71-year-old Zhu Mingying will appear on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala again in 2021.
As soon as she appeared, it seemed that people's ears were ringing with the song of "a chicken in the left hand, a duck in the right hand".
Zhu Mingying became the focus of the country in 1984 with a song "Back to My Mother's Home", and the image of the "little daughter-in-law" she performed on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people and is still unforgettable.
Although the future is bright, surrounded by flowers and applause, Zhu Mingying chose to abandon her son and go to another country to start over, and her life is unpredictable. How is she doing now?
Zhu Mingying was born in 1950, but her childhood was not satisfactory. Her parents divorced early, which may have been one of the reasons for her later misfortune.
Zhu Mingying has loved ** since she was a child, and her mother is a singer and actress, which has played an important role in Zhu Mingying's ** learning path.
Zhu Mingying has shown extraordinary talent for ** since she was a child, and she was successfully admitted to the Beijing Dance School after graduating from primary school.
In order for Zhu Mingying to be admitted to the Beijing Dance School, her mother paid a lot.
's mother was sick in bed, but at a critical moment, she still insisted on supporting her sick body and sent Zhu Mingying to the examination room, because that year, Zhu Mingying would usher in her college entrance examination. This was in 1962.
It was precisely because of Zhu Mingying's mother that she had this tenacious and indomitable quality that she cultivated the famous singer Zhu Mingying, who later became famous throughout the country.
Zhu Mingying joined the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe in 1966 and became a dancer. However, soon after, the situation in China was not good, and Zhu Mingying and many colleagues were sent to the countryside for labor and study.
She missed the opportunity as a dancer, which is Zhu Mingying's regret.
Although Zhu Mingying's career suffered a considerable setback, fortunately, she also ushered in her own love.
Wang Mingqi is this person, he and Zhu Mingying are childhood sweethearts, and the two families have a very close relationship. Their parents often joked about their relationship, and over time, the lie became the truth.
Zhu Mingying and Wang Mingqi were in love with each other and finally tied the knot in 1969.
At that time, the environment was very harsh, and Wang Mingqi and Zhu Mingying's wedding was very simple, with only a dilapidated wooden bed and a simple meal.
Zhu Mingying and Wang Mingqi welcomed a son soon after they got married, and since then they have one more member in their lives, although life is hard, they are also full of happiness.
Difficult times always come to an end, and life is always full of unexpected surprises.
As the situation in the country has changed, those who have suffered so much are now back to square one.
Zhu Mingying returned to the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, but the passage of time made her miss her dream, and a new generation of young people has taken her place, and the back waves of the Yangtze River push the front waves.
Zhu Mingying has never given up on herself, and she knows that admitting defeat means losing not only her status, but also her life.
Therefore, she firmly said to herself: never admit defeat.
Zhu Mingying has always been relentless in improving her professional skills, and she is waiting for an opportunity, an opportunity for her to show her talents.
This opportunity is coming, and very quickly.
In 1979, Zhu Mingying applied to the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, hoping to participate in the key projects of Asian, African and Latin American song and dance, but unfortunately her application was rejected.
The leaders of the regiment thought that she was older, and her learning process would be slower, which might delay things.
Not to be outdone, Zhu Mingying challenged herself again and bought a lot of tapes of African singer Abeti to go home, ready to study.
Zhu Mingying went from being half-understood at the beginning to being able to sing and dance as one, and paid great efforts and costs.
Many people are puzzled by Zhu Mingying's behavior, thinking that she is wasting money and tossing around, and she is not a woman who can run a family.
In the face of gossip, Zhu Mingying just smiled faintly, showing a state of mind of "the world laughs at me for being too crazy, and I laugh at the world can't see through it".
In the Spring Festival Gala in 1979, Zhu Mingying stood out among many competitors with her unique charm, showing the truth that pay is proportional to return.
Zhu Mingying sang "Back to My Mother's Home" on the Spring Festival Gala in 1984, and this performance made her fame quickly spread all over the country.
Zhu Mingying's career is advancing all the way, and she has no time to take care of her family when she is busy, as she said, she can't use one heart for two purposes.
Wang Mingqi is busy with work, so their son Wang Jue often lives like an orphan, often hungry and living in poverty.
Zhu Mingying doesn't seem to care about this situation, and has been concentrating on her career. The young Wang Jue was very attached to his mother and often clamored to be with Zhu Mingying.
Because she couldn't refuse, Zhu Mingying had to take the child to work, and when she performed on stage, Wang Jue waited backstage.
Zhu Mingying told Wang Yu not to run around and stay here, otherwise her mother would be angry.
Wang Yu was full of complaints about Zhu Mingying when he was young, and gradually drifted away, and Zhu Mingying at this time only focused on work.
Her husband Wang Mingqi was not only dissatisfied with her young son, but even more angry in the face of Zhu Mingying, who disregarded her family, and even began to scold her.
Zhu Mingying has not changed her approach, she still insists on the way she does her own business, even in the face of complaints from her husband and son.
Wang Mingqi finally couldn't stand it anymore and filed for divorce from Zhu Mingying, and Zhu Mingying also felt that her family had become a stumbling block to her career development.
Wang Mingqi and Zhu Mingying ended their 12-year marriage in 1981, and after the divorce, their son Wang Jue chose to live with Wang Mingqi, while Zhu Mingying continued to develop his career.
What Wang Mingqi is looking for is actually very simple: a virtuous and loving wife, a warm haven, not a cold residence.
Zhu Mingying does not want to be immersed in family chores, but longs to have her own space.
Zhu Mingying thought that the connection between her and Wang Mingqi was limited to her son, but fate played an unexpected joke on her.
In the autumn of 1984, Zhu Mingying received an invitation from her ex-husband Wang Mingqi.
Originally, she didn't want to participate, after all, what woman would be happy that her ex-husband married someone else?
Zhu Mingying was thinking about her son Wang Yu in her heart, and she hadn't seen him for a long time. She decides to attend the wedding, unaware that this choice will change the course of her life.
When Zhu Mingying rushed to the wedding place, her heart was not full of joy to see her son, but a piercing chill.
Zhu Mingying couldn't imagine that Wang Mingqi's wife turned out to be her sister's sister-in-law, which made her feel incredible.
She was shocked that the man she had lived with for 12 years had turned into her "brother-in-law".
Zhu Mingying was deeply distressed, and she felt unacceptable to this result. The reason why she is unbearable is not because her ex-husband remarried, but because this abnormal relationship makes her intolerable.
* also made a big deal of this matter, gossip spread everywhere, and the pressure of ** sprung up like mushrooms after a rain.
Zhu Mingying chose to escape, facing ** and inner confusion.
In 1985, Zhu Mingying left her homeland alone and went to the United States for further study. This sad land remained behind her.
Before Zhu Mingying went abroad, her son actually wanted to go abroad with her, but Zhu Mingying refused.
Zhu Mingying knew that her life abroad must be very difficult, and at the same time, she also cherished her own dreams and was worried that she would not be able to take care of her son properly, so she resolutely decided to leave him in China.
In order to pursue her goals, Zhu Mingying embarked on a difficult road to study after going abroad.
In 1986, Zhu Mingying entered Berkeley ** College for further study, and the high tuition fees made him breathless.
In order to pay for tuition, Zhu Mingying can only earn money by working part-time.
The 36-year-old woman let go of her pride and worked hard in the face of cold eyes and ridicule from others.
It's unimaginable to imagine how much pressure Zhu Mingying was under at that time.
In order to earn a living, Zhu Mingying worked hard three jobs a day, she used to wash dishes, work as a security guard, and even do housekeeping.
In one of Zhu Mingying's experiences as a nanny, the host actually locked her up when she went out, apparently because she was worried about stealing.
There's no fairness in this world, but so what?
Zhu Mingying did not choose to back down, she worked four days a week for her dream, and worked hard with all her might.
The domestic ** is still promoting everywhere without knowing the truth, saying that the star Zhu Mingying is living a petty bourgeois life abroad.
However, Zhu Mingying not only had to deal with the pressure of life, but also the increasing pressure of her studies, the language barrier made it difficult for her to communicate, and the textbooks were even more difficult to understand.
Zhu Mingying is lucky because she has a group of friends around her who constantly encourage and help her, and these friends have helped her out of the difficult situation.
Zhu Mingying successfully graduated from Berkeley College with top three exam scores, a news that caused a sensation and made him the brightest Chinese in Boston.
Under the influence of hardships, Zhu Mingying continued to grow, and she relied on perseverance to succeed step by step, "How can you see a rainbow without wind and rain".
Zhu Mingying has achieved success in his career, but what he cares about is his son Wang Yu.
After spending five years overseas, Zhu Mingying, who has achieved some achievements, finally brought her son to her side.
Zhu Mingying has experienced five difficult years, she always misses her son, and every time she thinks of him, she circles the date of the day on the calendar.
As time went on, the calendar became more and more circled, and eventually the entire calendar was painted.
The contradiction between Wang Yu and Zhu Mingying deepened due to the long separation, and Zhu Mingying, in order to cultivate Wang Yu, did not let him live with him, but sent him to a host family.
Wang Yu was in a rebellious period, so the two often had disputes. However, what son would not feel sorry for his mother?
When Wang Yu graduated from high school, Zhu Mingying hoped that she would be able to attend Harvard University or the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. However, she didn't know that Wang Yu was also preparing to follow the same path as him.
Although Zhu Mingying has never seen Wang Yu show his love for **, Wang Yu secretly bought a large number of CDs about ** to study.
Today's Zhu Mingying is no longer the strong woman who only cares about work before, she has transformed into a qualified mother.
Zhu Mingying chose respect and support, and said to Wang Yu: "If you are really full of love for **, I will definitely fully support you." As long as you persevere, I will always be there for you. ”
Gradually, Wang Yu began to understand Zhu Mingying, he followed in his mother's footsteps, stepped into Berkeley**College, majored**, and showed the same excellent talent as his mother.
Zhu Mingying was amazed by her son's excellent performance, and new thoughts emerged in her heart.
Zhu Mingying returned to her home country in 1995, giving up her high-paying job just to return to her hometown.
Zhu Mingying was not idle after returning to China, she successively founded the Beijing International School of Arts and Sciences and Zhu Mingying's cultural development
Wang Yu completed his studies at Berkeley College in 2000.
Wang Yu refused many persuasions to stay in the United States to develop, because his mother was waiting for him at home, so he chose to go home.
After Wang Yu returned to China, he gradually developed his career with the assistance of Zhu Mingying, and he never relied on Zhu Mingying's reputation to promote himself, but relied on his own strength to succeed step by step.
However, Wang Yu has not been moving forward on the road of ** like Zhu Mingying, but chose to enter the business world.
Faced with such an outstanding son, Zhu Mingying felt a little anxious, because Wang Yu was not young, but he had been alone.
Wang Yu is actually not wrong, because he witnessed the unhappy marriage of Zhu Mingying and Wang Mingqi when he was young, which gave him a lot of psychological trauma.
Zhu Mingying has always felt guilty and has not remarried for many years to make up for Wang Yu's regrets. She deeply understood the root of the problem and began to guide Wang Yu out of her inner predicament.
With Zhu Mingying's unremitting efforts, Wang Yu finally walked out of the shadow of his heart, got married and had children, which can be regarded as a major solution to Zhu Mingying's heart.
Wang Yu was once asked by Zhu Mingying: "Did you ever hate me?"”
Wang Yu told her: "I once hated you for leaving, but now I truly understand your difficulty, I will always love you, dear mother." ”
Zhu Mingying is now 72 years old, but her appearance and spirit do not look old at all, she not only has a young face, but also has a young heart.
Looking back on Zhu Mingying's life, she has experienced hardships, heartache and pain, but she has also experienced wonderful things that others can't imagine.
Whenever she talks about Zhu Mingying's motives for going abroad, she always avoids talking about her unhappy marriage experience. More attention has been paid to her pursuit of her career and her courage to quit calmly in the face of success.
Like Zhu Mingying, each of us does not want to be a meteor that flashes by, and it is because of this that we will strive to keep running forward.
Zhu Mingying is still active in her favorite field, and just 21 years ago, she appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, showing her beautiful singing voice to the national audience.
Until now, Zhu Mingying has not remarried, perhaps because she has experienced the painful experience of her ex-husband becoming a "brother-in-law" and has lost confidence in love. In fact, Zhu Mingying also gave the answer, she said that "** is the love of her life".
I hope everyone can live their own wonderful life, although there will be various difficulties in the process, but only by persevering can we finally see the wonderful.