Sub-heading: Men who treat you as true love tend to have these manifestations.
My name is Lin Xin, I am Chinese New Year's Eve two years old and I come from a small city. I am a lawyer by profession who works hard and lives simply. In the first thirty years of my life, I never thought that love would bother me so much. Until I met him - Chen Hao, a man who made my heart flutter and make me miserable.
Chen Hao and I met at a business meeting when our two law firms were working together on a project. He's a criminal lawyer, and like me, he's worked his way up from a small city to the present. We had a lot in common and quickly became friends.
However, I found that my feelings for him were more than just friends. I began to care about his every move, his words and deeds. I tried to suppress my feelings, but the more I suppressed them, the more painful they became. I started to have insomnia, I started having nightmares, I started to lose my ability to concentrate on work.
When I was struggling, Chen Hao confessed his feelings to me. He said that he was attracted to my intelligence and independent spirit from the first time he saw me, and he kept a secret eye on me and protected me. Hearing his confession, I was both surprised and scared.
Pleasantly surprised, the man I like likes me too;Scary, I didn't know how to respond to his feelings. I tried to convince myself that it was just a dream that would go away as soon as I woke up. But every time I see him, I know it's true.
In our relationship, Chen Hao has always taken good care of me. He will give me comfort and support when I need it, and he will respect my decisions and support my work. However, his past and our future have always been a haunt to my heart.
Chen Hao has an ex-wife, and they used to have a daughter. Their divorce was not peaceful, and his ex-wife still resents him to this day. I knew I couldn't replace his past, I couldn't ask him to forget about them completely. However, whenever I think about his past, I feel immensely painful and helpless.
In this trouble, I tried to seek help from friends and family. They told me that I should live for my own happiness and not for the expectations of others. I began to understand this truth and began to face my feelings bravely.
In my relationship with Chen Hao, I found that true love is not perfection without flaws, but understanding and acceptance. I understand his past and present imperfections, and he understands my troubles and uneasiness. We support and encourage each other to face life's challenges together.
True love is not eternal passion and romance, but perseverance and companionship in the ordinary. Chen Hao and I have gone through that passionate period, and now we are more dependent and supportive of each other. We cooked, watched movies, chatted together, and enjoyed each other's company and the dullness of life.
True love is not selfless giving and sacrifice, but self-growth and perfection. I started to focus more on my career and personal growth, and Chen Hao started to work and live harder. We encourage and support each other to become better people together.
Now, I know that Chen Hao truly loves me, and he is willing to work hard for our future. I also know that I truly love him, and I am willing to accept his past and future. Our relationship has become more stable and healthy, and we have cherished each other's presence even more.
In the process, I understood the meaning of true love: not to be free from troubles and pains, but to choose to be together in the face of troubles and painsIt's not perfection without blemish, it's understanding and acceptance of each other's imperfections;Not eternal passion and romance, but perseverance and companionship in the ordinary;It is not selfless dedication and sacrifice, but self-growth and perfection.
Finally, I want to tell everyone who is struggling in love: don't be afraid of your troubles and pains that will make you stronger;Don't strive for perfection, but understand and accept each other's imperfections;Don't pursue passion and romance, but stick to and be there for each other;Don't sacrifice yourself, but encourage and support each other to become better people. Because this is true love – understanding and acceptance, perseverance in the ordinary, self-growth and perfection, courage to face distress and pain and choose to be together, this is the power of true love and the power that each of us can have.