In recent years, a strange phenomenon has occurred in society, that is, young people are less and less inclined to go to relatives. As we all know, Chinese people have always had the tradition and Xi of visiting relatives during the New Year, but with the development of society, young people have abandoned the tradition of visiting relatives during the New Year.
According to a previous survey of nearly 4,000 young people conducted by the Institute of Sociology of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, more than 80% of the respondents contact their parents' relatives 1 2 times a year, and nearly 1 5 people basically do not leave their relatives. According to our observation of the people around us, the post-80s sometimes go to visit relatives, the post-90s almost don't go, and the post-00s simply don't leave.
It is understood that the main reason why modern young people do not go to relatives is that they think that it is "meaningless" to go to relatives;In addition, most young people say that when they visit relatives, they always like to "ask questions", which is also an important factor why they do not like to associate with relatives.
So, as the Spring Festival approached, someone launched it on the InternetDuring the New Year, relatives "don't ask".initiative, this move has been unanimously approved and recognized by young people, I don't know if everyone agrees with this approach?
According to relevant statistics, there are currently about 2There are 3.9 billion singles, and a significant number of them are marriageable young people. This means that many young people are actually single nowadays, so don't ask knowingly during the New Year, and save face for young people.
In recent years, due to the impact of the epidemic and the global economic downturn, all walks of life in China have been hit hard. In addition, at present, China's real estate industry is sluggish and cannot drive more employment, which also affects the income of ordinary people to a certain extent, and many businessmen also feel lost.
In the case of a bad environment, it is recommended that you do not "sprinkle salt" on the wounds of workers and businessmen, and it is better not to ask what you shouldn't ask.
I don't know where to start, buying a house and buying a car is regarded as the "standard" for a person's success in today's society, but you must know that there are still many people in our country who can't afford to buy a car, let alone a house. Therefore, I hope that everyone will make less comparisons during the Chinese New Year and do not ask others sensitive questions about material aspects.
A good job can affect a person's life, but in today's increasingly involuted environment, it is really not easy to find a good job. Especially in recent years, the recession of the domestic and foreign trade industry has led to many factories being forced to lay off employees or suspend work, and the unemployment rate remains high.
Therefore, in this year when it is not easy for everyone, it is best not to mention such a sensitive topic as income.
According to the statistics of the National Health Commission, there are about 1900 million elderly people suffer from chronic diseases, and more than 40% of them suffer from two or more chronic diseases. That is to say, in the context of the "poor health" of most people and the elderly, others should also be sensible and not open which pot is not opened.
During the Chinese New Year, many adults do not compare wealth together, but like to compare whether their children are excellent. We believe that this is completely unnecessary, and the child's current achievements do not represent the future, so parents had better not show off too much, so as to avoid this kind of showing off in the future to become a burden to the child, or even become the laughing stock of others. The so-called too many words must be lost, this is the wisdom of the ancestors.
All in all, when everyone goes to visit relatives and friends during the Spring Festival, they don't care about the success or failure of businessmen, marriage for singles, income for workers, grades for students, health for the elderly, and grades for academics, so that everyone can easily have a good year.
I don't know if you agree with the above "six don't ask"?