In winter, it seems that the functions of the human body will change somewhat.
The most common thing is some diseases, middle-aged and elderly people, but under today's social pressure, it seems that this problem is bothering all of you.
I heard bad news: a relative has a disease, and it is cancer.
In the hearts of normal people, sadness is inevitable when they hear it, but it is only about the time of a meal, or who lives whose life, and who will always fall into pain, only the family of the person concerned.
It may be a bit cold-blooded to say this, but that's how it is in life, there is no such thing as empathy.
Just like this autumn, a friend of Jiamusi came to my tea room from far and wide. There were only two purposes for his trip: one was to go to Wutai Mountain in Shanxi, and the other was to come here.
According to him, after hearing it, the taxi driver who was driving him at that time felt very amazing and couldn't understand it, and always felt that for the sake of someone he had never met, he resolutely went there, just like filming a TV series.
But he did, and only came.
He was short on time, but he didn't go to any of the famous spots, just stayed with his favorite pot, and when he finally left, he didn't take it with him after all.
My other friends have a lot of opinions about this matter, and even for me, even after a long conversation, I can't fully understand his feelings.
Because in life, there is no real empathy.
In real life, we cannot understand things with pure reason and so-called consensus, but more often only understand a certain thing with our own personal experience.
Everyone's life experience is different, which determines that each person's internal language system is different, and the interpretation of the same knowledge is also different, which creates that even the same thing, different people may have completely different understandings and feelings.
So I always feel that it is really this difference, and those strange experiences are so precious.
Therefore, the important thing between people is not to understand each other, but to respect each other when they do not understand. People live under different conditions, understanding is false, respect is pragmatic.