Some people are born with shallow kinship, no support, and are emotionally lonely. If they can know that they are such people early on, it may be better for them, and their hearts can become very ruthless and ruthless to themselves at the beginning, instead of being full of hope and expectation, and then being bruised all over the body, and then learning to be ruthless and not so soft-hearted. However, many times this is the case, if you don't hit the south wall, you won't turn back, you will just continue to go your own way, and you will be overconfident in yourself.
Sixth, people who are related to each other do not have such self-consciousness at first, because they do not know themselves very well at that time, and they do not have a full self-understanding. Moreover, most of the human nature is to seek outwardly, so they are also eager to be recognized by others through their own efforts and please, so that their value can be intuitively reflected.
In their ears or around them, there are constantly people who repeatedly emphasize that only bold and outgoing people can live beautifully, to put it bluntly, it is easier to make money and then live a good life. Introverts, timid, and socially disadvantaged, will have a harder foothold in society, unless the family is not short of money.
Sixth, people with shallow relatives also have this kind of social anxiety, although they are timid, but they do what they don't like and are not good at against their own temperament, and they are very brave to take the first step. However, reality is reality and does not open doors for them because of their bravery and fearlessness.
The reason is that no matter how hard they try and how hard they force themselves to do what many people think is right, and even achieve some results, their nature is still not accepted by others, as if because of this character, they will not be recognized anyway. It can only be those who are recognized by everyone's preconceived nature. In that case, why bother yourself to do something you don't like?
They finally let go of that obsession, they can't change others, but they can change themselves, and they will no longer be forced to put on themselves with other people's standards, because they are not suitable for that. If you want to do it, you have to be yourself, and be yourself honestly. Because, by stipulating yourself by other people's standards, you can disguise for a while, you can perform like acting for a while, but you can't always embarrass yourself like this, and you dare not face and show your true self.
For people with shallow relatives, no matter how busy they are, there are actually very few people who can have the same smell as them, and they don't need too many people, because the more people, the faster their energy will be consumed. Therefore, refinement, simplicity and tranquility are more suitable for them. If there are too many, it will be messy.
Sixth, people with shallow kinship, putting more energy and focus on themselves is the most important thing, which is beneficial to themselves. If you put it on someone else's body by mistake, then most of you will be disappointed in the end, or the bamboo basket will be empty, and it is already good if you are not betrayed or stabbed in the back.
In this case, then all the flattery and dedication are useless, and they are busy and cannot produce any value. Six people with shallow kinship, it is best to spend time and energy on improving themselves, the more people they contact, but they don't know how to distinguish the true from the false, that is, one is cheap and nine expensive, and the gains outweigh the losses.
People with six shallow relatives may want to Xi loneliness, and get along with loneliness, and then enjoy loneliness. If they can't get used to Xi it, then they can't find peace in their hearts, and they can easily become upset, irritable, depressed, confused, anxious, and tormented by negative emotions.
Loneliness is not so scary, it is the norm in life. After reaching a certain level of mind, many people will look inward rather than outward. A famous person once said that the most important thing for people is to learn to be calm, and if the heart is calm, the heart is at ease, and the peace of mind is the place to be, and the soul has sustenance and is no longer drifting.