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Every time I brush "Langya Bang", I feel that Yujin is a very transparent person, especially good at being a person. But when I look closely, I find it a little strange.
His father Yan Que usually doesn't care about him, how can he even be the same, and he doesn't ask much about his father's affairs and doesn't want to pay attention to it?
It's ridiculous to say, Yu Jin didn't even know what kind of person Yan Que was, thanks to Mei Changsu's reminder and inform.
On that day, Mei Changsu's subordinates found that black powder was mixed with merchant ships and entered the capital, but there was no news. Later, Yujin gave the oranges at home to Mei Changsu to taste, saying that his father had found someone to bring a special product from other places, which was very delicious.
As soon as Mei Changsu ate it, he felt that the taste was wrong, so he found the "missing" black powder, which was taken away by Yan Que, and he quietly transported the black powder when he used the merchant ship to transport oranges.
So, Mei Changsu went to Yanfu in person, wanted to meet this marquis for a while, and persuaded him to stop for Yujin.
Unfortunately, when Yan Que went home late, Mei Changsu chatted with Yujin about his past.
Mei Changsu asked Yujin, what kind of person did he think was suitable to be an envoy of a country? Yujin bluntly said that only people like Lin Xiangru are worthy.
Mei Changsu smiled when he heard this, and said that he didn't have to envy the ancients at all, there were such people in their Daliang territory, such as his father Yanque.
At that time, the three alliances of Dayu, Beiyan, and Donghai wanted to give the Liang State **, and they came with five times the number of troops to make trouble.
With firm belief, he provoked the separation of the three kingdoms, and finally solved this difficult chess game for Daliang.
After hearing this, Yu Jin was dumbfounded, he really didn't know that he had such a good father.
Another time, in order to fulfill his promise to King Jing and rescue Wei Zheng, Mei Changsu did not hesitate to visit Yan Que again, wanting to persuade him to support and help King Jing.
At that time, Yujin was very smart, he and Mei Changsu were close friends, and he knew that he had already been involved in the dispute over the heir, and it would not be a simple matter to find his father.
But his first reaction was to take the initiative to leave, and let Yan Que discuss with Mei Changsu alone without any disturbance.
In the end, it was Yan Que who stopped him in time and asked him to stay and listen together, so he obediently sat aside and listened.
In fact, no matter which unusual person comes to discuss the matter, Yujin doesn't seem to show much curiosity. As long as he doesn't mention a word, he never takes the initiative to ask, which is a bit intriguing.
He never secretly investigates his father's past, official position and merits, etc., and doesn't even care about the current words, what actions he wants to do, what big plans he has, whether he will follow the trend and get involved in disputes, he doesn't seem to care at all.
Could it be that he has no feelings for his father? The answer is just the opposite, his respect for Yan Que is very deep.
Mei Changsu once said a sentence, which is the most appropriate way to describe Yujin here: sometimes, not asking, is also a kind of filial piety.
First of all, Yujin does not ask about Yanque's past, which is a kind of respect. Who dares to say that what parent in the world does not have their own unforgettable stories? Since parents are reluctant to reveal it in front of their children, it means that those things may be a kind of pain.
At this time, Yujin's incuriosity is a kind of greatest understanding and respect for his father.
Secondly, after Yujin learned about Yanque's past from Mei Changsu, he didn't ask him about the most unworthy path he has now chosen.
You say that he doesn't wonder why his father can't be a majestic person like before, it's impossible, but his failure to get to the bottom of it is also a kind of support.
Maybe Yan Que used to be very beautiful, but now it looks particularly decadent. But everyone has their own balance in their hearts, and he doesn't want to be an official who goes against his will, that is the most correct choice he thinks.
As a son, Yujin understands. He understands that there are some things in everyone's heart that they don't want to be touched, especially those truths about the memories of loss, betrayal, and sacrifice.
His non-questioning is already a manifestation of intimacy and comfort, and it is also a kind of filial piety.
Sometimes, it is not only to ask for warmth and give enough material and money to be filial, but also to do not ask and understand the sad things that the elders are unwilling to say.