In the past, it was understandable that rural men could not marry their daughters-in-law, mainly because of their poor family background. However, the economic situation in the rural areas is generally better, and every household has lived in small western-style houses, and the living conditions have improved much compared with before. However, it is puzzling that there are a large number of young men in rural areas who find it difficult to find female friends and complete the marriage union. Their families are wealthy, own homes, cars and savings, and are 100 times richer than they used to be, and some even own houses in the city. However, why are they still unable to find a daughter-in-law under such conditions?It's a really confusing question.
Expansion: There are many reasons for this phenomenon. On the one hand, the change in the concept of marriage has led to a greater focus on personal freedom and happiness. Women are also increasingly valuing their career development and independence, and no longer pursuing security on the premise of marriage. On the other hand, the structure of rural society has also changed. With the increase in the number of young people in rural areas who go out to work, there is an imbalance in the ratio of men and women in rural areas, which makes it more difficult for men to pursue a partner. In addition, the influence of society has also made it a pressure and burden for rural boys to marry a daughter-in-law, and many people would rather choose to be single or marry a daughter-in-law from other places.
Once a rural woman marries into a wealthy family, she often becomes a "young grandmother", and her family supports her rich life. These "young grandmothers" live a life of stretching their hands for clothes and opening their mouths for food, without doing any housework, and at the same time enjoying the pampering and care of their families. This phenomenon is not an isolated case, but a widespread phenomenon in rural areas.
Expansion: The emergence of this phenomenon is mainly due to the influence of traditional ideas and social structures. In the past, the status of women in rural areas was relatively low, and they were subject to men, so in order to escape the hardships of labor, marrying into a wealthy family and becoming a "young grandmother" became their longing way of life. Rural families generally believe that the marriage of their daughters is the glory of the family, so they will try their best to meet the requirements of their daughters-in-law, so that they become the "noble body" of the family. However, with the development of society and the improvement of education level, more and more women have begun to pursue independence and equality, and do not want to become "young grandmothers", but hope that their marriages are equal and mutually helpful.
In the past, life in the countryside was very hard, with a lot of farm work and household chores to deal with every day, and there was little time for recreational activities. However, with the development of the countryside and the mechanization of agricultural production, the labor burden of many people has been greatly reduced, so that they have more time for leisure and recreation. Nowadays, rural people spend most of their time wandering around, chatting, playing cards or chatting.
Expanding: This phenomenon of leisure and entertainment is inseparable from the development of modern rural areas. Agricultural production in rural areas has been mechanized, which has greatly shortened the working hours of peasants. In addition, the spread of modern technology has also provided more ways for rural people to be entertained, and they can obtain information, entertainment and social interaction through mobile phones, televisions and the Internet. In addition, due to the improved infrastructure in rural areas, transportation is more convenient, and people can easily go to the city for tourism or sightseeing and enjoy the pleasures of life.
Rural economic development and population mobility have brought about many changes, one of which is the large number of new houses that sit unused. As a result of the increase in the number of rural people moving out to work, many rural families have invested in beautiful new houses, but few people have lived in them. These houses were left unused and became a strange phenomenon in the countryside.
Expansion: This phenomenon arises on the one hand because of the increased mobility of family members. Many young people in families have migrated to work or to cities, leaving only the elderly and children in the countryside. This has led to the vacancy of many new houses as there is no one to live in. On the other hand, the decline and ageing of the rural population are also one of the reasons for the vacancy of new houses. With the outing of young people, the population of rural areas is gradually decreasing, while the proportion of elderly people is increasing, resulting in vacant houses.
At present, many elderly people with children and daughters in rural areas, although their children are working in other places, they still work as farmers at home, and they only have a small monthly pension, and they live a hard life. In contrast, the lonely and widowed elderly who have no children, no daughters and no dependents can rely on the country's five guarantees policy, get a higher monthly five guarantee fee, and live a comfortable and carefree life. This has led to the envy of ordinary elderly people for the lifestyle of lonely old people.
Expansion: This phenomenon arises because of the differences in living conditions and social welfare of the elderly in rural areas. Since most of the elderly in rural areas still rely on farmland for their livelihood, their income is limited and their quality of life is low. However, the lonely and widowed elderly who have no children, no daughters, and no one to rely on can enjoy the help of the state, and their quality of life is relatively high. This difference has aroused the envy and dissatisfaction of ordinary elderly people for the lifestyle of lonely and widowed elderly people. In addition, attitudes towards rural society also affect the attitude of older people towards the elderly who are alone and widowed. In rural areas, some people think that the lonely elderly are "miserable", so they will care, help and respect the lonely elderly, but they are indifferent to the ordinary elderly. This has also led to the envy and dissatisfaction of ordinary elderly people for the lonely old people.