If you fall in love with someone, how can you be willing not to let the other person know?But how dare you confess too presumptuously, and let the other party know everything in an uncertain situation?In love, the most feared thing is losing. So I'd rather go around in circles, go around the bend and go one more trip with my beloved, rather than let the relationship with each other have the risk of being forced to end before it has even begun. In the early stages of a relationship, two people tend to test each other. Trying to seek a certain possibility in the uncertainty through temptation. When a man falls in love with someone, he will be tempted. 
1. Get along with other members of the opposite sex to see if you are jealousMy younger brother got engaged, and I chatted with my prospective brother and sister, gossiping about who wanted to know who confessed first and what kind of beginning the love story had. The prospective brother and sister told me that the two of them were like friends at the beginning, often making appointments for dinner, and they didn't think about making the relationship develop in the direction of a couple at all. Until one day, Xi was used to being called by her brother every day to go to dinner together, and she didn't see her brother come to her for a long time, and when she paid attention, she found that her brother was very close to another female colleague in the unit. 
The younger brother and sister were very angry, and they didn't pay attention to their younger brother for a few days, and the younger brother confessed, saying that he wanted to see if he was with other women, and whether his younger brother and sister would be angry. In the world of love, two people have stability, and neither of them is willing to include a third person. Men know that women are born vinegar jars, and if women are moved by a person, they will unconsciously exclude other people of the opposite sex from approaching the person they like. Therefore, if you want to know whether a woman cares about herself in her heart, through such a temptation, it is easy to see. From a woman's point of view, if you find that a man who is originally close to you is deliberately mingling with other women in front of you, needless to say, he wants to attract your attention and arouse your disgust. And behind all these behaviors, it is to test whether you like him or not. 
2. Deliberately create an accident to see if you careThe experience of falling in love with my husband was bumpy. At first, I didn't accept him as my other half, so I was hesitant to show itBy the time I finally figured it out, he decided to retreat from our relationship. The relationship is deadlocked, and no one is willing to take the initiative to speak, bow to the other party and take a step back, and no one is willing to give up, and the other party has experienced, such a beautiful past. Just put each other in the position of friends. 
One day I was taking a nap at home when I received a message from him. He told me that he had gone on a blind date with another woman, but told me that it didn't turn out what he wanted and wanted me to give him some relief. Logically analyze a man's blind date with another woman, and in turn let the original woman similar to his predecessor comfort his emotions of failing the blind date, there is a high probability that he wants to provoke trouble. I was angry and told him that I was not happy, and he smiled, changed the conversation, and confessed to me that he wanted to be with me again. From specific things, a person's heart can be tested. Many men are well aware of this, so when the prey strikes, instead of taking the initiative to confess under the premise of high uncertainty, they usually create some incidents to test it first. 
Men will know that the attitude shown by a woman is the degree of care about him, if you don't ignore it, you don't care, anyway, you just care about it to the bones, and you will have more courage to develop the next step. The most helpless thing in love is that one person is obviously moved, but the other person doesn't mind at all. People's hearts are separated from their bellies, and there is no way to directly peek into their hearts. If a man takes you to heart, he will be in a hurry. I am anxious to confess to you, but I am afraid of your rejection, so I can only retreat to the next best, step by step to try to get closer to you, and determine your mind through your response. If the man who always likes to test your attitude happens to live in your life aesthetics, and you like and care about him, just take the initiative to respond, don't miss each other.