What to do if your child is disobedient
When parents face their children's disobedience and lack of discipline, they often use violent means - hitting their children. Spanking children has always been a form of homeschooling in Chinese families. However, should every time a child disobey be solved by beating? Today, Teacher Bumblebee will take you to ** junior high school to see if you are disobedient or not.
First of all, we need to understand whether it is legal to hit a child. In China's "Protection of Children's Rights and Interests of the People's Republic of China**", it is forbidden to use corporal punishment, disguised corporal punishment or other humiliating methods to punish children. Hitting a child is clearly against the law. In addition, the use of violence can also have a negative impact on children's development, such as physical harm, psychological effects, etc., which cannot be changed.
Secondly, we need to consider whether hitting the child can effectively solve the problem. Although hitting a child can make a child scared and obedient for a short time, the effectiveness of this method is not long-lasting, and the child may lose respect and trust in the parent, and may also show more rebellious behavior. For junior high school students, we should adopt a more appropriate education method.
So, how should we educate junior high school students? First of all, parents should communicate with their children and not just seek solutions by hitting them. Through communication, parents can understand why their children are disobedient and undisciplined, and then find the right way to prescribe the right medicine. Second, a scientific family education program should be formulated. Parents should set an example by establishing a good family style and family discipline, so that their children can understand the rules and values of the family. In addition, a reward mechanism can be used to reward children for their good behavior, which can be material or spiritual.
Childhood education experts also offer some practical ways to solve the problem of disobedience in children. For example, "interest education" can be used, that is, to develop an educational plan according to the child's interests, so that the child is full of fun learning Xi. In addition, children can be encouraged through "affirmative education", so that children can gain a sense of accomplishment, which in turn promotes children's growth.
Of course, parents also need to pay attention to some strategies when educating their children, such as avoiding punishing their children when they are emotionally out of control, allowing children to separate self-blame from responsibility, and avoiding overprotection. These strategies can help children develop good Xi, establish normal family relationships, and avoid unnecessary disputes.
Finally, it is important to emphasize that a child's growth is a long-term process, and we need to be patient and time-consuming. Children have their own personalities and ways of thinking, we need to understand and respect children, establish good communication channels with children, formulate scientific family education programs, and guide children to grow up correctly.
In short, parents should not use violent means when facing disobedience from junior high school students, and hitting children is not an effective way to solve the problem. On the contrary, parents should adopt more scientific education methods, such as communicating with their children, formulating scientific family education programs, adopting reward mechanisms, etc., and parents should also master some strategies, such as avoiding emotional out-of-control, avoiding overprotection, etc. In the end, under the education and guidance of Bumblebee teachers, we can respect children well and establish a good communication relationship with children, so that children can grow up healthy and happy.