Zhu Yujie and Fan Xiao are a couple with disabilities who rely mainly on wheelchairs for daily life. Recently, they took the high-speed rail and uploaded the experience of barrier-free travel to the Internet.
In a period of **, they enjoyed the convenience and beauty of life, and were full of laughter and emotion with each other. This paragraph ** gives people a new understanding of love, and the people ** also published an article on it, praising this is the most beautiful appearance of love.
Before they met, they had also experienced heart-wrenching ordeals. It is love that brings them into the palace of marriage, and marriage heals the unhappiness of life. Someone once said, "Marriage is a castle with your comrades-in-arms fighting side by side;Marriage is a contract, and the other party is your partner in life and death. ”
A good marriage can help us unload the burden of life and get out of trouble, and it can also help us solve the troubles in life and provide security for our future life.
Zhu Yujie, a young man who once had a height of 180 cm and a bright smile, suffered a cruel blow of fate at the age of 20. A sudden acute myelitis caused him to lose the ability to stand, and since then, his life path has changed dramatically.
A young man was crushed overnight, and for the next four years, he chose to lock himself in his basement and indulge in games. It wasn't until 2014 that the staff of the Disabled Persons' Federation came to the door with the ** teacher and forcibly pulled him out of the predicament of life.
*The teacher conducted a comprehensive assessment of Zhu Yujie's body and encouraged him to carry out ** training for self-care and social adaptability.
After 4 years of closed life, Zhu Yujie bravely walked out of the basement. He successfully mastered the skills of self-care and obtained the C5 right lower limb and both lower limb disabled motor vehicle driving licenses, which broadened his living space.
Socially, he was able to take care of himself and integrate smoothly. Later, Zhu Yujie met Fan Xiao, and their experiences were similar, both suffered misfortunes when they were young, resulting in physical disabilities.
Fan Xiao was paralyzed in her lower limbs at the age of 18 due to a ruptured hemangioma, which made her increasingly silent and closed.
The two young people quickly became closer to each other because of similar experiences. In 2016, Zhu Yujie took 11 relatives and friends to Guangzhou to express his love to Fan Xiao.
These two young people, who also have the challenge of fate, embark on a journey of love together. Zhu Yujie said to Fan Xiao: "It's no big deal to be in a wheelchair, I can drive you out to play." ”
This is the first time Fan Xiao has walked out of the house without family after being injured. Zhu Yujie also took Fan Xiao to participate in many patients' activities, which made her see that so many people could live a normal life in wheelchairs, which also rekindled her hope for life.
The story of Zhu Yujie and Fan Xiao is touching. They used to have low self-esteem and helplessness, but with Zhu Yujie's encouragement and help, they became optimistic and brave.
They have experienced a lot together, including going to Changsha in a wheelchair, climbing Huangshan, participating in wheelchair dance competitions, learning skills together, and doing ** training together. They live the life of ordinary people and enjoy all the good things in life.
Zhu Yujie said: "Everyone has their own way of life, and we use wheelchairs to walk in wheelchairs. "Three years ago, they tied the knot. Now, they have a lovely daughter and have a good life.
Their stories teach us that as long as there is love, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.
Agree with one view: "A good marriage requires not only love and romance, but also loyalty and gratitude that goes deep into the bone marrow." "Loyalty is the willingness to give oneself and protect the well-being of the other person;Gratitude is the unwavering protection of your partner's wholeheartedness.
Good fate seems to be the favor of fate, but in the final analysis, it is still the fruit irrigated by two people with love.
I was touched by the story of a golden wedding couple. 72-year-old Uncle Gu and his wife Aunt Gao are a model couple, but their marriage is not all smooth sailing. More than 20 years ago, Aunt Gao was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer, and Uncle Gu's salary was not high, and he had to provide for several children to go to school.
Aunt Gao didn't want to drag down her family, so she refused for a while, but Uncle Gu resolutely opposed it and vowed to cure his wife's illness. While trying to make money, he sought medical treatment everywhere until Aunt Gao's condition improved.
After that, Uncle Gu made another bold decision - to take his wife on a trip. He bought a second-hand car and took his wife around whenever he had time, without interruption for 18 years.
Now, Aunt Gao's health is getting better and better, and she can take care of Uncle Gu in turn. The couple's story teaches us that marriage is not just about saying "I love you", but more importantly about supporting you in times of trouble and companionship in times of loneliness.
Recently, the couple Zhou Yiwei and Zhu Dan have also been on the hot search. In the variety show "Love's Study Trip", Zhu Dan accidentally mentioned that he was cheated out of his savings by a friend 9 years ago.
At that time, she was gullible and vouched for a friend, but her friend's business failed, and the debt of 10 million fell on her alone. Just when she was in despair, Zhou Zhouwei said to her: "It's okay, I'm going to make money to pay off my debts, we don't have a hurdle that we can't get over." "This story tells us that true love is perseverance and mutual support in the face of difficulties.
Once, everyone even doubted whether their relationship was sincere because the relationship between the couple was not close enough. However, the ** of this incident has deeply touched netizens: real marriage is never to show off love in front of people, but to support each other in the face of difficulties and never give up.
True love is a narrow door, many people give up halfway, and only a few are able to persevere to the end. Only by seeing the glitz on the surface and not making hypocritical performances can the road of marriage go smoothly and go long-term.
I would like to share with you a story that touched me deeply. In 1925, a girl developed feelings for her male classmate. She is a typical lady of a famous family, while the boy is a poor young man.
However, the girl still mustered up the courage to propose to the boy, but the boy rejected her, saying, "I am poor and may not be able to give you the happiness you want." However, this sentence did not make the girl back down, but strengthened her determination to marry the boy.
After marriage, they did encounter many difficulties, including the cold eyes of their families, the ridicule of relatives and friends, and financial difficulties. Everyone thought that the girl would regret it, but it turned out that she took on the responsibility of the family and fully supported her husband in his research.
And her husband did not disappoint her, and after several years of hard study, he finally became an expert in linguistics. When he got a job at the university and had a stable income, he in turn supported his wife in her studies.
A few years later, his wife also became a scholar in the field of Kunqu opera and became an artist. They are Zhou Youguang, the father of Hanyu Pinyin, and his wife Zhang Yunhe.
Some people say that love is the process of two people growing together. A good marriage is not only about taking care of life, but also about making us a better version of ourselves. Many people ask me, what kind of person is worth entrusting for life?
I will answer that person who understands your choice, supports you in pursuing your dreams, and helps you achieve your goals. If you want to succeed in your career, he will provide you with strategies to help you solve your worries;If you want to further your education, he will protect you from suspicion and create a quiet learning environment for you;If you want to return to your family, he will welcome you with open arms and give your heart peace.
A good partner is a seed, and a good marriage is a fruit. And the standard for judging all this is whether you have gotten better in your marriage.
Some see marriage as the end of love, while others compare it to a cage from which there is no escape. However, it is undeniable that many people find happiness and become a better version of themselves through marriage.
Someone once asked, "Why do people get married?"To this, Kazuo Inamori's answer is thought-provoking: "There is someone to consult when it is difficult, someone to accompany you when you are bored, and a table of delicious food waiting when you are tired." Life is long, and you always need a partner who knows your heart. ”
The road of life is full of ups and downs, and having someone who understands and cares about you can make it easier to walk.
A high-quality marriage is the salvation of life. May we all meet the right person, reap happiness, enjoy the three meals and four seasons brought by marriage, and taste the fireworks in the world. Let us encourage and make progress together.