes, sunken ships, three years of raging epidemics, countless fires, car accidents, floods, typhoons, and lived a small life in peace and security in a peaceful and safe country.
Compared to those who die unexpectedly, and those families that are broken, it is simply a great luxury to be able to live in peace.
Therefore, let us love everyone around us well, be more tolerant, more understanding, less angry, and less cold.
Because, you can't ** one day, let go of your hands, maybe you will never see each other again, and no one will respond if you want to speak.
Let us also cherish our lives, what expectations and dreams we have, pursue them as soon as possible, act as soon as possible, enjoy this world well, don't wait, don't wait.
Because, you don't know which day, you will be deprived of the qualification to see the world again.
Don't let some words become regrets, don't let some things become regrets before they are done!
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