In the consciousness of many parents, children are still young, and many things will naturally come when they grow up. Therefore, they Xi to help the child do everything, as much as possible. From eating and dressing, to accompanying homework and reading and exams, it seems that ** can't leave their shadow.
However, if children are not cultivated from an early age, they will not only be more dependent when they grow up, but they will also be unable to integrate into the highly competitive society as soon as possible, and even become "gnawing old people".
In fact, making children an independent person is a compulsory course for every parent. Cultivating children's independence should not only not be neglected, but should be developed as early as possible.
1. It is conducive to cultivating children's good character
If parents create a space for children to be independent and cultivate their independent character when their children are still young, then children can have the right attitude and behavior when they face real life alone in the future, and when children are young, they will not suffer from separation anxiety because of temporary separation from their parents.
Even when you grow up, you will not be able to live independently because you are separated from your parents, and it will help you to interact with your peers without showing negative aspects, and you will be able to integrate into the collective life of your peers more quickly. At the same time, it enables him to be brave and upward in the face of difficulties, or to be able to deal with practical things with ease, and to adapt to the development of society and the changes of the times.
2. Children can learn life skills early
If the child's ability to be independent is cultivated early, the child will slowly Xi that everything must rely on himself through the process of eating, dressing, washing his face and brushing his teeth or cleaning up toys, so that he gradually understands the importance of doing it himself, and can improve the child's muscle development and motor coordination while improving life skills, and when the child faces such things in the future, he can also show the ability to take charge of himself, and will no longer rely too much on his parents.
3. Cultivate children's responsibility and responsible attitude
Parents grasp the critical period of their children's cultivation and guide their children in the right way"Hands-on", no longer rely on parents to solve their own affairs, then a long time brings children a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence, because compared to peers who still need to rely on parents to solve the daily life of their peers, they have already shown"Mature"side.
For the child, this not only cultivates his confidence invisibly, but also cultivates his ability to deal with problems independently and a positive and responsible attitude.
1. Don't do it for your children
As parents, we don't want to do everything for our children in our daily lives, although we all know that children in early childhood, their ideas are relatively small, and their abilities are relatively weak, so many parents like to help their children unconditionally.
But the more you choose to treat your child in this way, the more likely it is that your child will become incompetent and even have no way to solve the corresponding problems. Therefore, we should look at this problem from the perspective of a bystander, and let the child continue to solve the due difficulties with his own hands, which can make the child achieve corresponding success.
Sometimes we interfere with the child, blindly ask the child to do this and that, during this period although the child did so, but there is no ability to think independently, he is only like a machine to act according to the instructions of the parents, so that the result is that when he really encounters a problem later, he does not know how to do it without the instructions of the parents, life is like a robot, so do not underestimate the parents, the impact on the child in life.
The influence of parents on a child will not only affect his life, but also change his personality. If a child develops a dependent character, it will lead to his dependence on his parents for the rest of his life, so the reason why there are so many gnawing old people is mostly because of the doting of his parents.
3. Set up a separate area for your child
After the child is one and a half years old, we can often see that the child sometimes likes to lock himself in the room and not let the parents enter, which means that he begins to need to have his own space, and he will put some toys in places that adults can't think of, which is also a manifestation of his budding self-consciousness. Therefore, it is recommended that parents set up a separate play area or living area, or they can set up a small tent for their children, which is also very useful for children's independent development.
In fact, the so-called education is to start from the details, so that children can avoid mistakes and reduce the probability of going the wrong way. In fact, the most important thing isIt is necessary to focus on the cultivation of character and character。Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's good behavior Xi in time for children's growthCultivate excellent character Xi,Having a confident and optimistic attitude, learning to control their emotions, and reasonably resolving negative emotions in life are the skills that children should learn Xi.
There are no bad children in this world, only parents who can't teach, and parents put more effort into growing upGive the right guidance and raise excellent childrenIt's actually quite easy.
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